How to chat with your boyfriend

How to chat with your boyfriend? As we all know, many young girls who have just fallen in love may be more concerned about what their boyfriends think of them, and they want to have endless topics with their boyfriends. The following is what I have compiled about how to chat with my boyfriend. Let's have a look.

How to chat with your boyfriend? 1 First of all, a love story with local flavor.

These days are particularly fashionable, because although they are rustic, they are all charming, so many friends like these rustic love stories very much, especially between couples, and they are also very fashionable. Therefore, when chatting with your boyfriend, you can tell him some local love stories at an appropriate time, but you should pay special attention to telling local love stories naturally and don't be too embarrassed, otherwise it will only change the subject. Therefore, in daily life, friends can find some local love stories on the Internet to tell their boyfriends, so that chatting will not be too boring. However, when friends are looking for local love stories, they must accept some more loving situations, instead of joking or being too ridiculous, which is not suitable for couples. Those are only suitable for ambiguous occasions, but if they are lovers, we should find some local love stories suitable for couples.

Second, timely indifference.

Dear friends, when chatting with your boyfriend, don't be too enthusiastic, and of course you don't need your friends to be too indifferent. But to learn to be indifferent at the right time. Don't always reply as soon as he asks you or sends a text message. Everyone should pay special attention, boys are a little stingy. If you reply to him too enthusiastically, he will become very casual. Therefore, sometimes we should learn to be indifferent at the right time and know how to give him the cold shoulder. In this way, boys will become more enthusiastic, not that we are too enthusiastic to scare them away. Therefore, female friends must know how to be indifferent when chatting with their boyfriends.

Third, learn to be coquettish.

Many boys like spoiled girlfriends very much, so when chatting with boyfriends, you must learn some coquettish sounds, especially when pronouncing, the voice should be sweet and make boyfriends feel relaxed and happy. Moreover, female friends should pay special attention to the language generalization not to be too rough or barbaric, which will make people feel that they are chatting with their buddies, not their girlfriends.

How to chat with your boyfriend?

1, initiative: My boyfriend and I have different languages. Maybe the boyfriend is introverted and shy, and he doesn't know how to speak when he sees a girl. If so, girls can take the initiative. Don't always think that boys must take the initiative If girls are extroverted, find more topics to talk about. There's a topic to talk about, two people.

2. Chat online first: If two people have nothing to talk about and have nothing in common in reality, they may meet, so they will feel unnatural. They don't know how to say what they want to say or what to say. If you don't know each other well, you might as well have a chat online first. In online chat, they won't feel psychologically oppressed, and they will say whatever they want.

3, there are concerns about short time: two people are people living in different environments. It is a process of getting to know each other. At first, I will naturally be wary of each other, and I won't say anything I want to say. They will also worry about talking too much, saying the wrong thing and having short communication time. After a long time, they will get to know each other and have such worries.

4. After a long time, it is like this: I have nothing to say with my boyfriend, or I have been in contact for too long. We all know each other too well and are familiar with each other. Many things know how to do without consulting each other. After a long time, the feelings returned to dullness. Everyone began to pay attention to their work and neglected the communication with each other. This is normal. If they feel uncomfortable, they will feel speechless.

5, usually communicate more and contact more: two people have different languages, there is nothing to say. Many times two people are separated for a long time, and they don't talk much at ordinary times. You do your job and he does his business, but he only cares about his own work and ignores communication with each other. If you don't communicate for a long time, you will feel a little familiar. Usually you can't just be busy with your work, you should be diligent in communication.

6. Learning experience: Two people don't have the same language, so there is nothing to talk about. You can learn more about how to communicate with others, learn communication skills and improve your ability to communicate with others. Usually, two people can also date more, watch movies, go shopping and eat, so there is something to talk about. Talk about the content of the movie, talk about what you like, and then you will find that there are still topics to talk about.

Chatting with boyfriends has a topic method

1. Things with similar interests: My boyfriend chats with us. If there is something of common interest, he is willing to discuss it with us, and the chances and time to come to us will increase, such as online games that boys like.

Tell him how we feel: sometimes boys don't necessarily care about this thing. We can tell him that we miss him very much and hope he has time to chat with us. We like chatting with him very much.

3. Appoint a fixed chat time: Of course, sometimes, we may have to go to work during the day and have little chat time, or the other boyfriend is not free. We can make an appointment to chat every night after work.

4. Find a topic that we can continue to talk about: What is a sustainable topic? For example, it is not sustainable to ask if you have eaten or slept every day. We can talk for a long time about the movies we watched recently and the games we played together.

5. Don't ask too much: Some girls can't ask too much. For example, the message I sent you must be answered within one minute. In case the boys are driving and the boys are sleeping and taking a bath, that's impossible.

6. Take the initiative occasionally: Of course, I suggest that when you are in contact with boys, it is not necessary for boys to take the initiative every day. It's okay to take the initiative once in a while. I believe that boys will be surprised and pleasantly surprised.

How to chat with your boyfriend 2 What to chat with your boyfriend about?

1, don't say anything too ambiguous.

For girls with cheerful personality, the chat mode is more open. In the process of chatting, she will take the initiative to say something ambiguous with her boyfriend. If we have been together for a long time, it is okay to say this, but if the time is shorter, try not to say this. Let the other person take the initiative to say something ambiguous to you.

2. Let your boyfriend have the desire to know himself.

Girls are also very skillful in chatting with boys. In order to make boys more interested in themselves, playing hard to get is also a good way.

Step 3 care about each other

Gentle girls are what every boy likes, so it is normal for you to care about each other's work during chatting, and it will also make boys think that you are a very caring girl.

What should I do if I have nothing to say when chatting with my boyfriend?

Personally, I think the first thing to look at is your boyfriend's personality and his concern for you. If he is gentle and dotes on you, then you can say anything and he will listen. If he is gentle, but feels the same as you, then you can talk about some topics in life, such as where you met something funny today and what you had for dinner today. If he is violent, but loves you very much, you can chat casually, but pay attention to his face, try to be brief and clear, and enough is enough. If his personality is violent and his feelings are the same as yours, then you can pick the topic he likes to talk about, such as he likes football, so that you can learn something about this in your spare time, and then talk to him to promote the feelings of both sides, and he will be happy to share his world with you.

How to chat with your boyfriend?

1, games, men love games, in fact, women don't like it, so when chatting, men will avoid talking about it, but if you want to know your boyfriend, you might as well talk to him about some games and get to know yourself.

2. In the past, men really wanted to know about your past, but you didn't want to talk about it because you were afraid of hurting each other and thinking of your own sadness. So I suggest you talk to him about the past occasionally, which may make him love you more.

3, figure, men like girls with good figure, if you have a good figure, don't talk to him, but need to talk to him. In fact, if you have a bad figure, you can also talk about it, and you will know what kind of figure he likes, so that you can develop and change in that direction.

4, work, men also like to talk about work, after all, work will make him stronger, so I suggest you talk to him about your work, or talk about his work, which will also make him feel that you all want to fight in a better direction.

5, personality, men also like to talk about women's personality, but in fact, for personality, you should also do such a good job, but for your personality, he may have some dislikes to point out, you should not be sad, you should change it.

6, the future, for the future, men have their own plans, but if you don't want to talk about it, or don't treat him as a future lover, maybe he will feel that there is no future between you. Therefore, I suggest that you and he might as well continue to talk about something good in the future.

How can couples chat without boredom?

1, find a topic of interest

Even if you are chatting between lovers, you should find a topic of mutual interest, otherwise your chat will become a self-introduction, so try to choose a topic of mutual interest, so that both sides will not feel bored.

2. Try to make each other jealous.

It is also appropriate for couples to make some kind jokes before, such as praising other boys for being handsome in front of their boyfriends, making them jealous, and then finally adding that no matter how handsome they are, they are not as handsome as you. Such a little joke can increase your feelings.

3. Say something the other person wants to hear.

When chatting between lovers, you must say some sweet words, and you should entice the other person to tell you his sweet words.