Others buy things for me, and then I send her a message to receive them. She didn't understand, so she was angry when she explained! What should I do? ...

Before you receive the goods, the courier company will send you a receiving message, which usually contains the sending number and contact number to remind you to receive the goods in time. It is also possible to call you and ask you to pick up the express somewhere. If it is not received, it may be notified again. You can also go to their outlets to pick up the goods. Just bring your ID card. If your communication method is mobile phone number, bring your mobile phone. If you really can't get the goods, you can contact him again and say that you haven't received them yet, and he will go there to check.