My girlfriend always sends me messages, which annoys me. What should I do?

Understand your girlfriend and let her understand you. You need work and personal space.

First of all, your attitude is wrong. Your thoughts have a great influence on their feelings. Love always needs two people to run together to last longer. If falling in love is your mentality, why are you looking for a girlfriend?

Girls' feelings are very delicate. Compared with boys' reticence, girls will be more lively and cheerful, especially when they are with their boyfriends, they will be more clingy and want their boyfriends to pay more attention. When they are not around, they may send a lot of messages and be nagging.

As a boyfriend, shouldn't you feel very happy when your girlfriend sends you a message? She always puts you first, which shows that she cares about you. She always sends you a lot of messages, which shows that she always misses you. Maybe after two years together, she may have passed the love period, but love after the love period needs the common care of two people.

If it is the kind of mentality that "I feel that we have been together for a long time, there is no need to send me a lot of information, and I will feel bored", it can only show that there is something wrong with your mentality. Don't you like her?

Then imagine, if she doesn't send it to you, but sends a lot of WeChat to other men every day, will you also feel annoyed? If you don't feel sad, maybe you really don't like her so much anymore.

At this point, it is very important to adjust your mentality. Understand that the other person may have become dependent on you in a long-term relationship. I want to tell you everything in my daily life. I want to tell you all my feelings, life and work details, so that you can know that you used to get along. Isn't that the same?

Sending a lot of WeChat also has the quantity and depth of content, just like having some female friends who are suspicious. My boyfriend is not around, so I may make a few phone calls every ten minutes to check the post. And some people also send WeChat, which has been sent all the time, and many of them are sent by voice. After opening the chat interface, they don't know what they are talking about, so they can only listen to the voice slowly.

Remind her gently, pay attention to the way, and don't send messages too often. For example, your leader said that your mobile phone is always ringing, and the result is all WeChat sent by your girlfriend. For example, when you are busy at work, you always hear the WeChat prompt, but it opens, which affects work efficiency.

Give her a vaccine. You think she can't do it because of work needs. And chatting all the time during work hours will also affect her attention and efficiency. Therefore, when she is busy, she may not be able to reply. She should be considerate.

Of course, good communication is necessary. You can't chat during work hours. What about after work? Did you go home? What you should care about is to take the initiative to pay attention, not to be bored with her.