The child's academic performance suddenly drops and his learning status is not active. What are the symptoms of a boy's puppy love?

Nowadays, most families have only children, and it is inevitable to feel lonely. When children have problems in their studies and life, they are more willing to talk to their peers. Especially children who enter adolescence are prone to become interested in the opposite sex, leading to a tendency to fall in love early, which affects their learning and their future. Some parents are very worried and don’t know how to solve it.

? What are the signs of boys’ puppy love? Academic performance suddenly dropped, and the learning status was not positive. The mood is unstable and changeable, often upset, sometimes excited, and sometimes irritable. The number of phone calls or text messages suddenly increases, the time spent answering calls becomes longer, and the person avoids family members. Suddenly I like to clean myself up and pay special attention to my appearance. Children who usually get out of school regularly may come early or late at an irregular time. Suddenly I am very interested in books and movies with love themes, and I like to discuss gender topics with others.

? How to discipline parents of boys who fall in love early? 1. Normal view. In fact, there is nothing surprising about children's early love. Every adult comes from that era and has an ignorant heart. So, don’t worry too much, just look at it rationally. In short, once a child falls in love early, as parents, we must not blindly blame and abuse, so as not to anger the child and make him rebel. Children who are in the process of character formation especially need positive emotions. Parents should provide guidance, such as rustling wind and rain, rather than negative reactions. 2. Respect privacy. Respect their privacy and don't open their letters and peek into their diaries. It is necessary to strengthen communication, communicate with them frequently, and be a trustworthy friend of children. Many parents secretly look at their children's mobile phones and diaries after their children are suspected of having puppy love problems. This kind of behavior will generally cause strong dissatisfaction in children, disrespect them, and even hurt their self-esteem. It will only make them more rebellious and may go astray. Therefore, parents should respect their children's privacy at all times. If they want to understand their lives, they should accompany them and chat with them more. Only when children put down their guard can they talk to their parents and tell their true feelings. 3. Spend more time with your children. During this time, parents can spend more time with their children, chat with them more, and listen to their opinions on "puppy love". Don't deliberately "preach", but encourage children to express their ideas and treat them with a peaceful attitude. In fact, the more openly and honestly parents talk to their children about adolescence, the more successful they are at helping their children demystify puppy love. 4. It is to strengthen sex education. If your child has had close contact with the opposite sex, you should calmly tell your child what to pay attention to during communication, and educate your child to manage their own behavior to prevent sexual behavior. Parents shouldn't feel embarrassed telling their children this kind of thing. Now that information is so developed, there are many ways for children to obtain this kind of information. Rather than letting children find out for themselves, parents should teach them the scientific knowledge about sex.