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How to restore freshness to feelings?

First, how to restore freshness to feelings? 1. Learn to arrange your time reasonably. Many people will spend most of their time on their children or work after marriage. From the moment you ignore the feelings of the other half, it is doomed that the feelings between you two will become weaker and weaker. If you want to keep fresh, you should arrange some time to live a very chic life with your partner. 2. Try to improve your attention. And you are busy every day, and the communication between two people is getting less and less. When you don't understand each other's psychological thoughts and the other person lives with you in a guessing way, both of you will be very painful. Let the other person pay more attention to you, increase some communication between two people and keep it fresh. Second, how to keep the feelings fresh 1, learn to keep a proper distance, and don't think that living together every day after marriage can be unscrupulous in front of each other. I want to keep fresh, but I also want to know the taboos between men and women. Only when you know how to keep each other's appetite, will the other party keep their passion for you. Don't tell your partner everything about your private life and work, learn to have your own world. Only by giving the other person a feeling that the other person can't figure it out can the life between two people be happier. After all, the other person is still full of freshness to you. How to restore the freshness of feelings 2 How to restore the freshness of feelings 1. If you want to restore your feelings to the freshness when you first got together, you must pay attention to this emotion, not to mention that two people have been together for a long time, and then give up dressing up, especially girls. If this boy always sees a unkempt girl after work every day, he will always be an unhappy girl. I believe that any boy will resent you, so girls must live exquisitely. Only exquisite girls can make this boy love more and more. If you want your feelings to be repaired, then we must communicate well. In the process of communication, we must absolutely control our temper, especially girls. Don't always want this boy to indulge you, and don't always have a strong desire to control this boy. As long as both sides trust each other, as long as both of them can have some secrets and reveal them to each other from time to time, it will not only make you two fresher, but also make you two fresher. How to restore feelings when feelings are weak 1. Be close to each other. If you always feel that they have nothing in common, it may be that you have never entered his world. He likes football matches, and you like watching TV soap operas. You find that you are getting farther and farther away from each other. If you can try to walk into each other's world, maybe you will feel different. You will accompany him to watch the ball game, he will accompany you to watch the TV series, and you will gradually feel it. Don't complain that feelings are getting weaker and more stable. This may seem trite to both of you, but it is also the beginning of a long-term relationship with each other. Don't complain too much about his lack of enthusiasm for you, because people will be more selfish after being together for a long time, and hope that the other party will be better to themselves, so cherish the feelings in front of you, don't complain, and feel the love from the other party. 3. Changing the way is different from when you were in love before. If you used to eat, go shopping and watch movies, you can eat, climb mountains and swim now. For example, what you want to say is not to be the same as before. Or you can learn how to communicate with her, so that the feelings between you will gradually heat up. The important thing is to communicate, or make yourself more different, more and more perfect. 4. Don't ask too much of each other. If you are always critical of the other person's shortcomings and sometimes ask him to do all kinds of things, then the other person will be very angry, so if you want to avoid this situation, don't be too hard on the other person. 5, improve yourself from the outside to the inside, and directly enhance your attractiveness. This is the core! It is the easiest thing to change your dressing style, hairstyle and makeup. It is difficult to enrich one's horizons and increase knowledge and culture, but the effect is amazing. If you do it well, don't let the feelings go back to the beginning, it is ok to revive. If the methods mentioned above have no effect after use, then we must and can only start from this direction. 6. Going out to travel together says that two people who love each other must go out to travel together before marriage, so as to get to know each other better. For people who have been together for a long time, it is really easy to feel tired. If you step out of your familiar living environment and enter a strange environment, everything you encounter will be fresh, and it is easy to evoke feelings for each other and make your relationship closer. 7. Be more active. If you are in love for a long time and don't take the initiative, it is easy to dilute your feelings. This is normal. If you want to be in a hot state, you need more practical actions and more initiative. Only in this way can you surprise each other and make them happy, you can become more interactive and couples can have more communication. What is the regularity of freshness in three months? Two people together for three months. I believe that we have a certain understanding of each other's temperament, or some advantages and disadvantages. At this time, the novelty of both sides will gradually disappear. So if you want to keep the two of you together for a long time, you don't want your novelty to disappear soon. We should constantly make changes in the process of being with him. Ten details of a man's change of heart 1. He often makes excuses to go out. Recently, her husband often does some unplanned things, especially after receiving a strange phone call that is not recorded in the phone book, he doesn't care about important things at home. Or put down things at home and find an excuse to go out. 2. Become rude When a person completely changes his mind, he will become rude. You won't even believe that these rude words come from the person who once called you "baby" and once made you love. When he does this, he will say the most heartbreaking words, and he will be indifferent to your crying. If you see these reactions, then you can know that a person has really changed his mind. In this case, a smart woman will choose to leave because she can't give you happiness. Don't hope for him, or you will be worse. You will be happy when the right person appears. 3. He suddenly became particularly fond of dressing up. Once he didn't like perfume, he suddenly became to wear perfume every day before going out. This unusual performance shows that his heart is derailed. So you should pay attention to him and always remind him not to do anything wrong, otherwise don't blame you for being rude. All this is possible. When a person follows an old habit and suddenly changes, it must mean something. It may be a particularly good mood or a particularly bad mood, a particularly good or bad career change, or a new relationship. 4. Meetings are gradually decreasing. I saw it several times a week ago and only once recently; Usually meeting is always very close, but recently it is very dull; It's always pleasant to give him a gift, but this time it's a bit stiff and embarrassing; Usually get along well, talking and laughing, but these times are always strange and silent. When the initial enthusiasm faded, he began to find that you were not as perfect as you thought. Then he began to retreat. He hopes to return to the position of ordinary friends and maintain the most ordinary relationship first. You know, it's human nature to like the new and hate the old. He always says that he is busy. Have you noticed that from one day on, your man suddenly became extremely busy? I have to work overtime today, have a party tomorrow, and even the day after tomorrow is full of meetings and studies. Whether he is busy or not. It doesn't matter to you that he is no longer busy. Or this person suddenly began to say that he was busy at some time, working overtime every day or going to parties. He is always busy and has little time to spend with you. In fact, he will spend a lot of time with you when he is chasing you. He wants to be with you all the time. So it's not that he doesn't have time, but that he doesn't want to be with you. 6. I began to be indifferent to my own quality. Some people are not good at hiding. When his heart no longer belongs to you, any conversation between you two is superfluous to him. In particular, your nagging made him feel upset and then began to silence. Don't doubt that when he starts to be impatient with you, when he starts to be silent with you, his heart will no longer be with you. Whether he is happy or sad, he always shows indifference. When you told him your sorrow, he was only symbolic comfort, not the original worry. This indifference is also manifested in indifference to friends and indifference to everything around. He won't call you if you are tired. Sometimes, even if he calls, he won't come in person. 7. He began to play dumb about very clear things. You used to love him, but he never had much time to rest. Now you are beginning to wonder why he only likes to go home and sleep. When you are busy doing housework, he is already sleeping; When you want to talk to him, he tells you that he wants to sleep. For him, after changing his mind, home is just a place to sleep. Start playing dumb. For example, if he knows that you are tired after work, he will pretend not to see you. For example, if he knows your suspicion, he will pretend to be innocent. It is said that men are the best at acting, especially playing dumb, and they are absolutely talented. 8. He became particularly irritable. When a person's attention slowly turns away from you and doesn't love you, his performance is obvious. No matter how men disguise themselves, as long as they change their minds, they will quietly expose themselves. The point is that you must find out carefully. For example, he didn't get angry easily before, but now he loses his temper easily. He often gets angry when you make a small mistake, but when you two are together, even if you make a big mistake, he won't lose his temper and will comfort you. Now that he is with you, there are many things that make him unhappy. 9. After staring at his mobile phone every day and coming home, he carefully puts it beside him. Whether it is a ringtone or a message, he will pick it up and read it. Sometimes when the phone rings, he will go out of your hearing and answer the phone in a low voice instead of directly in front of his wife. Most outgoing and incoming calls are recorded. Once you find that your husband's phone records or text messages often show incomplete records, you should be careful. Usually he only deletes special records to make sure that there are no records of other women in his mobile phone. 10, began to become selfish. He doesn't want to spend time shopping and watching movies with you anymore. It's his own time, doing what he likes, not to mention sweet talk in bed late at night.