Adoption SMS

Mr. Jiang Yang said in his "Centennial Speech": "It is really difficult to be a human being in this materialistic world."

Yes, the world of adults is a sea of suffering. You and I are both deeply involved, and no one is spared.

If life is like tea, it will be a bitter thinking.

For most of us, the taste of the first sip of tea is "bitter", but then the root of the tongue will be sweet. This sweetness is accompanied by the fragrance of tea, which is called the feeling of returning to the mouth.

Drinking tea is like this, and so is life.

There is a sweet side as well as a bitter side. After these three hardships, the rest is happiness.

There is no easy word in 1, only try your best.

A takeaway brother lined up in the tea shop to get the milk tea ordered by the customer. At that time, it was at the peak of the off-duty flow, and the long queue could not be seen at a glance.

More than an hour passed, and before the queue, my brother communicated with the customer and wanted to ask the customer to add a few more queuing fees, but the customer felt that the time was too long and canceled the order directly.

Little brother looked at the text message in his hand to remind him to suddenly collapse and cry; Some people around me kindly comforted and persuaded, and some people wondered: As for it? The collapse of adults is not worth it!

In fact, it's not easy for adults.

When it happens quietly, others even think it is a mountain out of a molehill, and only they know why. Those tears that suddenly appear to others are not easy to accumulate over time.

When I was a child, I always thought that life would be easy when I grew up.

When you really grow up, you find that growing up means taking on more responsibilities, which means that many times, you have to face the chaos of life alone.

I saw a clip of a TV show about a small noodle shop owner whose business was unsustainable. Because of a deposit of 3000 yuan, he finally collapsed and cried.

It turned out that the noodle shop owner rented this house to sell noodles, but he lost all his money because of his inexperience and the unsatisfactory geographical location of the shop.

When it rained all night, he experienced the busyness of getting up early and getting greedy for the dark, the depression of scrimping and saving, and the hard work, but there were still many moments when he could not do it.

When the business lost money, the landlord asked for rent. He decided not to renew the lease, but the more he thought about it, the more unwilling he became. He asked the landlord to return the remaining 3000 yuan deposit, otherwise he would never move out of the store.

The landlord thinks that according to the contract, if the contract is not renewed, the deposit cannot be refunded.

The landlord thought the man was unreasonable and called the police. The police found that the landlord could not refund the deposit according to the contract, and the man could not occupy other people's private property.

The middle-aged man suddenly collapsed and cried: I am in my forties, my business is not good, I have lost all my money, and my family is old and small, and life is too hard. .....

In the world of adults, there is no easy word, only try your best. Even if you are wronged, not everyone can understand your sadness and comfort your pain.

Writer Ha Jin once said: "In fact, the ultimate difference between people is whether you can get through it or not. After that, you will be different. "

The obstacles we have crossed and the difficulties we have overcome will become the hardest armor on our way forward.

2. There is no empathy, only self-knowledge.

The movie My Sister, which was released some time ago, almost made people who walked into the cinema burst into tears. This kind of empathy or tear-jerking family story itself makes people feel that the joys and sorrows in the world are never connected, and people only know when they are warm and cold.

The sister in the movie is safe and sound, living in a patriarchal family and relatively alienated from her parents.

During her college years, her parents finally got their wish and gave birth to a boy. This younger brother who is ten years older than her has always been valued and loved by the whole family.

Only my sister has a grudge against her parents, and she hasn't met her brother several times. The two brothers and sisters can be said to be strangers linked by blood.

Just as my sister was trying to save enough money to escape from family of origin to live a new life, she suddenly received the bad news that her parents were killed in a car accident.

Her parents left her a school district room, and her younger brother An Ziheng, who had not met several times.

My aunt was moved and advised her, "As an elder sister, you should take care of your younger brother, just as I mentioned that your parents take care of you."

My uncle reasoned with her and advised her: "Isn't it just raising a child? Besides, there is a school district, and it is not a loss to raise it! "

My uncle and uncle are jealous of the school district in the heritage, but they are unwilling to raise children; Accuse my sister: if you don't raise your brother, who will?

The younger sister in the movie is eager to come out. She doesn't accept the accident that "her brother fell from the sky", and she can't accept the reality that she will raise him alone from now on.

So after my parents had an accident, my sister once wanted to sell the house and give my brother up for adoption.

However, after knowing my sister's decision, my family called her Baiwenhang one after another and sent my brother away to keep the inheritance for themselves. Even the closest aunt, also get in the way, constantly stirring up the adoption plan.

What can my sister do? There is only compromise, no choice.

Life is like this. Most people just look on coldly. Even if we are wronged, others just laugh at our embarrassment or judge our hardships at will.

As the writer canoe said in Deep Sea Stars, there is no such thing as empathy in the world. People don't know how painful it is to prick themselves with a needle!

Life is really hard, and no one is an exception.

Sometimes we can't rely on anyone. In fact, there is no empathy in this world. Only when people drink water can they understand water well and stick to it.

Nothing is smooth, only everything is pessimistic.

In the finale of the hit drama "Little Shede", some netizens spoke a little badly, and finally forced everyone to wash it away. The original San Xiao "big princess" had to travel alone when everyone got together, which was very painful.

You know, divorce is a heavy blow to the original big princess. She lost more than 20 kilograms a month, lost a lot of hair, and even took antidepressants for two years.

No one's life is beautiful, even those who look glamorous may burst into tears in the long night.

After a serious illness, "princess royal" understood more: at his age, if he still persists in not getting or losing himself and refuses to let go of himself, life will be very painful.

Her ex-husband did something wrong to her. She never stopped her daughter from seeing her father, because she knew that what she had gained must be lost, and what she lost could not be forced to lose her daughter together.

After her daughter got married, she didn't haunt her often. She will help her daughter with the children, but she has her own life, arranging flowers and dancing, and life is very unique.

When her daughter had dinner with her ex-husband, she chose to travel abroad. Before leaving, she bought an insulation bag for her ex-husband, asked her daughter to send it to him, and then calmly said a meaningful sentence:

Life is really short, and it takes decades to rush. If you just pretend this resentment, your love won't come in.

Yu Dan once said: "Only when our hearts are really calm can we be unaffected by the ups and downs of life."

If we want to live happily, we must overcome everything and let it go, so that we can get rid of the chicken feathers in our lives and save them to make a feather duster for sunny days.

There are three hardships in life, and surviving them is a blessing.

Tagore said: "Your burden will be a gift, and your suffering will light your way"!

Behind everyone, there are hardships that we can't see. If you think so, you will have more strength to face the storm of life.

Even if life is really bitter, please believe that the reality is cruel, but sometimes the world is gentle!

After all, life is like tea, it will be bitter for a while, but it will not be bitter for a lifetime!

Life is really hard, so we must support ourselves.

When we bite our teeth and get through these three kinds of "bitterness", what we meet again is happiness.