In order to urge you to have three children, you even said that the best age for a woman to conceive is 25~59? This is too much.

Do you know how old the "best pregnancy age for women" is?

I thought if I had a son and a daughter, I wouldn't be forced to have children again.

After all, I tell you that there is no other reason to have another child, just because:

"You only have one man now, have another woman, and say a good word."

"You are all daughters now. Only one more man can carry on the family line."

In my hometown, having a baby is like asking for a "good start".

The pursuit is to have children,

If you have too many daughters, you have to have a man to honor your ancestors.

Since the opening of the three-child policy,

The elders are possessed again, forcing you to have another one.

Every time someone asks me, "Why not have another one?"

In the past, I always used "policy questions" to block each other's mouths.

Later, as soon as the policy came out, I went back as "I have passed the best age for pregnancy."

I wanted to explain it with such scientific truth.

The other party should stop and stop talking.

Who knows they didn't buy it and moved out:

Boy, why let life have three children,

I also collected some data specially.

I'm going to explain it from a medical point of view,

When is the best pregnancy age and what are the benefits?

A few days ago, an "enthusiastic" aunt came to her house as a guest.

After a few homely chats, I began to turn to the topic of having children.

Suddenly popped up:

Experts say that women are the best age to conceive before the age of 25-59.

What? 25 years old is understandable,

59 is the best age for pregnancy? There is no further!

I said, "How is that possible? Who said that? "

"Look, I just saw it in the WeChat group!"

Then she showed me this photo:

If with the development of science and technology,

In order to encourage women to have triplets,

It is understandable to raise the best age to 35 or 39.

But it's too much to say such nonsense at the age of 59.

Of course, I think it's more a clerical error.

Think about it,

Simply considering women's health and children,

The best age for conception is generally between 24 and 30 years old.

However, with the improvement of quality of life and medical technology,

Children born before the age of 35 are still very healthy.

Because after the age of 35,

Can be included in the ranks of elderly women,

The risk of childbirth for elderly women is naturally much higher.

Therefore, general doctors will not recommend that elderly women have another child.

Later, after this aunt talked nonsense,

I suddenly realized that my brother and his in-laws are 30 years old this year.

I'm not going to have children yet, so I immediately changed the topic to:

"Hurry to have children now, and you can't have children when you are old."

Man, one second I said I could have a baby at 59,

Now he says that in the future, you can't give birth when you are old.

Sure enough, every aunt born is a "well-known double standard".

As an experienced person,

Slowly discover that life and education are two different things.

In fact, it is not difficult to have children, but it is education that is difficult.

The data shows that women's golden age of employment is 22-35 years old.

30 years old can be said to be a turning point in the workplace.

"Life" or "promotion" is the biggest choice.

Many elders like to say:

"Who doesn't raise a baby while working? How can he be melodramatic when he comes to you?"

Not to mention that there is no comparability between the past and the present,

In pregnancy+maternity leave+breastfeeding leave,

It will not work normally for at least two years.

Followed by early education, kindergartens, primary schools ... endless worries.

The most unfair thing is:

If you choose to be a professional woman,

Some people will say that you are a bad mother who does not care about your family;

If you choose to be a stay-at-home mom,

Others will say that it is a woman's duty to have children.

This is not a profession.

With the emergence of the three-child policy,

Many people rush their babies in the dark.

The problem itself is not big. Anyway, let's talk about having children scientifically.

Express your opinions, maybe you are really touched.

But with ignorance and arrogance to urge the baby,

At this time, there is no need to explain anything from the perspective of social economy or medicine.

In the end, I can only answer "whether we are born or not is your business."

In my opinion, the best reproductive age for women,

On the premise of good health,

The best age should be:

That's when you want to have children.

Finally,

Aunt has been talking about things with the picture of "the best age to conceive" since then.

I asked her in ignorance:

"Aunt, when did you stop menstruating?"

Let it be deeply rooted in people's hearts.