How to refuse each other after blind date?

1, know the basic situation before dating.

When the introducer (matchmaker) or parents arrange a blind date for you, it is recommended to ask them for the other party's information in advance and ask them clearly. If the other person is not your type or is not suitable for other reasons, you can refuse directly.

2. Talk about some topics that the other person is not interested in.

If you feel inappropriate after meeting, I suggest you talk about some topics that the other party is not interested in, such as talking about your own professional topics and cosmetics. If the other person tries to change the subject, you can not answer, so that the other person's enthusiasm will naturally cool down and the other person will understand that you are not interested in him.

Step 3 find a suitable excuse

Find some suitable excuses to refuse the blind date, such as parents' disapproval, no common topic, height mismatch, not your type and so on.

4. Use other people's examples to refuse

When you find that the blind date is inappropriate, you can give an example in the chat. For example, you have a good girlfriend, and she also met a boy on a blind date. Because they are not in the right place, they are separated and not together. If the person you are dating is smart enough, he will understand what you are trying to say.

5. via SMS

It may be inappropriate and embarrassing to refuse in person. I suggest you send a text message to tell each other. You can explain why you don't like each other in a short message.

Step 6 keep your distance

If you find that the other party is still pestering you after you express an inappropriate signal, then you should pay attention to your behavior. Maybe you think you have made it clear enough, but the other party didn't receive it. Every time a blind date asks you out to play, you don't refuse, and the other person will feel that there is still a chance. So it's important to keep your distance.

Step 7 expose shortcomings

On a blind date, I sat on my knees in a Japanese food store. The woman was more than an hour late. My legs were numb when I was sitting. When she stood up, she almost lost her footing. As a result, she didn't even sit down. She just said, "I told you my legs were not good, so I wouldn't have to come." After that, she left. She thinks I'm bad.

8. Don't accept each other's gifts

When you find that the blind date is not suitable and can't be together, if you don't accept the gift from the other party, the other party will understand your signal, so don't accept the gift from the other party casually.