How to talk about divorce with your husband? Send him a message that we are divorced.

"Can I hug you, baby? Let me call you that for the last time. If we are going to part tomorrow, let me cry happily. " At that time, Amy's songs made countless people cry, showing the reluctance and helplessness of husband and wife when they left. However, feelings are not child's play. Once two people have irreconcilable contradictions, it is not accidental to separate.

According to statistics, in 20 17 years, the number of divorced couples reached more than 4 million, while the number of married couples was only in their early days. The divorce rate continued to rise and the marriage rate continued to decrease. Moreover, the number of marriageable single young people in China has reached 200 million, accounting for about 1/7 of the total population.

Why are there so many divorced couples? Just a few common reasons. As the saying goes, one day's husband and wife are grateful for a hundred days. Who doesn't want to be separated from their other half? However, the reality is cruel, or the relationship breaks down, or the personality is different, or the family conflict intensifies, and the couple finally chose to go their separate ways.

When every couple faces divorce, their reactions are various. The following is a sentence "Let's divorce" sent by several wives to their husbands, and the replies are all heartfelt. Tears wet the screen and make them feel cold.

The wife sends her husband "Let's divorce". Although her husband apologized and made a statement at the first time, it can be seen that there is not much sincerity. The wife was not hysterical, but calmly said that she resigned and let her husband live with others. As can be seen from her husband's words, two people had a quarrel about it the night before yesterday, so my wife must have completely figured it out in one night. After all, it's not the first time that my husband is having an affair with someone else, and my wife wants to stop the loss in time. It is better to end the marriage early so as not to have children later.

At this time, in fact, if the husband is sincere, there is definitely room for manoeuvre. It's a pity that he said he was "straight", and he thought men were like this. In fact, many men like to use this sentence to avoid this kind of thing or make excuses for themselves. Such a person is selfish and doesn't consider his wife's feelings. If it is a wife, what kind of mood will they be?

When the couple were facing divorce, they were still arguing with each other. The husband was emotional from beginning to end, and even complained all the time, and he didn't calm down. In fact, this state is the worst. Women are emotional animals. When their emotions come, what they really need is the tolerance and understanding of men. Maybe we can coax them with nice words. There is no point in reasoning with a woman whose emotions are controlled. First, follow her words and let her negative emotions be released.

Wait until she calms down, then move with emotion and reason, and she will reflect on herself and realize your goodness. Many times, women say that breaking up or divorce is not what they want to do, but they just want to express their opinions and dissatisfaction for a period of time in this way. If we continue to argue with her at this time, it will often add fuel to the fire because of the escalation of contradictions. At that time, if two people say that they hurt others and hurt themselves, it is very likely that they will break up, and even if they make up later, the damage will be irreparable.

This husband is also a "straight man". In fact, in the hearts of a large number of men, there is this kind of thinking, that is, as long as there is no derailment, it is nothing. And this husband thinks that he is going to accompany the big leader, so he has to go in and out of some places out of helplessness. In fact, if he had apologized to his wife and understood her emotions, the two would not have quarreled more and more.

Presumably, this is a mistake that most men are prone to make, that is, it is difficult to take the initiative to admit their mistakes. Everyone likes to defend himself for various reasons. Haven't you heard a saying? Don't reason with women. Women's reason is unreasonable. When communicating with women, please stand in the other person's position and try to look at the problem with women's thinking. Don't blindly "straight men" and think that women make a mountain out of a molehill. You know, women are very insecure and attach great importance to security. If your performance makes her feel insecure, the first thing you should do is to rebuild her sense of security.

The couple must be very loving, and they can joke about such things as divorce at will. Although this kind of joke is not recommended between husband and wife, if a couple can talk about everything and don't care about each other, it is definitely a stable relationship. The reason why the wife divorced her husband was actually a coquetry between them. The husband was not surprised by this, but a very cooperative gag.

Isn't the best feeling "You're joking, I'm laughing"? Husband and wife are not just a paper engagement, they need to jointly maintain and manage this marriage. If you can maintain a very tacit understanding in your marriage, two people will feel particularly relaxed and happy when they get along, and it is difficult for outsiders to destroy your marriage.

Although the couple can't see what caused the divorce, judging from their chat records, neither of them made any mistakes in principle. The wife mentioned that two people are not suitable, no matter whether they have different opinions or different personalities, presumably this marriage makes them feel very tired. This is equivalent to a pair of gears. Obviously, the gears don't match, but they should be packed together. The pace of life is out of step. Can such a marriage be happy?

If a husband wants to have his own career, he will inevitably neglect his wife, so his wife has all kinds of dissatisfaction. This kind of emotion will accumulate, but it broke out this time. Husband says he loves his wife very much. We believe him for the time being, but we can see that he loves his career more. It's normal for men to have a career. Smart men know how to balance, but stupid men are biased. What you gain, you lose. How can you talk about true love if you refuse to sacrifice part of your working time for the woman you love?