It doesn't feel right for a husband to text his wife.

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I met my wife on a blind date. In fact, I chose to get married because I just wanted to satisfy my parents' wishes and didn't want them to worry too much about me.

After my wife and I got married, my heart was always a little unbalanced. After all, I don't love my wife very much, but my parents think she is kind, considerate and hardworking.

After eight years of marriage, everyone can see that my wife is tolerant and considerate. Many brothers around me also think I am a lucky man. No matter how angry I am with my wife, she will never let me step in front of outsiders.

But when couples get along for a long time, it is inevitable that there will be contradictions.

After having children, my wife's temper with her children is getting worse and worse every day, and her love and concern are getting less and less, and she doesn't even want to get along with her alone.

Later, I met a woman at work. Her successful career has brought me a lot of freshness in getting along. We met at a cocktail party, and soon I had an affair. The other person also has his own family, but he has been separated from his husband for a long time and basically has no feelings.

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I didn't tell this woman that I was married, but I dated her as a single man.

During this extramarital affair, I really realized the freshness of love, which was completely different from when I was with my wife. Every time I came home from work, I was faced with a wife who didn't know how to dress up. If there is no attraction between husband and wife, then men will really want to have an affair.

Once, I promised to go out with her, but the company had to work overtime temporarily that day, so I sent a disgusting short message to the other party and accidentally sent it to my wife.

The content of the text message is: "Dear, I'm sorry, I'm busy at work these days and I don't care enough about you, but that doesn't mean I don't value you. Sometimes I just don't know how to express myself. I'll stay with you after this busy time. Don't be angry. "

At first, I thought my wife would find out that I had an affair, but since then, my wife's attitude towards me has been completely different.

She began to know how to dress herself. She has never worn a skirt before. One day when I came home, she actually put on a long skirt and looked very beautiful. I suddenly remembered when I got married. Although I don't really want to get married, I like my wife very much. After all, it's a great honor to marry a beautiful wife and go home.

In the past, my wife always complained in front of me about how hard she took care of the children, and sometimes said that other people's husbands were gentle and considerate. But since receiving my message, she has never compared me with others, and her personality has become particularly docile.

I like being alone with my wife more and more. Every time I come home from work, I hope I can go back to eat my wife's cooking early.

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Watching my wife busy in the kitchen, I suddenly realized that it was not easy for her these years. She took care of me and my family.

Then I decided to go back in time and go back to my family. As a man with such a gentle and beautiful woman, he should know how to cherish it. How can there be other ideas?

The reason why I had an affair was actually very simple. It is nothing more than staying in marriage for a long time, feeling that feelings are slowly becoming boring, and just being able to regain freshness in other women, I made a mistake on impulse.

Fortunately, the text message sent that night was sent to my wife, which made me completely awake and saw her kindness, and finally successfully saved two families.

As a married middle-aged man, I also want to remind everyone that love for his wife may sometimes gradually decrease after marriage, but this is not a legitimate reason for men to have extramarital affairs. It is to constantly reflect on yourself. Is it because of inner dissatisfaction that you can't always keep fresh in your marriage?

Marriage is not easy. The woman who is willing to marry you has put all her efforts into the marriage. As men, we should not neglect the love and care for our wives because of novelty. The freshness that other women can bring you is only temporary. Only the lover with you is the protagonist in the marriage.

I hope you can respect your lover, protect your marriage and don't destroy other people's feelings.

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