How sad is it to have no money?

A migrant worker worked for 8 months, but his boss didn’t give him a penny, so he kidnapped the boss’s son. Although the children were safe and there were no serious consequences, the migrant workers still cannot escape legal sanctions.

This migrant worker is the only breadwinner of the family

His mother suffers from a serious heart disease and cannot live without medicine for a day. His children also need money to go to school, and he also has a younger sister who is mentally ill because of a broken relationship. He couldn't let his sister run around the streets with disheveled hair every day. He wanted to treat her illness.

He worked at his boss's construction site for eight months, but did not get a penny. He asked his boss several times to advance some money, even a few hundred, to meet his urgent needs.

But every time he asked his boss for money, his boss would look impatient. Every time before he could say a few words, his boss would call the security guard and drive him out of the office.

Finally, he couldn't bear it anymore and kidnapped the boss's son. After kidnapping the boss's son, he regretted it again. In fact, he could have run away at that time, but he was afraid that something would happen to the child alone.

He was also afraid of leaving the child behind. He would be afraid alone. He kept the child in his arms. When the police appeared in front of him, the child was sleeping soundly in his arms.

He was sentenced to five years. I think everyone will feel sorry for him. After all, he still has no money and does not understand the law.

Otherwise, he would not have paid such a high price. He was sentenced to five years. How would he live in his precarious home?

Just when the judge is about to announce his resignation, wait! An old man's voice came from the auditorium: I have something to say. Everyone followed the sound and saw an old woman in her sixties, the grandmother of the kidnapped child, and the mother of the construction site boss.

Everyone took a breath and thought that the old woman might have other conditions, because the kidnapped child was the old woman’s favorite grandson and the only one among her grandchildren. boy.

Since her grandson was kidnapped, the old woman has been ill and everyone in the auditorium is a little nervous. Everyone knows that migrant workers have nothing. If the old woman puts forward additional conditions, will the migrant workers still be able to afford it?

The old man stood up slowly, the corners of her mouth trembling. She walked up to the migrant workers, bent down, and bowed deeply three times.

The hall was suddenly silent. The old woman’s action left everyone speechless. When the old woman bent down and bowed deeply to the migrant workers, everyone was stunned. Even the old woman's boss' son thought that his mother must be old and confused.

After bowing, the old woman raised her head, her face already covered with tears. She slowly said to the migrant worker: My child, this first bow is my apology to you on behalf of my son. , it was my fault in raising my son that caused him to do something sorry for you. It is my son who should be punished, not you.

My second bow is to apologize to your family on behalf of my son. My son is not only sorry for you, but also sorry for your family. He is the culprit. I did not educate my son well. I have Shame!

This third bow, you have a kind heart. Thank you for not hurting my grandson or leaving a psychological shadow on my grandson. Your kindness is a hundred times stronger than my son.

The old woman's words were full of meaning, which moved everyone present. But the migrant workers burst into tears after listening to the old woman's words. Are they moved? Or regret?

How sad is it to have no money?

Because this migrant worker had no money, he took a desperate risk and kidnapped his boss’s son. This is the tragedy of having no money.

A migrant worker kidnapped his boss’s son. Although there were no serious consequences, he still could not escape legal sanctions.

But the ending was good. The old woman’s son not only paid all the wages, but also took the migrant worker’s mother and sister to a hospital in the city for treatment.

The old man’s tolerance and righteousness saved his son’s soul. Those three bows are not only for the migrant workers, but also for her son. She is telling her son with her actions, and also telling us that we should not do things that violate our conscience.

My ex-wife called me today and asked me why I didn’t enroll my child in a cram school. I replied that I didn’t have money. She scolded me on the phone for more than twenty minutes.

You are not a man.

What is the meaning of your life?

Just hit the wall.

Thankfully I opened my eyes early and left you, this piece of trash.

After a lot of unpleasant words, I asked her, do you have anything else? If not, I'll hang up.

She said, yes, don’t worry yet.

Then came the scolding.

I explained that it wasn’t that I didn’t want to make money, but I couldn’t do many jobs with a child, and because my abilities were limited, big money was out of my reach.

She said, there are many people who take care of children, but I have never seen anyone like you!

If you don’t have the ability, you have no ability. You still have the nerve to make excuses. No wonder it’s garbage.

I'm so angry. If you have money, please give me one. But it was agreed that during the two months of summer vacation, I would have to work to earn money, and transportation would also be a problem.

She didn't answer, but continued to scold.

There are many people who can still make money with their children, why can’t you.

I was also a little angry and spoke a little arrogantly.

Then why don’t you bring it?

The ex-wife replied: You asked for it, but you didn’t take good care of it.

When I heard this, I felt even more unhappy.

You are the one who wants the divorce, and you are the one who wrote the divorce agreement. Who will own the child? Have I changed a word?

There was silence for a moment, and then the scolding began again.

Why should I divorce you? Isn’t it because you don’t make money?

I can’t believe that you are still such a coward after so many years of divorce.

In more than twenty minutes, there was actually only one theme: if you have no money, you deserve it; if you have no money, you are garbage.

This is still my ex-wife.

In the end, I got angry and said to her, "You are someone else's wife. Does it have anything to do with whether I have money or not?" If it affects you, I still owe you.

The answer over there is that it has nothing to do with me, but it has something to do with my son. I was really unlucky for eight lifetimes in my last life because of a piece of trash like you.

I have been divorced for six years.

This is what I have experienced, the sorrow of having no money.

1. Without money, there is only struggle in life, struggle for food and a place to live.

2. Without money, there is no choice. There is no cure for illness; no job options.

3. Without money, you cannot hold your head high in front of others. Others look down on you and walk around.

4. If you don’t have money, don’t talk about relationships. Love and friendship will be far away, and even your parents and children will turn against you.

5. If you don’t have money, you will be bullied. Because he was poor and had no money to fight the war.

6. Without money, there will be no next generation, because no one wants to suffer poverty with you.

7. Without money, there is no difference between human beings and animals. They worry about three meals a day every day.

8. Without money, you are surrounded by evil people and contradictions.

9. Without money, there is no hope, no ambition, and more and more lack of motivation.

10. Without money, life is full of helplessness and necessity.

11. The less money people have, the more stubborn they are; the less money they have, the more they want to get rich overnight; the less money they have, the more unrealistic illusions they have. These things will make the poor even poorer.

12. If you don’t have money, your time and dignity will be sold to capital and used as tools.

13. Having no money is too uncomfortable, so hurry up and make money!

There was a saying in a sketch by Zhao Benshan and Xiao Shenyang that the saddest thing is that when a person dies, the money is not spent; when the person is still alive, the money is gone! This sentence has become a classic that people discuss after dinner!

There is a saying that money is not everything, but money is not everything; money can make ghosts grind, but ghosts without money will not open the door! Money plays an important role in people's daily lives!

Therefore, most people yearn for money; it is understandable that people cannot live without it in their daily lives! It indeed plays a most important role in this materialistic society! Without money, you may have no choice but to look at the sky and sigh. It is not unreasonable for a penny to stump a hero! But we have no ability to change this ironclad fact! What to do? Although money is important, no one is important; you cannot buy your life against fate and lose yourself; how many people in a person's life have lost themselves because of money, and how many people have lost themselves because of money; for most ordinary people, No matter how much money you have, just enough is enough!

The important thing is to realize the value of life! Have a healthy body and a good mentality; live well, don't worry about money, don't worry about things; don't worry about love, figure it out, understand it thoroughly; you will be the big winner in life!

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How sad is it to have no money? I'm telling you something true. In our unit, there is an employee who is in his 40s. His father died young. He has a mother who is nearly 70 years old, and a sister who is four years younger than him and suffers from epilepsy. living expenses) and didn’t start a family until very late. After marriage, there are no children. My wife is from a rural area, and her family is also very poor. Her father died when she was young, and she has an old mother (over 70 years old, from rural areas, with no pension. She has been living in the countryside). She has no brothers or sisters, and has no formal job. She works in Wumart Supermarket. , more than 3,000 yuan a month. He works in a central enterprise as a senior worker and earns a good salary. Although the population is large, the money earned by two people can still allow the whole family to live a peaceful life. In 2017, this man passed away due to illness, leaving behind a two-bedroom apartment allocated by his work unit. His mother and sister lived in the same room. The wife felt that her husband had died and she was alone. Her mother was getting older and her health was getting worse, so she took her mother over and they lived in the same room.

After my brother died, my mother and sister felt that my sister-in-law was an outsider, and my sister-in-law's mother was even more of an outsider. Without the ties of grandchildren, the family relationship basically disappeared. In this case, his mother and sister disliked his sister-in-law for bringing their mother over because it used to be that his sister-in-law was at work and the family was just mother and daughter. Now that there was an old lady, they felt confused and upset. After my sister-in-law went to work, she let the old lady play in the courtyard outside. After locking the door, the two women went to pick up rags and sell them to make money to support the family. Spring and autumn are okay, neither hot nor cold. There are many people in the courtyard. There is a small playground with exercise equipment, seats and shade. Although there is shade from trees in summer, it is not very pleasant due to mosquito bites and constant heat and sweat. Winter is even worse, with howling north wind and severe cold. It works for a short time, but over time, you can imagine the feeling. Some kind-hearted people gave the old lady a scarf and a coat. However, if you can block the temporary coldness of the weather, how can you block the coldness and chill in your heart? The old lady often sheds tears. Some people also reported to the street community that housework was very difficult to persuade. The old lady is like this, all year round, while her daughter goes to work, she wanders alone in the courtyard, keeping warm in the leeward corner where the sun shines. You can have dinner with your daughter in the morning and evening. If your daughter doesn't come back at noon, the old lady will just eat a piece of bread or a cold steamed bun, and bring a bottle of water with her to dry. Especially when it rains or snows, everyone goes home, leaving an old lady who can only seek shelter in the foyer or the doorman. I can't afford to buy or rent a house (in this area, the rent for a one-bedroom building is more than 2,000 per month). Three years later, in 2020, the matter was resolved through court mediation: the mother and daughter gave their sister-in-law 70,000 yuan, and the sister-in-law took her mother, left this home, and returned to her hometown. Looking at this lonely old lady, the employees talked a lot: Really, there is nothing wrong with the disease; there is nothing, and you can't live without money! Life without money is really miserable!

One night two months ago, it was drizzling.

I was on duty at the company, and when I was bored, I called a doctor friend of mine and wanted to ask him out for a late-night snack.

As a result, I called and found out that he was also on duty tonight. I asked him on the phone if he was busy. If he was not busy, I would walk by and sit in his clinic in a while.

He told me on the phone: "It's a rainy day and there are not many patients, so it's not busy at all. I'm writing medical records, come on!"

I said: "Then Okay, I'll go find you later. I just had a physical examination two days ago. I'll bring the physical examination report with me. You can take a look at it for me." After that, I hung up the phone.

After work, I bought him a late-night snack from next to the company, and bought a cup of milk tea for each of the beautiful nurses, and then drove to the hospital to find him.

After arriving at the hospital, he was immersed in writing medical records. When he saw me coming in, he raised his head and smiled and asked me to sit down. He first went to deliver the milk tea to the infusion room nearby, and then came back to take my physical examination report and read it carefully.

After reading it, he said to me with a solemn face: "You still need to lose weight! The blood lipids are a bit high and there is moderate cirrhosis of the liver. These are very dangerous signals and must be aroused enough." You must not take my words seriously. If it continues, the consequences will be serious."

I smiled awkwardly and said, "It's decreasing, it's decreasing... …”

At this moment, the door was pushed open. I saw three people who looked like migrant workers rushing in with panicked expressions. The two people on the side were supporting the middle person on the left and right, while the person being supported was covering his stomach with his hands in pain. All their clothes were soaked by the rain, and the rain was dripping along their hair, clothes corners, and trousers legs on the white floor tiles.

I quickly stepped back and made room for them in front.

Their chests were rising and falling, and they were breathing heavily. It was obvious that they had come at a trot along the way. At this time, the migrant worker on the left said anxiously to my friend: "Doctor, please see what's wrong with him quickly? After dinner, he suddenly had a stomachache and rolled on the bed."

The friend waved to the migrant worker who was holding his stomach to sit down first. He reached out and touched the migrant worker's belly, pressed it a few more times, and asked him a few questions before he said, "I'm preliminary It is judged that it is acute appendicitis, but we still need to take an X-ray to confirm. If it is confirmed that it is acute appendicitis, we will need to be hospitalized for surgery.”

I heard that I will be hospitalized and may need surgery. , the migrant worker who was still sitting on the stool suddenly struggled to stand up, gritted his teeth and said: "Doctor, I know my own body. I just have a stomachache, nothing serious. Please prescribe some medicine for me. That's it. I won't do any examinations or operations. I have to work tomorrow."

My friend is well-informed, so he said calmly: "Sit down first. , I know you are worried about money. But if you are sick, you have to treat it. It is not a matter of money. How can you work if your body is broken? This disease is not terrible if it is detected in time. If it is treated properly, it will be cured in a few days. Yes. I suggest you take a picture first and then move in. We will decide whether to do surgery based on the specific situation tomorrow. But if you delay treatment, the consequences will be very serious."

The two co-workers who came with him, who were probably his co-workers, also looked embarrassed when they heard this. However, the migrant worker with abdominal pain still refused to be hospitalized or take a X-ray. He insisted on asking a friend to prescribe him some medicine.

He said with a painful look on his face: "Doctor, please stop talking. I won't be hospitalized. My family is still waiting for me to make money to support them. I can't lie down, I lie down What should they do? Besides, I really have no money."

Seeing that he couldn't help it, his friend had no choice but to give him two boxes of medicine and told him if the situation would be better tomorrow morning. If it doesn't get better, you must pack your things and come to the hospital quickly.

The three people nodded and said they understood, and the other person went to get the medicine. After returning from getting the medicine, they thanked their friends and then helped the migrant worker up one by one and turned around. Walking into the drizzle...

Watching their backs gradually disappear, my friend sighed and said to me: "It's really not easy for migrant workers nowadays! It's not easy for people without money. Ah! I don’t dare to get sick because I can’t afford it, and I don’t dare to fall down because I have a family to support. It’s so sad, so sad..."

We chatted for a while, and then I got up and said goodbye and went home. .

On the way home, I was driving with so many thoughts in my mind. My friend’s last words kept lingering in my mind, and I couldn’t get rid of them...

Yeah, he's absolutely right. In this world, there is nothing but money. You can have everything except illness.

What is even more tragic than these two situations is that having no money ends up getting sick.

Especially for those migrant workers who work hard at the bottom of society, every penny they earn is hard-earned money. They are reluctant to eat or wear because they have families to support behind them.

They don’t dare to get sick, and they don’t dare to go to the hospital when they get sick, because they can’t afford the disease or treatment. It’s sad, sad.

Finally, I hope that society can see the difficulties of migrant workers at some level and establish a sound social medical security system so that migrant workers working in other places can also enjoy the most basic medical security. Only in this way can they contribute to the construction of the city in a foreign land with peace of mind. What do you think?

My 4-year-old daughter needed hospitalization for pneumonia, but her salary had not yet been paid. I had to wait until the next day’s salary was paid before taking my daughter to the hospital for treatment. This matter is always painful in my heart. Every day. When I think about it, I want to slap myself in the face.

On December 10, 2017, we bought our first car. The down payment was 64,000 yuan. The remaining loan was paid off in three years, with monthly repayments of 1,750 yuan.

On the day I picked up the car, I still had 80 yuan left in my hand. I thought there were still 5 days until my salary was paid, so I gritted my teeth and passed it. The worst I could do was not eat meat or give it to my children these days. Buy some fruit.

But something unexpected happened. My 4-year-old daughter suddenly fell ill. She developed a high fever without any warning, and the temperature was over 39 when the fever started. At that time, we had antipyretics at home. Whenever my daughter’s temperature came up, I would give her some antipyretics and anti-inflammatory medicines at the same time.

However, my daughter has not gotten better. According to my daughter’s experience every time she has a fever, she usually has a high fever for three days and then slowly starts to get better. However, that time she had a fever for four consecutive days, and Later, I started to cough and feel a little breathless.

On December 14, 2017, I took my daughter to the maternal and child health hospital in the community. After registering, I ran to the doctor's office.

At that time, the doctor only asked a few simple questions, and the doctor said: "Where do you feel uncomfortable?"

I said for my daughter: "I have had a fever for four consecutive days. Every time The fever is around 39, and I started to cough and have some wheezing yesterday."

The doctor told the daughter: "Child, please cough twice and let your uncle listen."

Daughter. At the doctor's instruction, she coughed twice, and then the doctor placed one end of the stethoscope on her daughter's chest. Then the doctor said: "The breath is a bit severe and has turned into pneumonia. It is recommended that you be hospitalized for treatment, and you must go to the hospital for treatment." Although we can be hospitalized here at the Municipal Children’s General Hospital, the medicines are not as good as those at the Municipal Children’s General Hospital.”

After hearing what the doctor said, I burst into tears of regret. If I had known this, I should have done it a long time ago. I took my daughter to the hospital for medical treatment. When the doctor saw me like this, he advised me: "Don't be anxious or sad. It's normal for children to get sick. It's just that your child has turned from a common fever to pneumonia. You'd better take your child to the Municipal Children's General Hospital as soon as possible." Bar.

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I walked out of the hospital with my 4-year-old daughter in my arms and called my husband crying. I said, "The doctor said that my daughter has contracted pneumonia. We must be hospitalized and go to the Municipal Children's General Hospital. Go ahead, tell me what to do? "

My husband was silent on the other end of the phone, because hospitalization required money, and we only had 80 yuan. Later, my husband sighed: "Do we still have medicine at home? How is your daughter's mental state? Can you survive until tomorrow? Wages are due tomorrow. ”

At that moment, my heart was sad.

I don’t know what kind of mood I had when I went home that day. When I was at home that day, my husband and I Neither of them spoke. He used the 80 yuan he had left to buy a few pineapples to boil water for the child. I wiped the child's body every half an hour. Neither my husband nor I slept that night. < /p>

I don’t know what my husband is thinking. Anyway, I feel depressed all over. I think a lot: “Why should I buy a car and why should I be penniless? How could I live such a failure? It’s really a shame for poor and humble couples! ”

The next day, December 15th, was the day when wages were paid. In addition to taking care of our daughter, my husband and I just stared at the text messages on my phone. Every time the text message rang, I immediately checked to see if the wages had arrived. But the salary didn’t arrive until noon in the morning.

Then my husband and I took an online taxi and went straight to the Municipal Children’s Hospital. Thank God. Finally, we arrived at the Municipal Children’s General Hospital and successfully registered and arranged for hospitalization. For a whole week, my husband and I stayed with our daughter in the hospital.

At that time, the doctor said. : “How come the child is so seriously ill before he even thinks of sending him to the hospital? You parents are really big-hearted. ”

What the doctor said made my husband and I want to find a crack in the ground to crawl into.

At that time, neither my husband nor I had ever applied for a credit card, nor had we used any borrowing or credit cards in Ant. Huabei, I didn’t even think about borrowing money from others. Anyway, I just made my sick daughter last for another day before going to the hospital. Fortunately, I am a biological mother, otherwise I would be afraid that others would say that I abused my child.

Since this incident, I have developed a habit. I will prepare 30,000 emergency funds at home at any time. No matter how big the matter is, as long as it does not involve life or death, I will prepare it. It is impossible to use the emergency savings at home.

How sad is it to have no money? I think that although money is not everything, there are very few things that money cannot buy or can do. < /p>

When the school holds various activities and other children actively participate in talent shows, but your child does not have any talents that can be used because he has no money to attend interest classes, you will find that he cannot do it without money. .

When your relatives, friends and colleagues take advantage of May Day or National Day to travel with their children to gain experience, you will also find that it is impossible to have money.

< p> When an elderly person at home is sick and hospitalized and needs a life-saving surgery fee, you will find that it is really impossible to have no money.

So for the sake of your children to be on the same starting line as others, and for the sake of your family. The elderly will have something to rely on when they grow old in the future. I think it is right to work hard to make money. Don't always think about lying down, let alone enjoy ahead of time. The hardships you endure now are all laying the foundation for not having worries in the future. So. Without further ado, roll up your sleeves and work hard!

In the real world, the rich are the minority and the poor are the majority.

If we were all rich people, there might be no one to do many jobs. No one would be jealous of me, whether it was civil servants, foreign companies, or those in the system, and no one would fight for it. Anyway, I have money. It doesn’t matter what I do, as long as it is in line with my interests.

In today’s society, most people are busy making money. Money is the first factor in survival and life. It is precisely because of lack of money. Be willing to work hard to earn money. If you have money, who may not be blessed?

It is not sad to have no money. As long as you use your wisdom and talents to support yourself or your family, you are worthy of pride! matter.

What does it mean to be rich? What does it mean to have no money? As for whether it's sad or not, how do you feel about it? I don't have money, but I don't feel sad at all. I have no problem living a normal life and I feel very satisfied. If you play with landscapes, show style, eat and drink, and play with ostentation, I would never dare to think about being rich like this.

It is sad to have no money. Not only is it sad to have no status, let alone power, but in today's society, there are only a few people who have no money and are like beggars. And how much money is called having no money? , there should be a bottom line. If the question seems to be penniless, then answer it as if you only have 10 yuan.

I have no money to pay for my mobile phone, and I can’t spend the 50 yuan in it. I don’t have a passbook in the bank, and I don’t have much cash in my trouser pocket. At this point, I can say that I am completely useless and listless. , I keep my head down when I go out, avoid people when I see them, I have no job, I have nowhere to pick up the trash, I don’t dare to speak when I meet my friends, I can only look at beautiful women quietly, and I don’t have the shame to see my parents, brothers and sisters at this time. If you have no money, your friends, colleagues, etc. will not take you seriously, and they think it doesn’t matter if you are in this world or not.

I think it is temporary for a person to have no money. There are more or less reasons. People can be without money temporarily, but it does not mean that they will be without money for a lifetime. Besides, everyone has money. It's not something that falls from the sky and is picked up. It's all earned through blood and sweat. Others can do it. Why can't you earn it? Find out the reason carefully and you should wake up.

Having no money is sad, especially in this society where money is traded for material things. You can’t do anything. You can’t blame the society, you can only blame yourself for your own incompetence. You might go hungry every day. Here's the ton, not begging for food means you still want to be proud, but I think that as long as a person's will is not broken, his body is still strong, and his dignity is not broken, he should be able to stand up with his chest held high. Why not, unless he is lazy or something? If you are not willing to do it, or have completely lost confidence in yourself, then just wait until aliens come to help you.

People without money are worse than ghosts, and they are too lazy to talk. After my business failed, I was so poor that I didn’t even have money to buy rice. When my relatives and friends saw me, they hid like they were seeing a devil, for fear of borrowing money from him. Participate in other people's weddings and weddings, no one wants to sit at the same table with me. Because I wash a basket of diapers that my Alzheimer’s mother changes every day, and they may smell. In the twelfth lunar month of 2008, a heavy snowfall disrupted traffic, and the bamboo piled at the door could not be transported out. So I had to borrow 100 yuan from my neighbor to celebrate the New Year, which really felt like "a penny can force a hero".