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Classic quotations about parenting: Parents should not only preach, but also set an example.
Some articles I read recently and some things I encountered around me all mentioned the issue of education. Although I am familiar with the word upbringing, I learned it curiously. The explanation is: moral cultivation in behavior. It is the result of social influence, family education, school education and personal cultivation, especially the code of conduct and ethics developed in the family since childhood.
Well, for such a comprehensive explanation of the meaning of words, I still feel that my previous understanding of education is still insufficient. In my mind, the so-called education is the habit and moral character formed by parents' family education. Of course, Baidu also emphasizes the moral standards of upbringing, especially the behaviors developed from childhood in the family. From this point, we can see that family education is actually the most important factor for a person to receive education.
My parents have no education. They have only read for a year or two, and they don't know much about Chinese characters. However, they have taught me to form some habits since I was a child, which have been affecting me. For example, they repeatedly stressed to me some behaviors that should be paid attention to at the dinner table: eat as much as you want, and don't leave leftovers; The rice bowl must be eaten clean, and there can be no rice grains sticking; Like to eat one dish, not just one dish; You can't pile all your favorite dishes in front of you; You can't rummage through the dishes with chopsticks and pick what you like to eat; When eating, people should sit still and don't put their legs on the chair. Of course, in addition to these, my parents have taught me a lot, and their education for me has become a habit I consciously develop.
Last year, I got married. On the second day of New Year's Day, my parents gave a banquet to entertain relatives, and my husband and I were there. Uncle and aunt are here, and a big table is full. During the dinner, my husband drank some drinks, ordered a little, and then gently told me that he was going to have a big meal. Soon after serving, everyone didn't eat much, and they were still drinking and chatting. I don't think it's polite for him to serve dinner first, but it's not convenient to tell him directly at the dinner table, so I touched him with my foot a few times. My husband doesn't seem to understand. After a few minutes, he told me that he was going to have a big meal, and I had to go with him. He went to the kitchen to fill a meal and met his mother who was cooking. Her mother told him that the meal was not ready yet and told him to wait, so he had to sit back in his seat. Later, my mother told me that the meal was actually cooked, but she said it on purpose. I hope my husband won't lose his manners. Accompanying guests is to accompany them for a while. As my son-in-law, my husband is also the master relative to my uncle menstruation. It's really impolite for the host to start eating while the guest is still drinking. Of course, I know my husband didn't mean to. I mentioned it to him later. He said that because his parents didn't tell him this since he was a child, he didn't understand the daily etiquette of the table.
Last year, I was admitted to a unit. I was admitted to the same system as another girl and she was assigned to another unit. However, not long after joining the company, I kept hearing some wonderful stories about her. For example, the leader asked her to find information, and she said she was busy; She calls her colleagues much older by their first names; The driver of the unit kindly sent her out to do business. After that, she went straight back to work without telling the driver, and kept the driver waiting for her for several hours. An old colleague enthusiastically taught her work experience. She said she would, and people influenced her thinking. Once, she happened to meet a colleague in the unit. When she talked about this girl, she was full of dissatisfaction. Her colleague said directly in front of a group of people that such people were not well educated by their parents. Compared with this girl, for me, just entering a new environment is really on thin ice. For leading old colleagues, you are your respectful name; What the leader told me can't be delayed for a minute; My old colleague can give me some advice. I always feel that I will go home in five minutes and say something to my mother. She always said, then you should remember the good of others and work hard.
My second uncle lives near my home. The Bo Er family has two daughters, my cousin and my cousin. These two sisters, growing up, are not very attractive. Once, a neighbor came to my mother angrily and said that my cousin didn't seem to see her and didn't even scream. In fact, my two cousins not only don't say hello to their neighbors, but my mother also says that they don't call when they see her. Living in the countryside, neighbors are familiar with each other and get along very closely. When I met my elders when I was a child, my mother asked me to call someone, so I knew from an early age that this was called uncle, that was called uncle, that was called aunt, and that was called aunt. Of course, some mothers didn't tell me what to call them, and I couldn't tell what to call them by seniority. When I met them, I just smiled at them and said something. It was a greeting. People don't care what you call him. Sometimes when they see me, they will say hello to me first and say something similar.
I once saw a saying that parents are the mirror of children and children are the epitome of parents. Yes, we can always see their parents from children. Parents are the first teachers in their children's lives, and they are natural role models for children. A child's initial behavior and morality reflect his parents' upbringing.
Excerpts from sentences describing words and deeds.
When Jiu Feng was a child, she was taught by example, in debt collection, especially in greeting. Once a greeting, she can't do anything. She pays attention to three words: fast, accurate and ruthless. -The pillow book of Sansheng Sanshi written by the seventh son of Tang Dynasty should keep its promise, and honesty is the cornerstone of building trust between people. People without faith don't know what they can do; People can't stand without faith; Words must be done, and actions must be fruitful; Commitment is the first step to lead by example. Only when you take the first step can you do it step by step until you are aggressive. Commitment is the beacon of the soul.
A good word, good advice, generosity, a glimpse, a hero in troubled times.
I don't want to say anything, but it is as stable as Mount Tai, as beautiful as Mount Tai, and it is a pillar of wisdom. It's a long time, and gloating for three years is also a kind of enjoyment. Not a single thing. This is a dull place, this is a vast place, this is a strange place. This is a common practice in the world. Fan Fan capsule clothes rack, the sea, Jinliang, Meng Liang respect the elderly, respect the virtuous, wife and mother, and your children, your ears and your worship and worship of Marquis, the door is like the sea, the sky is vast, the sky is empty, and there is nothing. Crying is a very serious matter, and the six gods are subjective and taken out of context. It is their bounden duty to express their dissatisfaction. They are full of enthusiasm, hard work, laughing, swords and shadows. -"Longmen Bookstore" mother-in-law relationship, giving people roses, hands have lingering fragrance; Dedicate love and gain hope. One of your good deeds will bring you a happy heart. Your kindness, your selfless care and kindness are the greatest luck of this family. At the same time, the mother-in-law married her husband's family not only for a food stamp, but also for financial freedom. A good daughter-in-law may be a good placebo, as well as the subtle influence of the environment and the words and deeds of parents.
The best education in the world is to set an example.
One of the saddest situations of traditional education in China is that there is no correct love guidance. Love is the highest place of human beings, but it is hidden too deeply by our society and parents; There are few examples and too utilitarian. If a child knows how to bravely follow his heart, harvest and affirm his feelings, and know how to cherish and persist, then the success of his career seems simpler and happiness seems less difficult.
Yima covered her heart and said sadly, I was very immature at that time. I followed the principle that if people don't attack me, I won't attack. If people attack me, I will pay back a hundred times. This is actually wrong. After all, when is revenge? In recent years, several bosses have taught me by example. Let me realize my own shortcomings. Throughout history, human beings are always hurting each other, repeating the same mistakes and wars. The war has never changed. Why is this happening? Why do you have to make me strong? Even if I am far away, I will be punished. Why should I wait until someone commits a crime before paying it back a hundred times? So, I decided that if human beings are destined to hurt each other, then this crime will be borne by me alone, so I met someone I didn't like. You should take the initiative to attack and knock him to the ground, not only slowly but surely, but also uproot the grass and leave no future trouble. In this case, this hatred will not last, even if it will bear the name of ruthless. It's also worth it
In the Vietnam War, the weak Vietnamese Air Force played 12 trump cards with MIG -2 1 (with more than 5 records). In addition to setting an example, the instructors sent by the Soviet Union also shot down six American planes and became trump cards. -"The army is divided into planes"
☆ Ownership law: ensure that children grow up in a healthy family environment;
☆ Law of Hope: Always let children see hope; ☆ Law of strength: Never compete with children; ☆ Management rules: Parents have the responsibility to take care of their children before they are underage; ☆ Voice rule: Although children have no right to decide at home, they must listen to their voices; ☆ The power of example: words and deeds have a great influence on children; ☆ Rule of seeking common ground while reserving differences: Respect children's views on the world and try to understand them; ☆ Punishment method: This method is easy to make children have rebellious psychology and revenge psychology, so use it with caution! ☆ Consequence rule: Let children know the possible consequences of their actions in the real world; ☆ structural rules: teach children to understand the boundaries between morality and law from an early age; ☆20 yards rule: to cultivate children's sense of independence, parents should keep at least 20 yards away from their children; ☆ Four Laws: In any case, you should know who your children are with, where they are and what they are doing. Except for a few talented people or people with special luck, everyone else is similar. No one can escape the hard work and the pit that should be dropped. It has nothing to do with reading or teaching by example. The only difference is that some people stopped climbing that hurdle, some people fell to death in the pit, and some people carried it down because of luck or other reasons. Guess what? There is a hole in front that no one has ever seen.
Of course, maybe I am too weak as a person. It is because of weakness that I drift with the tide in the fog. I should have noticed where I stopped, but I didn't-although I'm not qualified to give you an example-Haruki Murakami's After Dark.
Don't always use your words and deeds to teach me what a dog barks in an alley.
The most educated are teachers.
What should be taught most is not students, but parents, not just children. A teacher who lacks education is shameful and uneducated. Parents who lack culture are contemptible. See how many students have gone astray. See who is in charge? Look how many thousands of ponies have buried the hands of ignorance. Whose fault is this? How many people went to read the family instructions of famous teachers in ancient times? How many teachers are not qualified to be teachers? How many parents are not qualified to be parents? Look at how many nobles have emerged in the Millennium. See how many noble children are noble, elegant and refined. That is the inevitable result of scholarly family. It is better to be self-reliant, cultivate one's morality and be rich. It is better to set an example and try your best to be a teacher. Being a parent is even more important. If a student shines on you, it is better to be determined to learn Taoism. If future generations are rich and talented, it is better to regret before. Those who are not diligent in educating people are not forced, but loyal to Xuan Su, and suddenly take the peaches in her hand. Looking at her with a blank face, she said earnestly: exemptions are very disappointed in you. How did I teach you before? If someone commits me.
At this time, Ryukyu and kite came out of nowhere and slapped Xuan rewelding on the head. The enchanting face was full of sorrow, and her fingers trembled and said, you two little rabbits are really worthless! Always looks smart. Protecting me is a waste of time. I have been teaching you by example for many years. Now remember, I won't attack if people don't attack me. If someone attacks me, get rid of the grass, okay? Only by letting you lose hope first will you try to find better hope. After all, what we tell you by example is only guidance. What really benefits you is that you are the only one who understands a person's wonderful journey.
Education is the respect and awakening of individual life, and the development and expansion of people's inner potential. The healthy growth of children needs a peaceful mind, a wise mind and unique charm, and all this must be based on tolerance!
Every child is our angel, and every parent is the patron saint of children. Let's treat children with tolerance, set an example, ask more of ourselves, ask less of children, and grow up with children! After a long time, under my example, Lao Xiang began to talk in class, but cut class didn't do his homework, and his grades advanced by leaps and bounds. Someone pointed out discontentedly that the tone of this sentence, alas, is really like that of Lao Liu. Every time I hear this, I have a sense of accomplishment-"novel".
Educating children is an art, an art of setting an example.
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Teachers' dignity moistens things quietly, and words and deeds are like spring breeze. A moral teacher in life is respectable if he doesn't understand the industry and doesn't ask for feedback. Classic quotations from parents
1. Family is important mainly because it enables parents to get emotional.
My father's life is very hard. I knew my father was an orphan since I was a child, and I never knew who my biological parents were. In order to repay my foster mother's kindness, I work hard, but I never complain.
Father is the source of wealth, brother is comfort, and friend is both the source of wealth and comfort.
4. Motherly love is laughter that accompanies you all your life. Motherly love is the yearning of wandering world. Motherly love is the care and anxiety of children before their beds. Motherly love is an ardent expectation for children's growth.
The family habit of giving gifts to each other is helpful to enhance the sincere friendship between parents and children. Its main significance lies not in the gift itself, but in the concern for relatives, hoping to thank them for their concern.
6. Father, I love you! Thousands of thoughts, frozen in the air, raise the wind to blow to you, with my blessing, with my thoughts, with my great blessing, thinking of you is my happiness, my beloved father.
7. The mother of the child is usually a blessing for our father and son. Let our father and son run for a day today, and you will enjoy it.
8. We will never forget our mother, and we will never lose our love for her because of the passage of time.
9. Mom, Xiao Ping, how can I tell you all my love? I just want to call you from the heart: mom, I really thank you!
10, mom, the wrinkles on your face are just where you once smiled. In my heart, you are always the most beautiful.
1 1. Care and warmth are still there. It is a compulsory course for everyone to relive the scenes of past lives, feel happy or sad, and draw nutrition and strength.
12, father's love, hidden in rough hands, those hands, tirelessly propped up our home; Behind the stern eyes lies the father's love.
Gratitude is the smallest virtue, and ingratitude is the worst behavior.
14, my mother is my greatest teacher, a caring and fearless teacher. If love is as sweet as a flower, then my mother is the sweet flower of love.
15, without ourselves. Accept a drop of water when necessary, and I will repay your kindness with spring water. It is our duty to take care of our parents.
16, maternal love is in the hunter's trap. The mother wolf looked at the killed wolf and cried in the moonlight.
17, the sweetest word a person's lips can utter is mom, and the best call is mom.
18. Motherly love is originally a kind of wine, and after drinking it, it becomes a miss. Mom, I will miss you forever! A gentle greeting turns the blessings in your heart into sunshine-like warmth and stays in your heart forever.
19. The bees are very busy, working silently and diligently. Day after day, year after year, dedicated to sweetness. Kind mother, I will never forget that deep maternal love.
20, feel the time, we know how to run, feel life, we know how to be short, feel friends, we know how to be happy, feel parents, we know how to feel family, we know how to be selfless, say thank you to parents, and wish parents a safe life.
2 1, father's love is as selfless as mother's love, asking for nothing in return; Fatherly love is an unknown and intangible emotion, which can only be understood by those who are attentive.
22. Mom, by the river in the east, are those footprints still there? On the dam in the south, did my boat with pen-and-ink drawings blow away by the wind and not be submerged?
23, maternal love is a clear spring, so that your emotions are still clear even if covered with the dust of years.
24. Motherly love is a thread. As long as there is a small pinhole, it will flow like spring water, infiltrating your lonely, tired and even scarred heart.
25. Only my mother is good in the world. Without the sky, there would be no land. Without you, there is no me. Thank you for everything.
26. Bees sip honey from flowers and thank the camp when they leave. The grandiose butterfly thinks that flowers should thank him.
27. Motherly love is an elegant gesture that the female eel always arches her middle body to protect the fish eggs in her belly when the oil pan is boiling.
28. How similar mothers all over the world are! Their hearts are always the same, and they all have a very pure heart.
29. There is a kind of love that is silent and earnest, and it is often impossible to elaborate at that time. However, it will make you feel more and more delicious in the days to come, and you will never forget it. It's boundless fatherly love.
30. Maternal love is a landscape painting. Wash away the lead sculptures and keep them fresh and natural. Motherly love is like an affectionate song, melodious and softly sung.
3 1, the moment when you have an idea is happy; The pleasure of feeling is happy; It is also happy to have a father's love.
32. Without the sun, flowers would not bloom; Without love, life cannot be happy; Without a mother, there would be no poets and heroes, and there would be no whole world. Mom is great.
33, dear dad, dear mom, I will be your baby all my life; Honor you and love you forever. Love each other is always a family. Wish my parents good health, peace and happiness!
34. My father is very careful, responsible and earnest, and he is a man who goes forward bravely when he meets difficulties. Father looks serious, tall and powerful, and some people look scared. Actually, my father is very easy to get along with.
35. The love of parents is the greatest love between heaven and earth. Since we were born into this world, our parents began to love us forever.
36. In the eyes of parents, children are often a part of themselves, and children are his ideal chance to start over.
37. Dad, I really miss you. I want to remember your teaching and care with this yearning. I want to work harder, catch up with the trend of the times and hug you at the door of success.
38, fatherly love and maternal love, often maternal love will make you feel more familiar, but fatherly love does not exist, it silently appears by your side, it is not explicit, but the kind of hidden, deep affection.
39. Fatherly love is actually very simple. It is like white wine, spicy and warm, which makes people get drunk easily; It is like coffee, bitter and mellow, easy to cheer people up; It's like tea, plain and kind, which makes people unconsciously addicted.
40. Years have burned your youth, but your care and encouragement will accompany me through the storm. Smooth the wrinkles on your forehead with my heart, and infect the white hair on your head with my feelings.
4 1. Mom will always be the harbor in my heart. I wish my dear mother health and happiness! Your love is noble, just giving, asking for nothing in return and kindness.
42. I am grateful to my parents. If I were a painter, I would paint my parents' love in various colors.
43. Motherly love will never be exhausted. This shows that maternal love is very great and will always be with us.
It is at our mother's knee that we get our noblest, most sincere and highest ideals, but there is seldom any money in them.
45. Motherly love is the ultimate destination of wanderers and a clear spring that nourishes children's hearts. With a mouthful of children's drink, it is memorable. Therefore, the lingering maternal love is integrated into the children's laughter and tears.
46. May my blessing be like a small flower that will bloom forever in this warm harvest season and adorn you with joy all the time.
47. The wind and rain outside torment me, and the warm sunshine inside warms me, because I have you inside, and I will always love your mother!
48. Life has made me sensible, and life has also made my parents much older. Looking at the wrinkles on my mother's face and the white hair on my father's temples, I can't help but feel distressed. Watching them laugh, I am so glad that they love me so much.
49. Motherly love is a simple, natural, abundant and inexhaustible thing in women's minds, just like a major factor in life.
This is my father. Sometimes he is humorous, and sometimes he is strict. I love my father, I love him very much, because my father is a mountain!
5 1, in life, a father's love is not as great as a mother's love, but he is small and ordinary; Fatherly love is not as deep as maternal love, and it leaves a shallow mark in life; Father's love is not as beautiful as mother's love, it depends on the dribs and drabs of life
There is only one best woman in the world. She is a loving mother. There is only one beautiful voice in the world, and that is the mother's call.
I miss my parents. This is a long journey. I need my children to see me off. On the road, there are no beautiful scenery, only deep thoughts.
54. My black hair is mixed with a few white hairs, and my skin is slightly black, but my eyes are bright. That's my father.
55. Father is a heavy and solid book, which contains profound philosophy of life, which has benefited me a lot. His love for me is deeper than the sea and higher than the mountain, and thousands of words can't tell what he has done for me.
56. Mother: When you are sad, you are a comfort; When you are depressed, you are hope; When you are weak, you are strength. You are the source of sympathy, pity, love and tolerance.
I miss my parents. Even if you lie in bed, you can't settle down. You should accompany my parents, walk far under the sun and moon, let my thoughts ferment affectionately, let me mature in pain, and let me comfort myself in remembrance.
58. Pour a cup of tea, leave warmth, send a bunch of flowers, offer feelings, make a phone call, send blessings, send a text message, resolve thoughts, be smart, convey love with your heart, share love and be warm. May your parents be healthy forever.
59. When I was a child, maternal love melted in the blood, sucking and sweet; After school, maternal love is packed in a schoolbag, carrying it, heavy; When I grow up, my mother's love is hidden in a pillow and rested on it, which is full of meaning.
60. Even if you are a master of Dan Qing, it is difficult to outline your father's strong backbone: even if you are a master of literature, it is difficult to portray your father's unyielding spirit; Even if all rivers run into the sea, it is hard to hide a father's love for his children!
6 1, after so many years, I deeply know that the person who loves me most is you, mom. Turn countless thoughts into infinite blessings in my heart, pray for you silently, and wish you health and happiness!
62. Parents, I am grateful for your kindness, and I will repay you with kindness. Learn skills well and be a person who contributes to society and mankind.
63. My father is a bit feminine, with many thoughts and many details. He is a father like a mother. My father doesn't smoke or drink. He loves cleanliness. He doesn't smell like a gentleman at all
64. Father's love has no long soft water, no thoughtful and warm words, no blessings that can be taken with you at any time, and no temperature that I can accompany you day and night. Fatherly love is a tear that sums up all languages.
65. Father's love is a ray of sunshine, which makes your heart warm like spring even in cold winter. Father's love is a clear spring, which makes your feelings pure even if they are covered with the dust of years.
66. Love is delicate, and maternal love is selfless and great. I have to feel it with my heart before I can accept this love, this priceless love.
67. If my mother is rain, then I am the rainbow after the rain; If my mother is the moon, then I am the star holding the moon. Mother is the root of my growth, and I am the fruit of your ideal.
68. Missing is the fragrance of flowers in a season, which overflows the valley and hangs over you. Blessing is an affectionate gaze that overflows my eyes until your heart.
I am proud to have such a father. Although my family is poor, we enjoy it. They are not only my parents, but also my bosom friends.
70. I have worked hard for most of my life, worked hard for most of my life, and paid for most of my life. My son is ashamed that he didn't repay his parents well. I send text messages to greet my parents and wish you good health and happiness!
7 1, a happy moment, left in childhood, a warm memory, left to teenagers, a regretful rebellion, left to youth, a guilty concern, left to the present warmth, a phone call, care, send two words, warm parents' hearts, and be happy for a long time.
72. Motherly love is the most selfless love and affection. It falls on our hearts like dew in spring. Although silent, it nourishes the seedlings of life.
73. Thank you, my dear mother. You are like my signpost, guiding me all the time.
74. All outstanding people have excellent mothers. In their later years, they all respect their mothers and regard them as their best friends.
75. Father's love is a mountain! It will give me strength when I am in trouble, give me direction when I am confused, give me confidence when I am lost, congratulate me when I am successful, and alert my father. It is a towering mountain that supports my life!
76. I won't do anything illegal and I don't have the guts. I just want to live outside, that kind of free life. Is this also wrong?
77. The wrinkles on your forehead record your ups and downs, and your bronze face marks your loyalty. Your life is a magnificent and moving poem.
78. You were not written into a poem or sung as an ode, but you gave me life and raised my land. I love you deeply.
79. You have trained me all your life. You have been thinking about me all your life, but you have never said: love me. I felt with all my heart, embraced with all my heart, and shouted at the top of my lungs: thank you, I love you.
Tu Lei's Classic Quotations about Parents
1, for a man, there are three most important women in this life. They are mother, wife and daughter. Mothers give their lives, wives accompany them all their lives, and daughters are the continuation of life. It is incomplete to remove any paragraph from it.
Although it will be our partner who will accompany us through life in the future. But none of this would have happened if our parents hadn't given us life.
Without parents, we are just a small cell, and it is impossible to survive.
If you can't be a dutiful son, you can't be a husband with true love.
Parents' cultivation of their children is enough for us to repay them all our lives.
6. We are always good at hurting those who love us, because we can't hurt those who don't love us at all; We are always willing to be hurt by people we love, because I love them.
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