What did you say at the funeral? My friend's father died. I don't know what to say by sending her a message.

I'm sorry for your loss. Dad didn't leave. He just changed his lifestyle. Whenever night comes, he will become a star in the sky and stay with you.

Attend a funeral, a Chinese word, pronounced bēn sāng, which means to come back from other places to attend or arrange the funeral of relatives. I came back from other places to deal with the funeral of my elders and relatives. Funeral is one of the funeral ceremonies of the Han nationality, that is, living in a different place and mourning. After that, it refers to running away from relatives and doing funerals. Zhou Hua etiquette stipulates that if a child is away from home, if his parents die, he should cry and answer the messenger, and then ask his parents the cause of death in detail. After crying, they will wear thick clothes on the road and go back to their hometown vegetarian. They will cry in class when they pass by. If you can't attend the funeral due to disability, labor, childbirth and other reasons, send something to hang.

In the past dynasties, in the event of major bereavement of parents, officials generally had to leave their posts to attend the funeral, and the emperor had the right to order important officials in the court or in the army not to rush. Since the Eastern Han Dynasty, the death of Emperor Tiandi has often restricted the funeral of governors and ministers to prevent local unrest. In feudal society, it is a great unfilial act not to mourn parents in a hurry. During the Warring States Period, Wu Qi, a military strategist, coveted power, but his mother was in mourning, so Ceng Zi broke up with him. While Chen Tang was waiting for promotion and transfer in the Han Dynasty, his father died and refused to attend the funeral, so he was jailed.