Words of sympathy and thanks

The words of condolence and thanks are as follows:

Dear mother, your favorite children and grandchildren came to see you off, and so did your relatives and neighbors. Dear mother, rest in peace. Please go all the way to heaven. Thank you again for your visit and care during my mother's illness, and thank you for attending the condolences.

On behalf of my mother, my brothers and sisters and our whole family, I would like to express my heartfelt thanks to the leaders, guests, relatives and friends who have come to express their condolences. Thank you for giving us great comfort and warmth at the most sad moment of our family; Thank you for your hard work in your busy schedule to help us deal with the aftermath; Thank you for sharing this sadness with our family and saying goodbye to our father.

Although grandma left us, her hard-working, thrifty, open-minded and optimistic ideological realm is always worth learning and remembering. I firmly believe that we can live up to her old people's expectations, inherit and carry forward her old people's virtues, do our work better and comfort grandma's spirit in heaven.

Decorate mourning hall

There was a table in front of Lingqian, with white table clothes hanging. There are offerings, incense burners, candlesticks and ever-burning lamps on the table. Before the funeral, this ever-burning lamp must be guarded day and night and cannot be extinguished. It is said that this lamp is the soul of the deceased, and it is forbidden to park bodies and coffins in broad daylight. It is said that I am afraid of being controlled by the so-called "sun crystal and moonlight", and I am even more afraid of going against the gods of the past. Therefore, as long as a simple memorial ceremony is held, it is necessary to build a Peng Ling.

The size of Peng Ling mainly depends on the pattern of mourning courtyards. If you only build a shed in a yard, it is called a "flat shed with a roof" or a "hall", just like a classical palace with a ridge on it. If there are two-story yards in undertaker, you can build a shed and cover both yards. The roof of the mourning hall courtyard is higher, and the roof of the front yard is slightly lower, so that the two roofs are integrated. The back is high and the front is low, which is called "one hall and one roll", that is, the high roof in the backyard is "hall" and the low roof in the front yard is "roll".