My husband is hot and cold to me and won't return my message. Sometimes when I ignore him, he will persistently please me. I was angry and he didn't care.

This is because in the world of husband and wife's feelings, after years of fighting, feelings will eventually be dull. But men don't want their family to collapse, so they will try their best to please their wives after ignoring them and making them angry. This is the real contradictory psychological state of boys. In fact, many families will encounter such a thing, not that men don't love women, but that life has lost romance and passion, and feelings have become less fresh. Therefore, middle-aged couples should create some romance from time to time, so that they can last forever, and your husband will naturally be better to you!