It is very positive for a man to reply to your message without taking the initiative to chat with you. What's his mentality?

He should be a passive boy, but his heart is very fragile, so he wants to be cared for, cared for, encouraged and recognized. When you take the initiative to find him, he will feel that he is needed, cared for and recognized, so he will express himself urgently.

There really is such a man in life. He usually doesn't take the initiative to chat with you. However, when you send him a message on your own initiative, he will reply to you in time. This kind of behavior is actually easy for women to misunderstand and feel that this man seems to be different from himself. Is he interested in himself?

However, it is impossible for a man to make an accurate judgment on this behavior. Unless you know this person well, don't guess his mind, because you can't guess. Of course, men like this must have their own ideas, so what do they think in their hearts? Men will not take the initiative to chat with you, but will take the initiative to reply to your message. Nine times out of ten, they all have these little thoughts.

1, he regards you as his best friend.

It is said that people can't help liking it, so if a man, he won't take the initiative to chat with you, but after receiving your message, he will actively reply to you. Well, obviously, he doesn't love you, otherwise how could he not take the initiative?

Although I don't love you, I regard you as my best friend. Therefore, when I receive your message, I will not give you a cold shoulder, but will respond positively to you. For men, women should never think too much, let alone misunderstand men.

I really like you, but I don't like you enough.

If a man is passionate about a woman, he will take the initiative to catch up with her as soon as possible. Only after catching up with her will he feel at ease. However, if a man has a crush on you, but he is not sure whether he likes it or not, he will definitely not bother you, because once the uncertain feelings are too impulsive, both of them may get hurt.

Therefore, when he is not sure about his feelings for you, he will think for himself. At this time, if he receives your message, he will naturally reply to you positively. Although he is not sure about his feelings for you, he still hopes to leave a good impression on you.

3. I have been hurt in my feelings and dare not love again.

Some men who have been hurt in their feelings, even if they meet someone they like, find it difficult to summon up the courage to chase them, because after being hurt, they naturally don't have great expectations for love.

Loving and being afraid of being hurt is really a kind of torture, but feelings are not a process of meeting step by step. What if you meet them, like them and get hurt? What if she's your destiny takes a hand? Therefore, if you are hurt, you should keep your passion and yearning for love. Only in this way can you meet your own happiness.