The day after tomorrow is my ex-boyfriend's birthday. We've been apart for two months. Should I send my blessing?

If I were you, I would send my best wishes, because I don't think I can forget him in just two months. I believe he is waiting for my blessing, so I will choose my blessing.

But I don't want you to do the same, because I can't control my feelings, so I will do what I want from the heart. But I know this is a wrong decision. After all, the relationship is over. If you choose him aimlessly again, choose to give him the best blessing and give him the last bit of dignity, the result will only be to let him continue to run amok in your world.

If you really like this person, then I have decided that no matter how much you suppress your feelings, it will break out one day. You might as well stay with him silently as you just met him. In this way, even if the relationship ends, I am still a friend, and he won't have much reason to do whatever he wants in your world.

Because two months is too short to forget the person you once liked, so don't suppress your feelings. There is nothing to express. After all, like is like, and there is no need to hide it. The more you want to hide your feelings, the more you will make others feel. Since I haven't forgotten, it's nothing to wish him a happy birthday as a friend. On the contrary, if you don't bless him, he will think you are afraid and you shrink back. Such a calm thing should be faced very calmly.

If you don't love, this kind of blessing may be just a sentence to you, and you don't need a deliberate blessing. But if you still love, there will be an uncontrollable feeling in your heart. Don't bless yourself, lest he see that he has not forgotten his feelings. The more you worry about something, the more it will happen. If you don't care about these rumors, you don't care what he thinks. Then follow your heart. If you remember, say happy birthday. If you happen to forget his birthday, there is no need to bless him. Everything can be so calm, and I hope you can be so calm.

Feelings can't be forced, so whatever decision you make is the same to us. The most important thing is whether this decision can make you happy or change your life. If you want to, then you should respect your own ideas, and dare to love and hate is the most perfect.

Of course, everyone has their own life, and how to make a decision depends on their own ideas. After all, not everyone can stand the torture after this breakup. If you can't accept it, then ignore it and save yourself from touching your original past. Since you don't want to think about it, don't touch it easily.