Save her husband's gift and save her husband's cheating heart.

Marriage needs a sense of ceremony.

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If love is a wonderful theatrical performance, then marriage is a simple and low-key stage. When all the enthusiasm faded and the audience left, the stage still stood there quietly.

Love is like a book that you can never get tired of reading. The book always needs to be settled.

Marriage is a bookshelf that can be properly placed. Give it care and protection, give it stability and prosperity all its life.

However, no matter how beautiful the story is, it needs to be read repeatedly to understand the true meaning. If you don't look at it for a long time, it will only accumulate dust and turn yellow. Love and marriage are the same.

After five years of marriage, Yan Xu took care of her family wholeheartedly. She is a rational person and doesn't believe in anything romantic and noisy.

I just want to put my life in order and live a stable and plain life.

Recalling last year's Qixi Festival, at that moment, she felt that her marriage was over. Because, she found her husband's heart, as if there were signs of "derailment".

It suddenly occurred to her that I don't know when they have become strangers, just like an old couple, without the passion of love.

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What marriage needs to maintain is constant new love. Forgetting the habit of falling in love will only make marriage wither in boredom and poverty.

Yan Xu struggled and suffered for a long time, arguing with her husband and causing trouble. But after her husband deleted the woman's contact information in front of her, he contacted her again within two days.

The husband explained that he had nothing to do with her, just chatting with her and being a friend.

However, Yan Xu couldn't get his heart back.

At that time, it was almost Qixi, and she suddenly had some ideas and prepared three gifts for her husband.

She thinks that if her husband is indifferent to gifts, he should get a divorce.

However, before the divorce, she wanted to make a final effort to protect her family and give her children a sound family.

The first gift: prepare a table of his favorite dishes and a big bunch of roses.

Life needs a sense of ceremony, especially marriage. Copying and pasting the lifestyle day after day will make the other person feel boring and hopeless, like a stagnant pool.

In love, Yan Xu will quietly buy Zhou Ke sneakers for a long time, and secretly ask a group of good friends for help on his birthday. Buy tickets as soon as the new movie comes online and travel together twice a year.

At that time, I always felt that life passed quickly and fully.

However, after marriage, Yan Xu spent most of his energy on family and work, especially after having children, and the whole center of gravity centered around them.

When Zhou Ke invited her to the movies, she was worried about her children, not to mention the long journey.

No more exquisite gifts, no more occasional romantic dates.

Last Tanabata, Yan Xu got up early, put on a long skirt and high heels that she hadn't worn for a long time, and put on a delicate makeup.

I went to buy his favorite dishes, cooked a table of his favorite dishes at noon, and bought a bunch of roses and put them in the most conspicuous position on the table.

Men actually need a sense of ceremony, so that they can touch their hearts.

Second gift: I prepared an album to record their past.

Marriage is a journey and the scenery along the way is a precious memory.

When she was young, Yan Xu liked taking photos, all kinds of photos with Zhou Ke, as lovers, eating, shopping and traveling.

After marriage, I don't know when to start. There are only photos of children in the mobile phone, and there are few photos of Zhou Ke. Occasionally, it is also a family photo of a family of three.

Yan Xu has prepared an electronic photo album, which contains sweet photos taken in love, happy wedding photos taken in marriage and various detailed photos of married life, and put them in the most eye-catching position in the room.

The dribs and drabs of the past seem so happy and sweet.

The beauty of love lies in that when facing the pressure of life, it can make the other person feel warm and accompanied. It turns out that they are not alone, not lonely and helpless.

Just like a person walking alone in a dark forest, the surrounding scene is frightening.

However, because of the warm and generous palm around you, it has always brought you infinite strength.

The third gift: a farewell letter, take off the ring she is wearing.

Marriage is like a room with just the right air conditioning temperature. Enjoy it and never know how hot the outside world is.

I am used to drinking coffee with sugar and milk, and I will never feel the bitterness of black coffee because I have never lost it, so I take it for granted.

Yan Xu decided to leave for a while and give each other some space.

She left a letter to Zhou Ke, saying a few words about family, marriage and love. The letter said, If you really want a divorce, I will leave with my children.

When she left, she put her wedding ring on the letter. After leaving for half a month, Yan Xu completely disappeared in the world of Zhou Ke.

She even fantasized for many times that her husband would come home from work and see everything she had prepared, perhaps lost, perhaps crying, perhaps indifferent. ...

Later, I heard from a friend that Zhou Ke went crazy all over the world looking for Yan Xu's mother and son, and suddenly his empty home made him feel terrible quiet.

Zhou Ke never found that he was so attached to his wife and dependent on this family. It turns out that only when you really experience the loss can you know the value and priceless of having it.

Men are sometimes like ignorant, curious and conscious children.

Women should be wiser and stay awake. Marriage is like making a pot of new tea. The temperature and time need to be carefully adjusted. If you want tea fragrance, you must learn to assess the situation and know how to advance and retreat.

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Marriage is like a war. We can expand the city by expanding the territory, but if we want to maintain prosperity forever, we need to maintain and govern it. Being enveloped by the so-called complacency will make the other person lose the ability to love.

Last year, Yan Xu used fake divorce to make her husband feel "lost".

When she got home, he found that her husband had changed and became more fond of family care.

She has changed, too. After Qixi last year, she finally understood that all love needs to be managed, especially marriage.

Now, she has mastered the ability to tell a warm love story and watch movies with her husband for three or two days.

On Tanabata this year, Yan Xu prepared a trip abroad for the whole family to make up for the "honeymoon".

The episode of this marriage made Yan Xu and Zhou Ke understand that marriage needs a sense of ceremony, while love needs to talk to each other and express love to each other.

The best way to get married is to love each other forever and walk side by side, and the best way to love each other is to know each other's thoughts and be willing to express their love without stint.

When marriage encounters difficulties, when love encounters obstacles, women should remember not to blindly decide on divorce and remain calm.

Marriage is a process of dropping water and wearing stones, and it is Gong Yu's perseverance to move mountains.

Give each other some space and time. Only those who can still advance hand in hand in the face of difficulties can meet beautiful love and happy marriage.

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