Invite girls to dinner.

People often don't cherish what they get easily, but what they can get after their efforts. In the process of picking up girls, many boys will go into the same misunderstanding and take the initiative to provide value for girls, such as inviting girls to dinner or watching movies to participate in various entertainment activities. Instead of thinking in reverse, let girls treat you to dinner or a movie. The following small series will teach you how to guide girls to invest, strike a balance in the relationship, and gradually get used to letting girls pay for you.

In the invitation session, try to get girls to treat you to dinner, movies or drinks.

Exercise 1:

Boy: "Why not invite me to dinner tomorrow?"

Girl: "Why?" (waste testing)

Boy: "There is no reason. Is there a problem? You can't be so stingy, can you (Chasing girls tips ignore girls' waste tests, and then ask girls to give them an "atmosphere" framework. Most girls don't want to admit that they are stingy, because girls are most afraid of being called stingy by others. )

Girl: "I'm not that stingy, please."

Boy: "Do you want to talk casually, or do you really want to ask" (push-pull method, according to the principle of consistency, let girls accept your obedience ladder)

Girl: "Of course it's true. No big deal. "

Boy: "Time and place"

Girl: "So-and-so food store."

Boy: "OK, see you then."

Exercise 2:

Boy: "Why not invite me to dinner tomorrow?"

Girl: "Yes, no problem."

Boy: "Are you just talking, or are you really interested?" Push-pull method, according to the principle of consistency, makes girls accept your obedience ladder.

Girl: "It's no problem to invite you to dinner. Not bad. "

Boy: "Time and place" (further details to make things more concrete and real)

Girl: "So-and-so food store."

Boy: "OK, see you then."

Many times, girls will be willing to treat you to a meal. However, many times a woman's words are not credible. Even if she has agreed to invite you to dinner, she can't take it seriously, because the next interaction has nothing to do with this time. Dating skills suggest that you need to change your traditional values from "payment is king" to "free is king".