Why did my leader ignore me again?

You didn't communicate with the leader before, or you were always nervous when you saw the leader or simply pretended not to see it. Then he must think that you and he are just colleagues, and there is no need to smile every time I see you. Maybe he wants to improve his attitude towards you and sign it for you.

Later, after listening to your friend's words, you sent him a text message saying that you would come to thank him. This is a bit of a problem. First, don't send text messages first. If you want to thank him, you can go directly to his house. It's hard for him to accept and think you have a heart. Second, you said you came to thank you, which is probably a bit mysterious ... and you have to inform this in advance, which means there is something hidden. It is possible that your leader thinks you are a casual woman, he is a decent man, and will definitely look down on you. This may be one of the reasons for his indifference to you, or it may be that he has a wife who happened to see this short message you sent ... or he wants political discipline and wants to climb up. It was troublesome to give him a gift, so he refused with a cold face.

If you want to solve this problem, it's actually easy. Just honor your promise and give him a gift that is suitable for his help (this gift is best for his wife, and he can't refuse it). When he is at home with his wife at night and after childbirth, it is best not to make it public in the company.