It's been more than two months since we broke up, but we still can't get out, and WeChat has been deleted. Should I leave a message for Tik Tok?

Well, first of all, you have to understand the problems between you.

What caused your love to go to crisis? Internal or external reasons? Is it obvious that the contradiction between two people is just an opportunity to break out? Also, now, what's your attitude towards each other? Are you tired of seeing each other, or are you resisting unilaterally? Does she/he still have feelings for you?

This is very important. If we are about to break up, but you still don't understand the problem between you, you just keep saying, "I am so good, why does he/she not want me?" Then El can only show her helplessness. You know, these problems will become a gap in your love. Turning a blind eye is just a cover-up When the accumulated problems break out one day, there may be no room for recovery between you.

Secondly, you should understand what she/he wants.

Love is not always self-righteous. The ancients said, "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you." Now someone has added: "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you". This is a fact. Don't impose what you don't like on others. Even if you like something, you should be careful when recommending it to others. No one likes what others impose on them, even if they blindly use the excuse of "I did it for you". So you should know what the other person wants and pursues, respect the other person's wishes and do what you should do.

Then, you should make her/him understand what you want.

We once said that love is never a matter for one person. Therefore, on the basis of respecting his wishes, I might as well express my thoughts. No one wants to guess what others think. So, you might as well express your wishes directly to him. Tell him what you think, respect each other and grow together.

Thirdly, knowing each other's thoughts also requires a calm communication.

Don't start talking until the reason comes back. Don't be full of gunpowder, it will only make the problem worse. Your attitude towards feelings is very important, and your attitude will directly affect the outcome between you. So, correct your attitude, tell him what you think, listen to his attitude and put all the questions in front of them. Then, if possible, solve your problems together.

Finally, if things between you have reached the point of irretrievable. The gap between you can't be bridged, so you might as well put it down for the time being. Step by step will only make your relationship more rigid. Say goodbye to the relationship temporarily and give the other party some time to calm down. Then start from scratch, rebuild your image, enhance your value in her/his mind, dilute the contradiction between you, and then impress her/him with sincerity and actions to rebuild your love relationship.

It is not a difficult thing to save a person's heart. What is needed more often is perseverance and persistence. So, keep your faith, and then, keep working hard.