How to start chatting with a girl

First of all, using Chinese characters is now an online society. Many boys like to flirt with their girls online, and WeChat has become the preferred chat tool. Wechat can collect more cute expression packs, which is the best chat opening remarks. If girls love food, they can collect some cute food expression packs or some particularly attractive food dynamic expression packs for girls. If the girl replies to you, it's a good start. Second, tell the other person that you are very useful. Simply put, it is to show your availability and prove your value in front of girls. If a girl's English is not good and your English is better than hers, you can teach her. If she likes it very much, you can show off your cooking skills. If she likes traveling very much, you can tell her that you also like traveling, where you have been and what she is looking forward to, which proves your value and girls will start to be interested in you. You can also show your value from another aspect, such as: "The boss said I won't be absent from the annual meeting this year." The implication is that you are very important to the company and prove that you are an excellent man. For example: "Every time I get together with my classmates, I will take the stage to preside over it." And so on can prove your value. Third, satisfy curiosity. Find something that will make girls curious. Every girl has curiosity. When your performance makes her curious, it means that she has begun to pay attention to you and you have successfully attracted her. At the beginning of the chat, you can say, "I have seen you somewhere." What's your name like that star? " Girls really want to know where you met her, and also want to know which star she looks like in other people's eyes, which makes her curious and makes her want to ask you, and you succeeded from the beginning. Fourth, look carefully. The simplest answer to success in details is to look at everything about girls carefully. You can look through her circle of friends and see what she likes and dislikes. You can also praise her head or her signature is particularly good, which can make girls willing to chat with you. Fifth, a simple beginning is good. You don't have to think too much at first. Simply saying "hello" is the best start. Generally, as long as you take the initiative to speak, girls will reply. After starting the chat mode, you can find a topic to continue. How to start chatting with girls 2 How to chat with girls First, introduce a simple team to brothers: Hello, everyone, we are a professional emotional counseling team-Huairou Team, which has been focusing on emotional teaching for 8 years. Committed to providing you with emotional services, such as how to chat, attack your real life and save your true love. I hope to help more and more brothers realize their emotional freedom. It is worth emphasizing that our team's "replicable chat course" has helped many students solve the problems of "how to chat" and "social software chat" and won a lot of praise. If you have the following problems: you can't chat, you often can't find a topic, and you can obviously feel that this girl knows that you like her, but she keeps telling you that she is a friend. You have a girl you like, but you don't know how to pursue it. You often date girls, but you just eat and watch movies without any substantial progress. Then please take mine directly, click and send it to me once, and I will directly help you analyze the situation and solve the problem! At the same time, my circle of friends updates many girls' chatting skills and skills to get along correctly every day, and can also add thinking and learning (if you can't add them, you can also click on my avatar to chat with me privately and send your number directly to our consultant, and I will add you). This is a chat record of a tutor of Huairou team, and this girl we met on social software. The following is my chat with her: First of all, the opening remarks are very important. Guys, look at our opening remarks. It's just a "wow". Brothers must realize that the opening is not the most important thing. Just send a hi or cute one, which is equivalent to writing a "solution" to a math problem at school, without being too fancy at the beginning. Our purpose is just to tell the girls that we have started chatting. You can see that the girl gave a hee hee, and many brothers began to collapse at this time. How should I reply to her at this time? When you saw our reply, "It's rare to meet someone who feels close at hand by sharing the happiness of this moment", why did you reply like this? Because this time, corresponding to reality, you completely shared your inner feelings. Second, how to find a topic Many brothers consulted me and said, "It is difficult to find a topic with women at ordinary times, and I am also a boring person." Actually, brother, you should know that you and women are the same topic source. When we talk about ourselves, we feel beautiful and sincere, and when women pay more attention to themselves, just like you, they will also consider other people's views and feelings about you. At this time, you can also find a topic through your circle of friends. Brothers must remember that after adding a girl, you must first visit her circle of friends. Observe women through the circle of friends, understand women, understand women's quality of life, and understand women's hobbies. "She takes whatever she likes." Here, I am in my other position, "a newly added girl, who can fly to chat in a few words". You can follow me and look at my old dry goods. You can also click add mine, and the tutor will guide you how to take off the order through chat. Or you can add our consultant directly and we will send it to you! Chatting with women in the early stage must provide 90% topics, while women only need to provide 10% topics; This is the so-called "9 1 rule" in the four methods of chatting. The purpose of our chat is to constantly improve our relationship with women. At this time, it doesn't matter what the sister replies. What matters is what we guide our sister to say. Here I express my appreciation and praise to her. Unlike my brothers, I just express my appreciation and praise from the outside. But by observing women's circle of friends, we can observe the advantages of women from the circle of friends. If you can't find it, you can also copy and paste what our tutor provided. Our Huairou team internal course provides 8 actual combat case templates, many of which can be completely copied and pasted. This is why our course can become the most popular course in the whole platform, and our course has been highly praised outside the rankings. Get the number third, cut off the chat in time. I don't know if the brothers have noticed, it's already 1 2 o'clock. So in the evening, many brothers began to talk to women about some shy topics. But, brothers, you should know that you haven't known each other for a long time. When you talk about these topics, it is easy to kill a day or even delete a day. So when we realize this, we should take the initiative to cut off this chat and cut off the chat when women are interested. There are two advantages to actively cutting off the chat: first, we take the lead, don't expose the sense of demand, occupy our own framework, and don't like fighting. Second, we keep high energy during the second chat. Therefore, going to bed early and getting up early, and talking tomorrow, is also a continuation of topic chat and a legitimate reason to chat with women. When we want to open the second topic, you should have a natural opening and how to find the topic. We won't talk about short truths in practice, but directly explain the dialogue. This is the simplest and most useful. When chatting, find the right opportunity through simple topics and quickly promote the relationship between two people! This is an effective chat! You will only care about each other every day and never catch up with her! Think of more wonderful chat records with women, you can add my collection number directly, and I will send some wonderful chat records with beautiful women in the circle of friends, which contains many chat topics and topics that girls are interested in! Show me how masters chat with girls and study hard. Fourth, valuable chat. We started with a basic exchange of information and made a speech during the chat. Phonetics has a very real feeling, combined with some basic information exchange, it can also increase women's sense of security. Brothers must remember that a woman doesn't always need to have a serious chat with you. Of course, she also needs a completely informal chat. What a woman needs is "interesting" chat, which can make her feel ups and downs, make her feel happy to chat with you, and help us advance our relationship with women unconsciously. This is also one of the core skills in Huairou team's internal courses. The "second-line theory" is to ridicule a chat without nutrition and then get serious immediately. You must be a serious person, sometimes a little bad. Chatting with women in the early stage is a basic information exchange, but it can't be like this all the time. Be sure to upgrade your relationship in the future. Women ask us why we like me. Many brothers say that you have a good figure, but judging from what we say, we often say that we like "sincere and lively girls" and "energetic girls" from the heart. Don't start with the appearance, start with the surface, and don't start with the superficial things. After these women ask you what you like, you can copy and paste what we say. In order to learn to chat quickly and catch up with the people you like, I have prepared gifts for everyone! Often send a lot of interesting chat topics in the circle of friends, and also send a lot of interesting topics to girls! If you can't chat? Chatting embarrassed, can't find a topic? You can add my number directly. In my circle of friends, you can see many interesting chat topics and topics that girls are interested in. I will also send my actual chat cases with beautiful women to my circle of friends for your reference. When you saw the last woman directly say "come and live with us next time", did the brothers subvert their three views when they saw this, and the girl herself said that she would live with us? At this time, I want to say a point that makes my brothers very uncomfortable. You usually save your hard-earned money, give women red envelopes and buy gifts, but the result is: you are very kind, let's be friends, and you don't even have to hold hands when spending money. This is the image of "payer". Brothers, tell our professional consultant that if a woman offers to "come and live with you next time", do you think you are still the buyer who can't even hold hands? Can you get rid of the bill smoothly and let her be your girlfriend? Of course, about chatting more, how to improve your emotional intelligence and make yourself more attractive, please add our professional consultants directly, and we will tell you how to do it one by one. Of course, I can also learn the chat skills updated every day in my circle of friends and the correct way to get along with girls, so as to improve the level of chatting with girls!