Many couples face this situation. If the person they like doesn't reply to your message, do you still want to send it?

Many couples face this situation. If the person they like doesn't reply to your message, do you still want to send it? If this happens, you'd better wait for a while to avoid misunderstanding. Nowadays, when many men are chasing women, they always like to start with chatting. They usually choose to establish a good chat relationship with women first. If they like, they can chat with each other, then they will feel that this woman is suitable for them and can chase after them. In fact, there is another situation of chasing women like this, that is, sometimes they send messages to each other and the other party does not return. What should we continue to do in this situation?

Don't reply to information for objective reasons. If the other party doesn't reply to the information immediately, it is likely to consider whether the other party can't reply to himself for objective reasons. For example, the meeting has been held. Take a shower and eat with customers. Drive. The cell phone is dead and turned off. This objective reason is possible.

1. The crisis of trust may also be caused by objective reasons.

During this period, mobile phones have occupied a huge proportion of people's lives. In order to better reduce these unnecessary interference, people will reject some people on the grounds of these objective factors. I firmly believe that if your lover rashly tells you the reason, you will easily cause distrust.

If this insecurity is caused, it will be difficult to eliminate it. Under these objective factors, it is impossible to carry out reasonable and effective identification and verification. This requires us to accumulate some contradictions and trust crises in our later life.

Don't hurt your mood because of doubt.

In real life, this objective factor often becomes an excuse, because this kind of thing is too common in daily life. You can't deny that this kind of thing will happen, and it often happens.

I have seen a classic example before: a boy went home and got stuck in a traffic jam later than expected. The wife thought her husband had gone home, just making excuses outside and calling all the time. Send a message to urge him to go home as soon as possible. My husband, who was already on the highway at that time, was very upset. In the process of replying to the message, he accidentally had a car accident. His last words before he died were: I was already on the highway. Don't rush me!

So, if you are not sure about the authenticity of the uncertainty, you don't have to guess at will. Although similar examples in life are accidental, this constant tracking and verification of personal behavior and insecurity will still damage each other's emotions.

3. Deal with the crisis of trust and correct mental state.

What should I do if I can't reply to my lover immediately because of objective reasons? At this time, it is best not to send him any more messages until the other party is really convenient, and then communicate step by step. For this matter, you need to be clear about your psychological state and learn to let go of these meaningless negative emotions. Give each other enough rational time, and don't spoil each other's emotions because of misunderstanding.

At the same time, you should be very tolerant and clear-headed. Even if the other person does make an excuse, it is because he cares about this connection that he will deceive you.

In this way, when the other party does encounter special circumstances, it is not easy to have so many contradictions, and it will not affect our daily life. If the other party is just looking for an excuse to cheat, we just need to calm down and analyze the problem. Even if we solve the trend of emotional connection with each other, we can take profit and stop loss reasonably.