Pan Yueming: The marriage with Angel made him feel scared and ashamed of his parents, but he still believed in love.

An editor/love letter

"I felt so happy at the time and married such a good wife."

In 2009, when Pan Yueming was filming, he was once in the jaws of death because of an unexpected car accident. At this time, only angels were around to take care of him.

But who would have thought that it was such a marriage that Pan Yueming was proud of, but it changed dramatically overnight, and he was labeled as "gambling" and "cheating".

In the past, Qian Fan was nothing. After seven years of love and four years of marriage, they became enemies.

Why do loving couples turn against each other, and what twists and turns has Pan Yueming experienced?

Pan Yueming experienced a lot before he met an angel.

He gave up the college entrance examination and worked as an audience salesman, journalist and advertising company before he was admitted to the film and television production major of the Art Department of Beijing Normal University.

But he was lucky. Maybe he is destined to be an actor.

In the third year of junior college, Pan Yueming was chosen as the hero in the summer because of his tender and delicate appearance, and began his acting career.

Before the official filming, Pan Yueming's choice seemed to have been avoiding the actor's path, but fate chose this path for him, which made him an actor and made him meet an angel.

Maybe he didn't even think that his life would change dramatically one day because of Angel.

Unlike Pan Yueming, who walked around to get into the actor's path, Angel was determined to take this path from the beginning.

When I was a teenager, I often appeared in major advertisements because of my beauty and temperament.

16 years old, she boarded the Spring Festival Evening. At the age of 20, she was selected by Zhang Yimou from 50,000 contestants to become the heroine of Happy Hour and the third "looking for a woman".

Since then, she has started her open-minded career.

One is a Beijing boy born in Beijing, and the other is a dancing girl born in Dalian.

Two people who seem to have no intersection have embarked on the path of actors and are destined to meet.

Pan Yueming and Angel started acting almost at the same time. Both of them became popular around 2000, but they only met in 2005.

In the past five years, Pan Yueming has become the gentle Xu Xian in The Legend of the White Snake, and Angel has become the gentle Bai Yueguang Leng Qingqiu in the Golden Powder Family.

After all kinds of tempering, they formally met in the red dress shop.

The two people in red have a lot of love and hate in the play. In every scene, they know each other better and have an unspeakable affection for each other.

The Red Shop was filmed for nearly half a year. Pan Yueming recalled that when he first met Angel, he thought she looked too young, like a little sister, and people couldn't help but want to take care of her.

Besides, Angel didn't know Pan Yueming well at first, so he was very shy with strangers. He was so nervous when he shot once that he missed more than 20 times.

Pan Yueming was not angry, but patiently accompanied the angel for more than 20 times. Such patience gradually made Angel like him.

So after filming, Pan Yueming and Angel didn't break contact, and they often called and sent messages for parties and so on, so naturally they came together.

But because they were both actors at that time, for the sake of career development, they planned to make it public after all the dust settled.

So during that time, the media always reported their feelings in various ways. Some people say it's fake, while others say it's an opportunity to speculate.

Whether it is true or not, they seldom respond.

Two gentle and introverted people are both busy with their respective jobs and worried about each other. They send text messages when they miss each other every day.

At that time, the memory of the mobile phone was not enough, and Pan Yueming was reluctant to delete the messages with Angel, so she saved one mobile phone for another and changed several mobile phones to store those sweet messages.

Later, in the third year of their relationship, Pan Yueming always felt that she would never meet such a good girl again, and it was time to get married.

So he took Angel and chose a ring he liked, and generously proposed to Angel.

Although Pan Yueming was a straight man at that time, there were not many surprises. Even the angels chose their own rings.

But at the moment when he proposed on one knee, he actually gave his heart to Angel, and he really wanted to treat Angel for a lifetime.

Later, they held a simple wedding in Beijing.

Speaking of this wedding, a good movie found Pan Yueming at that time. When Angel found out, he told Pan Yueming not to miss this opportunity. She just planned the wedding herself.

After that, Dong Jie really planned the wedding by herself, from the scene layout to the guest position, almost all of them were arranged by her.

When it was time to get married, Pan Yueming took three days off and simply married Angel.

On the wedding day, all the relatives and friends of Pan Yueming and Angel came to witness the love of two young people who loved each other, but they never thought that their love had a good beginning, but failed to have a good ending.

Pan Yueming and Angel's feelings haven't changed since they got married, but they love her more than before.

He is always reserved and gentle, and occasionally goes to Angel's place in Doby. Once he agrees to visit Angel, but suddenly he tells Angel that he can't go. Angel was listening to Pan Yueming in the hotel, and suddenly she was unhappy.

Suddenly, Angel heard the doorbell ring, so she lost her temper with Pan Yueming and opened the door. It turns out that Pan Yueming has bought a ticket in advance and went to the place where Angel works, just to give her a surprise.

Life went smoothly, and shortly after marriage, Angel gave birth to his son Dingding.

Pan Yueming also upgraded from a husband to a father, leaving his job to take care of Angel and his son in the hospital.

Many years later, Pan Yueming recalled the moment when he just heard Angel say that he was pregnant, and described that kind of happiness as "throat cramp, happiness from the inside out".

He really loves Angel, so he expects him and Angel's children. He even wants to be a daughter, because he can be as beautiful as an angel.

But this beauty didn't last long, and bad luck came quietly.

On May 13, 2009, Pan Yueming suffered a car accident while filming the film "Coming for You" in Pingnan, Fujian, which caused her lungs to be crushed and ruptured, and she was rushed to the hospital.

In the ambulance, Pan Yueming's mind was full of Angel and the children, looking at their photos and insisting all the way to the hospital.

Angel was worried when he learned that Pan Yueming was injured. When he arrived at the hospital, it was already two o'clock in the middle of the night. Pan Yueming knew she was coming. She didn't sleep and stayed awake until the angel came.

When Angel went to the hospital to take care of her bed, she thought about not crying and not letting Pan Yueming worry about her in her illness.

But when I saw Pan Yueming doing lung exhaust, Angel couldn't help crying.

At that time, Angel really loved Pan Yueming and thought he could do whatever he wanted. After that, Angel took care of Pan Yueming in the hospital for more than three months until Pan Yueming recovered and was discharged.

Under the care of Angel, when Pan Yueming was discharged from the hospital, she was obviously fatter than before. Her face is rounder than before, and she looks blushing. I can see that Angel takes good care of Pan Yueming.

After this incident, the relationship between Pan Yueming and Angel is even worse, and life and death can be met. What can separate them?

At that time, everyone thought that this pair of golden couple could truly "hold your hand and grow old with your son".

Pan Yueming said nothing and didn't speak ill of angels. He just directly sued Ren Jiaying, the agent, and finally won the case, asking Ren Jiaying to apologize publicly.

Later, some media broke out. 20/kloc-in March, 2003, the video of Angel kissing Wang broke out, which made the divorce drama between Pan Yueming and Angel even more confusing.

But now it seems that it is Angel's agent who slanders and accuses him, Angel who kissed Wang, and the unlucky person in the end is the framed silly boy "Xu Xian".

In fact, if you don't love, you will separate, and you will honestly fall in love with others. Maybe people will respect you for your sincerity.

But in order to rationalize some things, it is unreasonable to frame a person like this, at least on the moral level.

As for why we parted, it may be because of time, rice, oil and salt, or new love.

But this affair with his ex-lover has simply refreshed Pan Yueming's three views, left a shadow in his heart and ruined his hard-won career.

No, nothing, no career, no home. Pan Yueming, who fell into the abyss from the top of the pyramid, was depressed and never recovered.

Fortunately, Pan Yueming's parents stayed with him all the time, taking care of him like a child.

After the divorce, Pan Yueming returned home to live with his parents. The two old people didn't blame him, but only hated themselves for not being able to help and not protecting their son.

Later, Pan Yueming mentioned those days:

"I just feel sorry for my parents. Because of me, they have suffered too much."

Although Pan Yueming didn't elaborate on what his parents went through during that time.

But it's not hard to guess how many ugly gossip and strange eyes the old couple have to endure because of Pan Yueming's divorce, and they are worried that their son will be hit hard.

In those two years, Pan Yueming's father was in poor health, so Pan Yueming spent a lot of time at home taking care of his father, and his father and son's identity also changed.

Dad used to take care of him, but now he takes care of him, doesn't let him drink or smoke, takes care of him, eats well and has a good rest.

As for her mother, Pan Yueming communicated with her more.

Pan's mother is a very gentle person. During the time when Pan Yueming was divorced and at home, she racked her brains to prepare meals for him, hoping that he could have a good meal.

In the most difficult years, Pan Yueming was not so much with his parents as his parents were healing Pan Yueming. Later, Pan Yueming's parents said this in an interview:

"At that time, I didn't want anything. I was just thinking about how to get Pan Yueming out of that thing. "

Accompanied by his parents, Pan Yueming gradually got better and returned to work and acting.

In the updating of the entertainment circle, everyone has forgotten Xu Xian, a weak scholar. In 20 17, Pan Yueming returned to the entertainment circle with the movie "White Night Chasing Murder".

It has been proved by actions that anything that can't kill me will make me stronger.

Later, Angry Xiangxi, People in the Bureau, Insect Valley in Yunnan and many other works made him prove his strength.

Every role is well played, so people can't find anything wrong.

Pan Yueming, who has returned to the workplace in recent years, has also been producing many works. Recently, "The Gate of Rebirth" and "The Covenant of New Houses" also have his wonderful performances.

Whether it is a home improvement designer or a legendary thief, Pan Yueming is a powerful actor.

Career development is booming, but marriage and feelings are still in a blank state.

Later, when Pan Yueming came back, she was interviewed by Lu Yu. Recalling the sweetness of Lu Yu and Angel in the first interview and being alone in the second interview, people can't help but feel that things have changed.

This time, Lu Yu asked many questions, asking whether Pan Yueming believed in love or marriage. Pan Yueming bowed his head and thought deeply, and finally revealed his belief.

He just still believes in love and marriage, but it is hard to believe that he can meet a beautiful love and a happy marriage. After all, once beautiful feelings will eventually change.

Regarding marriage and son's support, Pan Yueming has always refused to answer, simply saying:

"The most important thing for me now is my parents."

We can't feel how dark life was in Pan Yueming during that time.

But for Pan Yueming, that's probably the feeling of falling into the clouds. If his parents hadn't caught him at the bottom of the valley, he might have collapsed.

And since Angel was caught kissing the king and divorced, Angel suddenly became the target of public criticism.

With the popularity accumulated by the "Golden Powder Family", it has disappeared after this incident.

Angel hasn't appeared in public for more than two years. It was not until 20 15 that Dong Jiecai played a teacher in Tiger Mom and Cat Dad.

It's just the teacher's setting, and it's also a third party that destroys other people's families.

As for Dingding, I have always lived with Angel, but it may be because only my son is around. When I confessed to my son, I actually described it like this:

"I will be happy with him, just like a woman in love."

In the divorce drama of that year, now it seems that all three people are victims, and the most wronged is the son.

How sad it is to have a happy family and now live in the mistakes of the previous generation.

But when people are alive, they will always experience such twists and turns and bear such malice, sometimes from strangers and sometimes from people who sleep with them.

And Pan Yueming was devastated because his parents protected him so well.

"I have never encountered such a thing. I walked too smoothly in the first half. "

Therefore, it is not unreasonable to be prepared for danger in times of peace. People who live in the world, of course, should know how to treat others sincerely, but they should also know how to know the world, so they are not worldly.

It's good to meet someone who really fights with you, but relax if you don't.

Now that everything is in blowing in the wind, Pan Yueming has become more mature and steady. Now he just wants to film, chat with his father and make a bowl of steaming noodles for his mother.

Later, the silly boy "Xu Xian" finally grew into Pan Yueming, a man who is indomitable and grateful to his parents.

I still remember that the name Pan Yueming was changed by himself when he 13 years old. The word "Guangdong" comes from the fact that his father is from Guangdong, and the word "Ming" means that he should be aboveboard in the world.

God is kind. May Pan Yueming get his wish, and may we all have the courage to go through the vicissitudes and start over like him.