"No eye contact, no manners, nothing to say", how to solve the three mountains of holiday blind date?

In fact, everyone has many faces. For ourselves, there will be models such as chic, integrity, filth, sage, success and self-confidence, sunshine or dark side, which we will show at different times. The so-called eye contact of most girls is just the side that that person just showed at that moment, which only caters to the girl's mood at that moment.

So most people here are either stupid or stupid. Because any two people get along with each other, this kind of probability event will occur, and it should not be used as a standard for mate selection. It's just that girls can rely on this memory for a long time because of the initial probability.

You can recall that you just entered the university and entered the dormitory. When you first met your roommate, the person who you thought was the most rustic and the least angry, really doesn't like you now? Is the person you thought was the most polite and beautiful at that time really worthy of your heart? Will it be so common to meet your best friend or your favorite friend?

Even if you don't feel anything when you meet for the first time, you will send someone downstairs to their house, send a message to confirm your arrival at home, and it's nice to chat with you tonight. Although it is only a polite thing, I must do enough. If you can't be a lover, you can be a friend.

If I meet someone who is really chatting in speculation, I will say, "I just talked to you a few times tonight, and I feel that you have refreshed your outlook!" I feel that people who have such experiences must have stories. Can you share your past with me sometime? " ? This shows a strong interest in each other and invites them to meet next time.

It says to send a polite greeting when you come back, and then nothing will happen. After all, there is no eye contact, right? If you don't contact for a few days, the matchmaker will definitely call to ask what's going on. If you really don't like it at this time, you can euphemistically tell the matchmaker that it is inappropriate, and the matchmaker will also convey it.

Therefore, after the above politeness, the success of blind date depends on the other party, not on its own problems.