Q: Being cheated by married love rat gave rise to feelings. After being discovered by his wife, love rat disappeared, never answering the phone or answering text messages.

I think it's a waste of life if you bother to think about how to get back at him, how to embarrass him and how to get back at him. In this process, you will be more angry, more entangled in spirit, and your life will become more chaotic and worse. You should ignore his existence, treat him as a stranger, and say hello when you see him in the company. This rational calmness and indifference is the best response to him and to himself. Let's have a good mood and have a good start today. You can't always relive this disgusting feeling today just because you ate something disgusting yesterday. Even thinking about it tomorrow and telling others will only make you feel worse. Not smart or rational. I hope you are a woman who is responsible for herself! I wish you happiness!