How to alleviate family conflicts! Father-son relationship!

Take care, care and care to solve it. Specifically:

1. When the relationship between father and son is deadlocked, as a father, we should first make a review from ourselves: Is the son responsible for this situation?

as the father of your son, have you done your duty? Do you often talk with your son? Do you treat your son as a friend and tell him your troubles? Can a son get care from his father? -if you don't have any, you should take the initiative to find your son to admit your own shortcomings, ignore his father's dignity, admit your mistakes to his son, and clearly tell him that he didn't fully

fulfill his responsibilities as a father when he was growing up-this will not reduce your dignity, but make his son change his view of you and gradually become respectful of you.

2. At the same time, tell your son where he is in your heart. You can also describe the hardships you encountered in your struggle and your efforts to make your son have a good living environment.

3. Tell him the hope for his son skillfully.

As long as you can do this with "true love", time is the best proof, and your father and son will get along well. Even if you are not in the same place, you can not only talk to him every day, but also send short messages, and at the same time, you must take time to visit him regularly. When you let your son feel that you value him so much and that he is an indispensable part of your life, your efforts will be of little effect.

If you answer this question as a son:

1. As a son, no matter how wrong your father is, he is also your father. He raised you from a starving baby to you now, and the hardships

are hard for you to understand. Maybe you think he didn't do anything, and they did their duty as fathers. You must not

understand and think that you can't deny your father's kindness to you just because of one or several things.

2. "A son doesn't think his mother is ugly, and a dog doesn't think his family is poor." You must also know that the traditional virtue of our Chinese nation is "filial piety to parents", and you must have learned it from primary school. Now that you have the adult's thinking and judgment ability, why can't you objectively analyze and evaluate your father? Which father doesn't love his son? The person who cares about you, cares about you and loves you most is the father who is getting gray. Maybe your father did a

thing that made you sad, but you have to understand your father, his original intention must be good, he must have done it out of love, and maybe the

method he adopted was inappropriate, which caused bad consequences. You must not bear in mind that you hate your father! You can forgive outsiders, not to mention your own father.

3. At the same time, you should also check and reflect on yourself. Are you doing well? As a son, what did you do to raise your father?

4. When you are out of town, why don't you insist on making a greeting call every day to let you know that you are safe? Why not send a message to make them happy? Why not send them a card and a bunch of flowers on holidays? Why don't you ask someone to bring them some gifts if you can't come back? Why not

come home and surprise them? There is only one father, and he can't be with you all your life. Love him as much as you can. He is your closest relative and beloved old father! Never do something that you will regret twice as much in the future. Father will always love you!

I hope you can do the same!

I believe that through your own efforts, you will bury the hatchet with your father, live in harmony and have lasting affection! Bless you and your father!