Is it really that important to be a suitable family? I feel terrible.

Just like your boyfriend, suitability doesn't mean money or anything, mainly because the comprehensive situation of both families is similar, such as family concept and family situation. That's the right match. Why should it be appropriate? Because a suitable family can reduce all kinds of contradictions after marriage, because if the family concepts of both sides are similar, it is easy to communicate, understand and integrate with each other. Your boyfriend's family is in business, so finding the right one is not in business. 1 Less topics, 2 different ideas, 3 conflicts, unique views, family disharmony and so on. Another common problem of these families is that they want their boyfriends to take you flying and running. Happiness is not a matter for two people, but a family problem. Besides, you are a good girl. Only those who start from scratch and dare to take anything dare to fly and run with you, because such men don't like to say that such men are proved by actions, but now there are very few such men, and ordinary families with some money will not appear unless the super-rich may have some people who don't care about money at all, so forget it, a sensible girl like you.