The Chinese New Year is coming soon, how can you avoid the elders urging you to get married?

Everyone has heard the word urging marriage a lot. In ancient times, there were village gangsters in the family, but now they still urge marriage. Maybe this idea has been deeply ingrained in people's minds. For parents, it may be fun, but for those of us born in the 1990s, it is really difficult. Every time during the Chinese New Year, I feel very scared, and even don’t want to go home, because as soon as I return home I have to accept the warm hospitality of the seventh and eighth aunts. So, if your parents urge you to get married, what are the best ways to deal with it?

One: Respond calmly and hide if you can.

No matter what, our parents are doing it for our own good. Although we are very reluctant to go on a blind date, we try not to quarrel or have a head-on conflict with our parents, otherwise it will hurt our parents' hearts. So try to avoid your parents, don't be alone with them, whether you are going to play with good friends, or whatever, just hide if you can.

Two: White lies.

If you really can't avoid it, you can only find a way to deal with it yourself. If it really doesn't work, then I can only say that I already have a partner, but we just talked about it for a short time and haven't brought him home yet. Wait for a period of time and the relationship will be more stable before taking it back to your parents. In this case, your parents will probably not say anything.

Three: Make excuses for yourself.

If you are alone with your seventh aunt or eighth aunt, I think you will definitely collapse. During the Chinese New Year, there are many parties to attend, such as class reunions, or good friends having dinner and fun together. Find excuses to sneak out and don't be alone with them, so as to avoid having to deal with them yourself.

If you really can't bear it, then think about it and think that your parents are doing it for your own good, so you can reluctantly meet your blind date. . Because there are also many couples who got together because of blind dates.