What should I do if my blind date says that I don’t want to get married yet?

1. What should I do if I’ve been with my blind date for a few months and I feel good but she doesn’t want to get married so soon?

Then the situation you are talking about is similar to mine. Maybe she has been in love before. I'm afraid of failure. Maybe she's not sure whether she loves you or not, at least she doesn't hate you. My boyfriend and I are often apart from each other. We see each other once a month. After a week of dating, he mentioned marriage or something. I didn't even think about it. I'm scared. I don't believe him. He keeps trying to prove that he loves me and I don't hate him. But I'm also very stressed. Really, I don't promise him and I don't hate him either. I don't want to lose him like this. I promised him but I'm afraid that I don't really love him and will hurt him in the end. He's 27 and I'm 24. We're all old enough to get married and we can't be hasty. It's good for both of us to think about it. Give her some more time, I think. If she loves you, she will choose you. She is not sure that she loves you and is reluctant to hurt you, which is why she is stressed. She has no sense of security in her heart. You should find out the reason why she does not have a sense of security and then give her a sense of security.

2. It’s a very strange psychology. My blind date said he wanted to marry me, but I didn’t want to, so I refused.

This is normal, sir. You think about it, isn’t the purpose of general blind dates just to get married? If your blind date directly says that he wants to marry you, it means that he has a good impression of you. Judging from the result of the blind date, he is satisfied. But you don't want to get married, so you reject him. But then he didn't contact the original poster, which made the original poster a little disappointed. In other words, the original poster also liked him to a certain extent, but not to the point of liking him, so naturally he would not be willing to marry him.

As far as the original intention of a blind date is concerned, of course the person you are dating will not want to spend time with someone who does not want to marry him. In fact, you don't like him yet.

I think the poster seems to be very concerned about his performance in the blind date and how well he looks at others, and you can easily draw conclusions by whether the other party contacts you after the blind date. At the same time, whether or not the other party contacts you actually reflects the "market potential" of the poster. The level of this potential will naturally affect the poster's mood.

How should I put it? The poster’s situation is probably a disappointment that does not meet his expectations. For example, the poster feels that even if he rejects the other party, he should still work hard to get the result, but the other party turns around and leaves, similar situations.