My relatives sent me a message when they went to the party.

Since they are relatives, they should go because the wine service has been notified. Just like your generation, you should pay what they pay for gifts.

You said that people borrowed money from you because you were angry because you had no money? I don't want to inform you this time? Did you guess that people must be angry, or did you find them angry? I guess you guessed that people were angry and didn't want to inform you. Actually, it's nothing. He borrowed money. At first, you really had no money. Just explain clearly. People will not be unhappy. After all, relatives may have to trouble others in the future, so do a good job now and don't always think about the past.