Why didn't she return my text messages or answer my calls? It is urgent. Why?

Most girls will not take the initiative to pursue the boys they like, unless they really like them too much or are brave girls with personality. So, if you like a girl very much and think she is a little interested in you, take the initiative and don't fight with her, you will feel uncomfortable. Maybe the person you like will also suffer.

When a girl is chased, her psychology is very complicated. She may be happy, but she is a little scared. She has ambivalence towards the boy who intruded into her quiet life. She didn't mean to. Don't think she is testing you, but she is actually fighting herself. She is afraid of getting hurt.

Don't be afraid that your initiative will arouse her disgust. If you don't take the initiative, she won't take the initiative, and it will fade slowly. It's normal if your initial confession is rejected by her. Don't be discouraged, who knows what this girl is thinking? Maybe if you confess twice, she will be moved by you. A good girl with a kind heart is easily moved.

If you are frustrated, leave immediately, never reply to this girl again, protect yourself tightly and lick the wound silently. When you are in pain, everyone knows that that girl may regret and regret! Maybe she will secretly cry and regret rejecting you, and then she will be sad to see your indifferent eyes, but she won't tell you, and she will never ask you to come back and chase her. Your excessive self-esteem may hurt a girl's sensitive heart. She will think that you don't really like him, otherwise how could you give her up?

If you are a man, be brave. Girls are emotional and easily immersed in love. Although you work hard, once your heart touches her, you will get more and more love. Such examples abound around us. Girls are gentle and considerate to their boyfriends. What was the original hard work for this sweetness? And most good girls are devoted.

Therefore, it is suggested that some boys be brave enough to pursue the girls they like, instead of being so timid. First, people think you are unmanly, and second, you feel uncomfortable. However, the most important thing is that you won't get anything in the end. Happiness is always earned by yourself, don't expect others to give it to you!