How do smart women reply to text messages?

Let's have a tutorial together ... ● We had a good talk when we first met, and then you received the following message: How are you? Nice to meet you. Let's meet again. I'll pick you up at six. You must answer: I'd love to, but I have an appointment. Can we meet next Monday? Why? You are really eager to meet him, and you even begin to fantasize about a beautiful relationship, but please set aside at least a few days for yourself. When a man is tempted, he is as eager to establish a relationship as a hungry tiger. They won't consider your feelings. At this time, you should be the one who controls the rhythm. He can't change from a stranger to your boyfriend in a few days. He should know that you have your own life and fun, and every minute of you is precious. This means not to oppose your natural development, but to give men room to move forward and leave enough room for themselves. You still encourage him to ask you out again, but don't forget, you really need to leave time for your friends and family. It is absolutely wise to slow down at this time. & gt& gt& gt A woman who will "refuse" is precious. Don't give him everything he wants. He needs to work hard! This setback will remind him that he is too self-righteous and presumptuous, and you are definitely not the kind of frivolous girl who can be greeted with a glass of wine. & gt& gt& gt in love, you must kill skills on the first date ● I met my ex-boyfriend in the mall, and then he sent a text message: It's still so beautiful, I miss you very much, let's find a place to sit and talk another day. There is no denying that your past memories will come to your mind at the moment you receive the text message, but he may not expect much from the reply. If you don't reply, the depressed mood will affect both of you, but now you need to force him to take action to know whether he is really willing to give up texting and call instead. If your indifference is exchanged for another short message from him, you should reply clearly and tell him that you want to meet and talk, not this way. Give him hope, provided you want to start over with him. If your love history hurts you deeply, I suggest you turn around and walk away, and don't take the old road again. Say to him: you look good, too. Take care. Only good sisters and relatives have the right to ask to see you without saying hello in advance. For this kind of man, you should gently teach him a lesson, and those who refuse to mend can be directly excluded from consideration. It is not unusual for a man to do such a thing. Someone once specifically analyzed this phenomenon, and the only conclusion is that he doesn't love you as much as you think. Aside from etiquette and respect, you can put yourself in each other's shoes. If you fall in love with someone and have a chance to meet him, will you let it go easily? Even if there is an emergency and I have to cancel the appointment, I will grab the phone and inform him at the first time. For men, this is very low-level behavior. Don't think you are narrow-minded. A more correct way is to delete it together with your mobile phone number.