I suspect my husband cheated on me by more than an inch, but he will write and say that you are really crazy.

Dear landlord, how are you? Judge whether your husband is cheating from the following points:

First, 42 changes.

1, he started exercising, especially jogging (he may have gone to another woman's house).

2. He stopped having sex with you often, or began to try new methods.

He began to pay attention to diet or lose weight.

4. He started to buy new clothes; From boxers to crotch guards, I don't even like it; The material of clothes changed from cotton to silk.

He gets nervous when the phone rings. When answering the phone, he will try to speak in a low voice.

He often makes excuses to work overtime, especially on weekends.

7. He began to look for reasons to stay out of it.

8. He is on a business trip and doesn't tell you the itinerary, flight and hotel information. When you ask him where he is going and when he will come back, he will yell at you, and he will say, you can't contact him at all.

9. He will go out alone on weekends for some bad reasons.

10, when you ask him when to go home, or where to go, he will be very unhappy and angry.

He began to hide credit card receipts and phone bills.

12, he started to have his own private telephone.

13. As soon as he got home, he went to take a shower or brush his teeth.

14. He kept his travel and the people he met secret. When you show some interest in his private affairs, even if it is only normal interest, he will think it is an invasion of his privacy.

15, he stopped explaining where he was going.

16, he no longer takes you to work-related social activities. Even if he takes you, his colleagues will regard you with special respect.

17, he will send you flowers and jewels, but he has never done this before. These are gifts representing guilt.

18, he is absent-minded and unpredictable. Living with him is like riding a roller coaster. You never know when he will lose his temper with you for no reason.

19, he began to criticize your appearance.

20. He started reading books about sex.

2 1. After the phone rings, you pick up the phone, but the other party doesn't talk for a long time.

22. You will receive strange phone calls, such as "I think you should know your husband".

He used to wear a wedding ring, but now he doesn't.

When you go out with him, he becomes more fond of teasing women than usual. He began to pay attention to other women.

25. He started washing clothes.

He is very careful about his wallet and briefcase.

27. He no longer asks you to accompany him on business trips.

28. He started talking in his sleep, usually sleeping less than before.

29. He began to make positive comments on a specific woman.

30. He began to put condoms in his travel bag.

3 1, when you ask him, he becomes completely unwilling to talk.

He becomes stupefied when you want to hug him.

He is no longer enthusiastic about you.

34. When he was sleeping at night, he was so far away from you that he almost fell out of bed.

35. He started sleeping in separate rooms with you, saying it was because he was "afraid that you wouldn't sleep well because of the noise".

36. His temper became very anxious and irritable.

37. He becomes indifferent to people and is often absent-minded.

He told you that he needed to have his own privacy and let you leave him for a while.

39. He is indifferent to you and completely ignores you.

He became more difficult to communicate than usual.

4 1, he often makes people feel cold and distant.

Even on Saturday and Sunday, he stays in the office.

Second, what happens when a man cheats?

1, is it a phone call with more information than before? Do you often carry your back when you make phone calls or send and receive messages? I often say that I have to work overtime or socialize, don't go home for dinner, and come back late?

2. Did you pay more attention to your image and start dressing up? Or did you start exercising?

3. Did the expenditure suddenly and inexplicably increase?

4. Being nice to you suddenly, paying attention to you often and buying you gifts? As the saying goes, nothing is courted, either rape or theft. Maybe because I feel guilty about you and want to make it up to you.

5. Do you take a shower or wash as soon as you get home? Do you want to do your own laundry? You can secretly check his clothes and smell anything that doesn't belong to you and him.

Third, you are skeptical now. A woman's sixth sense is sometimes as sensitive as a ghost.

There is no specific way for men to cheat. But once a man has an affair, he can still see something.

For example, I don't go home often. Going home is also surfing the internet, or keeping your mobile phone. Both computers and mobile phones have passwords. Going home became a big temper. He used to love eating, but now he doesn't like eating, and he is picky about food. Doing housework is the same, no matter how clean you are, he will talk about things. It has become beautiful, and the style of wearing clothes is very different from before. Love to find fault with you, saying that this is not done well and that is not done well. I don't speak the same language, and I don't want to talk to you.

Fourth, the following points are the signs of derailment that you can refer to.

1, men spend money after cheating.

It is a sign that men become diligent and some become lazy after cheating.

3. A man's cheating phone call must be made behind someone's back, especially his wife and children. They keep texting and setting passwords, and only they can see them.

4. Men are absent-minded after cheating, always absent-minded and forgetful. One is whether he wants to continue, and the other is whether to stop.

Lack of energy is a sign of cheating men. He has to take care of his children, his wife and outsiders. Of course he doesn't have enough energy. Distraction is very tiring.

6. In order to attract mistresses, derailed men pay great attention to dressing up.

7. The derailed man's concept of time has changed greatly, and there is no time law. In fact, he needs time to date. Normal commuting time is occupied by traffic jams, parties and meetings.

8. Men who cheat usually have sex at home. No passion, just an obligation, a dispensable thing.

I hope the landlord can get along with her husband for a hundred years ~ ~

I hope the landlord will adopt it. Thank you. It's not easy to fight unarmed.