In life, what is the best way to retaliate against a person who hates himself?

There are many girls who have experienced betrayal in their feelings, always turning from love to hate, or knowing that they can't be together again, they still have to struggle.

She thought it would reduce her pain, but the fact is that your hatred will only make you more reluctant to let go. This is not revenge on him, but more like revenge on yourself.

The opposite of love is not hate, but letting go, being indifferent and ignoring him. When you leave your relationship with him, only when he is a familiar stranger can you be reborn.

And if you choose to hate him all the time and take revenge on him, you will only feel happy on the surface. In fact, your revenge will not affect him, but will only make him more and more angry with you, and you may not feel better in your heart. You don't want to try the taste of watching the people you once loved become enemies with yourself.

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Recently, when I was chasing the new version of "Two Prides in One Family", I saw the palace master inviting the moon and felt that she was really hateful and pitiful. She carefully designed a 18-year game, just to get back at the man she once loved most, so that his two children could not recognize each other and became enemies.

She hated Jiang Feng, that he would choose the maid around him instead of her, and that he was so kind to him, but he betrayed her. When she hates someone, she will do something extreme. Every time she was in pain, she invited the moon to prick her arm with a needle to wake herself up. She didn't want such pain, but she was paranoid and refused to let go, thus getting deeper and deeper.

When Hua Wuque grew up, she didn't dare to see him again, because Hua Wuque looked so much like Jiang Feng, the person she once liked. Seeing him, she couldn't help thinking of him and the past, so she couldn't let go.

She stubbornly chose to hate Jiang Feng, Hua Wuque and even her sister. The final outcome of such a paranoid person is not much better. Sure enough, after her plan failed, she chose to jump off a cliff.

In the end, I think this woman is actually very pitiful. In fact, she didn't know what true love was, so she stubbornly chose hate. In the end, even she didn't know where the hatred came from, where she would go and who she retaliated against. Even she can't figure it out.

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The best revenge for a person is never to hate him, but to ignore him. Your neglect makes you slowly let go and draw a line with this person from now on. When you see him again, you can greet him calmly, and there are no waves in your heart. This is the best revenge for him.

Instead of hating him all the time, let him know that you can't let him go. This revenge is for himself, and he will only secretly like that you have always loved him.

Although Zhang Ailing is a famous talented woman, she will also be deeply in love and cannot extricate herself. Everyone must know her love for Hu Lancheng.

At that time, she loved Hu Lancheng very much. After the photo, she wrote a confession of love: after seeing him, she became very low, as low as the dust, but her heart was happy, flowers blossomed in the dust, and Hu Lancheng also showed piety. Write it down? May the years be quiet and the world be stable? If you give it back.

I thought it was a vigorous love, but Hu Lancheng is not a single-minded person. Soon after they got married, they fled because of the war. Hu Lancheng hasn't been idle all the way. First, she fell in love with a beautiful young nurse. She also thought about feeling sorry for Zhang Ailing, but the greed of human nature was insatiable, and later she fell in love with a widow.

She said so and did so, and never saw Hu Lancheng again, and fell in love with a director named Sang Arc. Therefore, Hu Lancheng was very frustrated.

I admire Zhang ailing very much. In addition to literary attainments, she also has an attitude towards feelings. I can let go. I will love you very much when I love you, but I will let you go when I don't love you, and I won't let you bother me again.

If she has been thinking about Hu Lancheng's betrayal and is unwilling to let go, then maybe she won't meet the love behind.

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I used to think that if I didn't love, I would hate. Only in this way can I get the best revenge on him. Slowly, I found that the other side of love is definitely not just hate. Ignoring him directly and living a good life is the best revenge for a person.

Maybe his betrayal and injury have brought you painful times, maybe your feelings have not been rewarded as they should, but from now on, you can win better love by letting go of the past and starting over.

And if you don't love, you won't let go and choose to hate, then your heart will always be held by this relationship and you can't get rid of it. In the end, maybe the other person has a new feeling and a new life, but you still stand still, which just shows him a joke.