After breaking up, my ex always sent me some unimportant news. What kind of psychology is this?

What else could it be? After he broke up with you, he felt bored and lonely before he found his next girlfriend. He hung you up just because you might still have feelings for him. I can see that the person who can ask this question still has feelings for his predecessor, regardless of whether the other person has feelings for you or not, but the person who asks this question must have never let go of his predecessor, and his (her) every move can be interpreted as whether he (she) still loves me.

There may be many people who think that they should not contact each other after separating from their predecessors. Since he (she) still sends messages from time to time, it means that he (she) may want to make up. I really can't bear to expose these people's love fantasies about their predecessors. The truth is cruel, maybe you don't want to accept it. But what I want to say is, don't have unnecessary expectations for your predecessor. He (she) sends you messages from time to time, either treating you as a spare tire or getting bored and leaving you alone.

I can understand what the person asking this question is thinking. It's just that they feel very painful after breaking up and want to give themselves some psychological comfort or spiritual support. But you have to understand, why did you break up Some people say it's personality incompatibility, others say it's parents' obstruction. In fact, the reasons for breaking up are untenable. The only reason is that one party's feelings are gone.

Think about it, the feelings are gone, so is it possible that he (she) sends you some unimportant messages from time to time because he (she) still loves you? If I really still love you, I wouldn't have broken up in the first place, so wake up.