My wife received a call at noon and didn’t pick up the call until early in the morning. A drunk man died. Who is more responsible, the drinking buddy or his wife?

China’s wine culture has a long history. At the wine table, not drinking will be considered unsociable. If you drink, you may drink too much. Don’t drive when you drink, don’t drink when you drive. If you are drunk, there may be problems. A woman received a call and the other party told her that her husband was drunk, but the woman ignored the call. When we picked him up in the early morning, the drunk man was already dead. Personally, I feel that drinking friends have a greater responsibility.

1. Drinking friends have an unshirkable responsibility for the man’s death

You should not persuade someone to drink. The consequences of persuading someone to drink may be the fate of a drunk man. The man's wife felt that although her husband was a generous person, he would not have died if these people had not persuaded him to drink. Moreover, when he was sent to the hospital for rescue, it was discovered that his husband had died of suffocation due to vomiting after being drunk. The woman believes that if these people had not persuaded her to drink, her husband would not have such a problem.

The person who persuades people to drink feels that they are not at fault. In our customs, it is disrespectful to the visitor not to drink. Moreover, it was just a little persuasion, not much. Since I had been drinking and knew not to drive while drinking, I did not send the drunk man home. This is respect for customs and laws.

To say that I was wrong, the one who was even more wrong was the woman. I called her at noon and asked her to pick me up, but she didn't arrive until early in the morning. Regardless of the reason, the woman should bear some responsibility for the death of the drunk man. If she hadn't arrived late, the drunk man would not have died. What these people say is a bit unreasonable.

A woman has no obligation to pick someone up. A woman and her husband have conjugal obligations. If a woman needs to work late at night, does this responsibility belong to the woman? According to this statement, doesn’t a woman’s obligations extend infinitely? The man who persuaded him to drink said this just to reduce his own guilt. When trying to persuade someone to drink, you should expect such consequences.

If it was not expected, the drunk man should not be placed in a vehicle outside and then ignored. To do so is to allow drunken men to die, even though they did not intend to do so. From noon to early morning, it would be a breach of duty not to visit the man for such a long time.

Some people will say that the drunk man is just drunk and can still walk, which means there is not much problem with him. Teacher Luo Xiang once said, can a drunk person have independent civil capacity? From a legal perspective, a drunk person is a person with limited capacity. Therefore, what he says and does depends on the situation. We cannot simply think that we should believe what he says.

People who persuade people to drink should know this. If they don't know, then their approach is to allow such consequences to occur, and they should bear the corresponding consequences. Some people are aggrieved by them and feel that if this continues, who would dare to persuade someone to drink? What is the purpose of drinking? It's for the sake of friendship. As long as you have feelings, whatever you drink is wine! Therefore, it is wrong to persuade someone to drink alcohol!

2. People who encourage people to drink should pay the price for their actions

After drinking, many problems may occur. Whether it’s because you were unsteady and fell down, or you were “picked up” while lying on the road. We see a lot of this in the news. Therefore, those who persuade people to drink must be careful when persuading them to drink. As the saying goes: Drinking is risky, so be careful when persuading you to drink.

If you are not careful, you may take certain risks. The death of the drunk man has a certain relationship with the person who persuaded him to drink. Among the people they drank with, there were several people who did not persuade them to drink. Since there is no such thing, they will not bear any consequences. The person who persuaded him to drink said that he drank it himself and should he bear the main responsibility for his actions. Indeed, the drunk person bears the main responsibility, and the drinkers and organizers also need to bear the responsibility.

Some people may feel that if something happens to them while trying to persuade them to drink, they will have to pay for it. What was originally a good party, but it was too much of a loss for my property to be damaged just because I persuaded the party to drink. Legally speaking, this is indeed the case. The four legal definitions of persuading someone to drink are: forcing someone to drink, persuading someone to drink even though they know they cannot drink, failing to safely escort the drunk person, and driving under the influence without discouraging and causing damage.

In the case of the death of a drunk man, the drinkers and organizers violated Article 3, that is, they failed to escort the drunk man safely home. Any accidents that occur during this process are the fault of these people and they need to bear responsibility.

Some people said that if they knew that the other person was drunk and something went wrong during the escort to the hospital, would they also be responsible? It is also responsible.

Some netizens asked, if he died at home after being safely escorted home, would this be the problem of the drinker? You should also take some responsibility, because drunk people are not safe. The old custom that drinking too much is considered a good drink should have been abolished long ago. If something goes wrong after drinking too much, the drinker should bear the corresponding responsibility and teach these people a lesson.

After trial, the court held that the drinker should bear 5% of the responsibility and the organizer should bear 10% of the responsibility. According to the local living standards, the court made a ruling in accordance with the law and the organizer needed to compensate for all losses caused by the death12 More than 10,000 yuan, and the person who persuaded him to drink was compensated more than 60,000 yuan. Other claims filed by the deceased's wife were dismissed. What happened in this case was mostly caused by persuading people to drink alcohol.

If it weren’t for the behavior of the drinkers, this incident would not have happened, and there would not be so many problems. It can be seen from this that these people who persuade people to drink still do not understand the law. It doesn't matter if you don't understand the law; you still don't know the seriousness of the law. I only knew to follow my own will, but in the end I was punished by the law. Although it was not a loss of personal freedom, a large sum of money was also lost.

If you knew the law, you should be like the other people and not persuade people to drink. When you have nothing to do, don't watch short videos, read more legal books, or read more books, so that you can enforce the law and understand the law. Even if you don't understand, you can ask other people to avoid breaking the law in your life, resulting in Your own money is lost. As an adult, communication is necessary, but ineffective socialization is not necessary.

3. Don’t persuade people to drink when socializing

Social communication means that to live in this society, you need to communicate. The process of communication is also a process of increasing understanding. In "Celadon", Zhang Zhongping (played by Wang Zhiwen) and Yan Ruoshui (played by Zhang Guoli) also have social activities. When they are together, they mostly drink tea and play chess. Some people say that they are so elegant and ordinary people may not be able to do it.

It is not necessary for ordinary people to drink when they are socializing together. You can go out riding together. Middle-aged people riding together can not only enjoy the surrounding scenery, but also exercise and make friends. Although we are just friends on a journey, it is still a kind of fate. Everyone is a passer-by in someone else's life, right?

If you have to drink together, there is no need to drink heavily. There is no need to fight for wine! What is the purpose of drinking? Is it for fun? If that's the case, you might as well sing. Everyone sings together and it can liven up the atmosphere. Some people say that singing is out of tune, what should I do? As long as the purpose of adding entertainment is achieved, as for whether the singing is good or not, it's really not that important.

If you have been drinking, you need to pay attention. You need to send the other person home safely. You must let the other person's family take over. See that he is safe and sound, and the other person's family agrees before you can leave. In this way, it can be regarded as a process of drinking. If you miss a step, problems may arise. After something goes wrong, the other person's family is hurt, and you will feel sorry for yourself.

The best way is that since they are friends, the friendship between gentlemen should be as light as water. Everyone here is a guest, if you want to drink, no problem, just come by yourself. Don't encourage people to drink, don't make trouble. If something goes wrong, you are responsible for it. We are all adults, there is no need for those arrogant people to come here. Some people say, what about meeting a thousand-year-old fox? Look for Jiang Ziya, he can kill the nine-tailed demon fox.

As long as everyone is together, happy and peaceful. Middle-aged people are the backbone of the family and cannot be easily moved. If the pillars were moved, the home might collapse. Therefore, if you have to go to a drinking establishment, just follow one rule: don’t drink. If you must drink, don't get drunk. If there is someone who persuades you to drink, remember him. If something went wrong, he would never be able to escape. Some people say, isn’t this holding a grudge? Since these people want the beams of your house to collapse, do they have good intentions?

In the adult world, there is no such thing as easy. Everyone has a mountain on their back, and some have two. Therefore, being able to live happily is a kind of happiness. Whoever wants to break this happiness will suffer. Some people say that in this case, the relationship will be broken. Once it is broken, it will be broken. Anyone can live without it. What do you think of this? Everyone is welcome to leave a message and let’s discuss it together!