Why do most couples stop contacting each other after breaking up?

Usually, it is common for couples to break up. Two people will break up for various reasons, but some people will only talk on their mobile phones. So we need to know whether couples should make it clear in person. Why do most couples stop contacting each other after breaking up? To make it clear in person means that both men and women are calm, sitting in the corner, explaining their thoughts on this relationship clearly, and at the same time letting the other party know why they want to break up, and letting the other party know their position and determination to break up. I won't bother you again on the day after we break up. I can let you start another relationship or life again. I think it is necessary for couples to communicate face to face, because in such a formal ceremony, both sides can analyze according to their recent contact, and then make this relationship stronger and understand each other's thoughts better. Feelings are managed by both sides and the result of two people's joint efforts. If you want to end this relationship, I think it should be formal. Don't just end it by text message or phone, because it will allow two people to re-examine this relationship and think about their decision to break up, so it will have a certain salvage effect. If two people really loved each other, they would never contact each other again. When they are in contact, they will think of each other's past and the time lost when they are happy and painful, which is simply mental torture for two people. So everyone wants to get out of the shadows as soon as possible and find a new partner. Generally, separated couples are reluctant to talk about their past emotional experiences with their new partners. If you contact again, it will easily lead to embarrassment for the incumbent. If you encounter feelings that have to be separated, there is still the possibility of rekindling old feelings. This is the biggest injustice to the incumbent, so not contacting is also a respect for the incumbent. The pain of breaking up can only be alleviated by time. Without contact, we can also leave room for each other to heal and get out of the haze of breaking up. After breaking up, no matter men or women, don't behave like Dou E and be wronged everywhere. This will only make others feel embarrassed, so save your dignity and heal yourself quietly. When we are just separated, our mood will be very complicated and sensitive, so we will be angry when we see these things. Maybe we just want to throw everything away in a rage. Besides, it would be a waste to throw away those things. For example, many things are still very useful, and throwing them away will cause unnecessary waste of resources. There is no need to return it, because it is generally a female product, and it is of little value to return it to him. Or many girls may want to give things back to boys as something to wake them up. Actually, I don't think it's necessary, because you broke up and these things are no longer a threat to him. You might as well keep it for yourself and make good use of it. Of course, I think couples should break up peacefully, and don't quarrel over some trivial matters, which will eventually bring a lot of harm to each other. In the end, both of them became strangers.