What should I do if I see ambiguous messages on my wife’s phone?

What should I do if I see ambiguous messages on my wife’s cell phone?

What should I do if I see ambiguous messages on my wife’s cell phone? In the process of getting along with each other, two people need to know some skills. Only in this way can problems between two people be better handled. Let me introduce to you the relevant information about what to do if you see ambiguous messages on your wife’s mobile phone. Let’s take a look. What to do if you see ambiguous messages on your wife’s phone 1

1. Understand the reasons for her ambiguity

As long as she is not a woman who is flirtatious in nature, she will not be able to communicate with anyone else. If there is ambiguity between the opposite sex, there must be a reason. Some women engage in ambiguity just for fun, while others feel empty because their husbands are not around, or their husbands are busy at work, or they are seduced by other members of the opposite sex, etc. If you find that your wife is flirting with another man on WeChat, first find out why she is flirting with you. If it is your fault, do your best immediately. If it is other reasons, think of ways to solve them one by one.

2. Determine the partner of her ambiguity

Men are angry when their wives are flirting with each other, but they are even more angry when they don’t know who the man is. When you think that the other party may be your buddy, your friend, or your colleague, you will feel very useless. So since you know that your wife is having an affair, you have a way to know. Whether you heard it through hearsay or saw it with your own eyes, you have to know who the other party is, or at least know the other party's code, so that you can take the following actions, right? Don't rush to get angry at your wife, don't make it public, quietly investigate and find out the general situation of the other party.

3. Don’t give her too much space

Many men and women engage in ambiguity, but it’s just because the husband and wife give her too much space. Everything is about giving the other person space, giving the other person a private space. Well, once there is space, the distance will also come out, and there will be problems in the relationship. Shrink your wife's space and shrink it again. She is your wife. Why do you give her so much space and time to have an affair with other men? She likes to shut up in the room alone with her mobile phone, and you are right next to her. She likes to talk quietly to someone on the phone, so just ask generously who it is. All in all, don't give your ambiguous wife too much so-called private space. You have to remember that for an ambiguous wife, your tolerance can only be seen as incompetence in her eyes.

4. Give her less so-called freedom

The year before last, there was a mother of two children here who used WeChat to elope with a divorced man here, leaving her two daughters at home. And that innocent husband. The husband dotes on his wife very much. As soon as her wife is unhappy, he will immediately squat outside the house and will not go in until her wife agrees to let him in. Sometimes her wife goes out for a few days at a time. When asked why she went out, she told her that she was traveling with her sisters. If she asked her more, she would be scolded to death. Let me tell you, such a wife is used to it. You don't care about her family, children, or husband, but she wants freedom and self all day long. Isn't that what she is used to? If you find such a wife ambiguous, quickly cut off her "freedom", first Take care of your home before talking about anything else.

5. Give her an indirect warning

As we have said, some women are ambiguous with other men. In fact, they do not want to betray their husbands or have an affair, but they just want to find someone to talk to. It was just a chat, but it turned into ambiguity without knowing it. If this is the case with your wife, then there are extenuating circumstances and you don't need to treat her too strongly, but it doesn't mean that you can just let it develop. In that case, it may not develop to what extent. Besides, you, a grown-up man, can you really turn a blind eye? When facing a wife whose ambiguity is not very serious, give her an indirect warning, such as saying that she reveals something while chatting with her. What do you think of a woman who is flirting with you? If you put it more seriously, let her know. I estimate that under normal circumstances, she will immediately find a way to resolve the ambiguous relationship, which may be mature or immature.

6. Stay with her as much as possible when you go out

Dudu doesn’t understand. You said that if a good couple doesn’t live a good life, how can they be ambiguous with others? Those who go too far are adults. Let's go on a date, elope or something. I don't understand, but it doesn't mean that this kind of thing is rare. Look around us, this kind of thing is not a strange thing. When you find out that your wife is having an affair with another member of the opposite sex on WeChat, and you feel a little trapped. And your wife also has many excuses to go out alone. So, I suggest that you accompany your wife as much as possible when she goes out. Of course, the reason for accompanying you must be stated in a nice and tactful way, so that she will not feel your true "intentions" and it can also serve the purpose of monitoring her. And at some point, it can be considered a warning to your wife. What to do if you see ambiguous messages on your wife’s phone 2

If you find someone sending ambiguous messages to your wife after you get married, but your wife doesn’t pay attention to him or respond to him, then in this case, You may not have to worry about your wife cheating on you. However, as a husband, you should at least take the initiative to stand up and protect your wife at this time, and stop letting her be harassed by irrelevant people.

You can use your identity to warn the person who sent your wife ambiguous messages so that he will not do so again in the future. Of course, in order to take into account your wife's social life, you can also use a more tactful way to give a sideways warning to that person, asking him to retreat and stay away from your wife.

However, if you find that someone sends an ambiguous message to your wife, and your wife responds to him. In this case, even if your wife does not reply to the other party's ambiguous words, as long as she responds to the other party, it means that she has recognized the ambiguous relationship with the other party from the heart, which also means that she has mentally cheated and betrayed you. It is actually quite scary for a woman to cheat on her mentally. The first time you find out that she has cheated on you, you must find a way to win her back. You can sit down and have a good communication with her to see where the problems between you are. When there is a problem in your marriage, you must solve the problem in time. Don't take it seriously, and don't try to make peace with it by evading it. After all, marriage is a matter between two people, and running a good marriage requires the joint efforts of two people.

Should you control someone who sends ambiguous messages to your wife?

Of course you should.

Marriage does not tolerate any form of betrayal. If after getting married, you find that your partner is having an ambiguous relationship with someone else, if this problem cannot be dealt with in time, your marriage will eventually be in crisis. Therefore, whether a man or a woman, do not underestimate the ambiguous relationship in marriage. If you find someone sending ambiguous messages to your wife, no matter whether your wife responds to him or not, as a husband, you cannot just sit idly by and ignore it.