How did you face the pain of the death of your loved one?

Don't let yourself forget the fact that your loved ones have left, which will only backfire. We should bravely accept it and live with the expectations of the deceased.

My grandmother passed away on April 25th this year, which is what we expected, because in February this year, the doctor told our families to be psychologically prepared, saying that my grandmother's cancer cells spread too fast, with only about three months left. Although we didn't tell her what the doctor said, her body was her own after all, and grandma probably had a hunch that her time was running out.

In the last days, grandma always said happily, "It's human nature to be born, sick and dead. Everything that can be eaten and seen in this world has been eaten, and it's not a waste to come into this world." "Grandma often holds my hand and tells me about the road she walked when she was young and the scenery she saw. She also wants me to have a chance to experience it.

Later, grandma's health went from bad to worse, and she didn't even get through May. Although we are all prepared psychologically, it is inevitable that we will be a little sad. But after the sadness, we still have to cheer up and live a good life. After all, the dead are gone, and no amount of tears and sadness can change the result.

She loves us too. She wants us to live a good life instead of being immersed in the sadness of her leaving. Most importantly, as long as we remember her, she will always be by our side, whether it is wind, rain or stars. She just exists in this world in different forms and accompanies us in different ways.