What does it mean when a woman sends a text message to a man saying that he is busy with work during this period and wants him to take care of his body? The man replies thanking his wife for caring.

Every woman hopes to truly conquer a man's heart and wants him to love her forever, but she often fails to do so.

At this time, a woman may complain: "I have paid so much for you, why can't I get anything in return?" But she has forgotten that the moment you choose to humble yourself and pay, the end has already happened. It's doomed.

Women are different from men. Men may be more rational when they love someone, while women are often more emotional. As long as they fall in love with this person, she is willing to treat him with all her heart, even if she can't see it. She was happy with any reward and felt very happy, which meant that this relationship was unfair from the beginning.

In an unbalanced relationship, there will always be a tilt phenomenon in the end, that is, you give more and more, and the other party takes it less and less seriously. You think that you are not paying enough. But in fact, he is just used to your efforts and enjoying your kindness to her.

So, stop talking about why you still haven’t won his heart despite giving so much. First, look at your attitude in this relationship. This determines how a man treats you.

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In a relationship, it is also such a humble and giving gesture. She takes this relationship too seriously. She thinks that the other person is good at everything and is too good to be worthy of him. , so she would rather lower her attitude to love, just because she is afraid of losing him.

However, when it comes to relationships, you are always strong and I am weak. After you have given, I don’t want to give anymore. Juanzi’s ex also thinks the same way. He is used to Juanzi doing everything for him. For his own sake, he was used to Juanzi listening to him in everything, so he never listened to Juanzi's opinions and didn't want to understand Juanzi's thoughts.

In the beginning, she was trapped in sweet love, just enjoying the beauty of this love. Although she was occasionally disappointed, it would soon be diluted by his good points, but her efforts did not change her. Come to love each other wholeheartedly.

When she saw him shopping hand in hand with other women, she realized that the better you treat a man, he will just ignore it, and you will forgive him no matter what he does, then What else doesn't he dare to do?

In other words, your status in his mind is not that important. He does not love you that much. What he loves more is himself. This means that you have paid a lot for him, but he will still betray you. Your reasons, in fact, his attitude towards you, are all your acquiescence.

A woman who can't tolerate the shame in her eyes, even if she still loves him very much, even if she still can't let go of this relationship, but she knows in her heart that it's time to put an end to this love, and she chooses to break up with him .

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In love, your posture is very important. What you are like to him determines how he will treat you.

Can women pay for men? Of course you can, but the premise is that he will also pay for you, and he will also think about you, rather than your unilateral humble contribution. This is meaningless and will even leave the other party with "she can't live without me anyway." "Impression.

After falling in love, this time, she did not do everything for him or listen to his words like last time. Instead, she had her own opinion and would say it if she didn't like it. , will also have their own things to do.

Even if she is in love, she no longer just hangs around him, but runs her own circle, gatherings with friends and participating in various activities. In this way, she is getting better and better. The more you make the other person inseparable.

Every time she goes out to parties or activities, her boyfriend always sends her a coquettish message: "Are you really not going to give me some time? Are you so willing to let me go?"

This also shows that she is taking the initiative in this relationship and is no longer as passive as before, waiting for his time at all times, while he always leaves time for himself.

Some people think that if you don’t stick to the other person, the other person will leave, but this is not the case. Feelings also have a fresh period. The more clingy you are, the more annoying he will be. If you are a little distant from him, he will be more distant. They will cling to you, which is how you retreat and I advance in relationships.

Now she has a very good relationship with her boyfriend, who is very attached to her and is reluctant to leave her every time. Juanzi also feels that he is a reliable person, and the two of them plan to get married.

In a relationship, the most important thing is to correct your mentality. Don't always think that if you love him, you should give everything to him. If you love him, you should not care about anything. This just gives him the opportunity to not love him. Your excuse.

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Your attitude in relationships determines a man’s attitude towards you, really!

A woman's attitude in relationships is "giving", then she will keep giving, even humble to please, just to get a little love from the other person, and the little love she begs for will also be lost. Not necessarily reliable.

Don’t be so good to a man that he thinks you really have no temper. Make him feel that if he doesn’t treat you well, he will lose you.

Women should still maintain a "arrogant" attitude in love. This arrogance does not mean arrogance, but having your own pride. You have your own career and your own circle of friends, not He is the only one in life, and everything revolves around him.

With such a "arrogant" you, he will be afraid of your leaving, and he will cherish you even more!