I want to save my feelings after breaking up. I texted my ex-boyfriend for a week and didn't reply. Is it necessary to continue to recover? Is it necessary to contact him again?

Do you really want to save him? Or because of the emptiness and loneliness, I remembered my predecessor's kindness and wanted to continue to seek psychological comfort?

How can a person who has been hurt by you be so easy to say that he can be saved? Just because I didn't reply to you for a week, I began to waver in my determination to save it. In my opinion, you don't love him that much. It's good for you and him to let go completely.

If you really think that you have realized how important he is to you through the time when you broke up, then I have the following suggestions when you make up for it, hoping to help you:

One: Give him some thoughtful gifts and see his reaction.

Although we broke up, you contacted him at this time. To put it bluntly, you just want to save him. But it's urgent. You can borrow something to express your feelings. You can buy him a gift to express your apologies and feelings for each other. At this time, if the other person still has feelings for you, then he will improve his impression of you and be in the mood to continue chatting with you. Although the ceremony is light, the heart is heavy. It's not surprising to be polite to many people. With this, you can talk to each other. Once you talk to each other, your relationship will be eased. This will give you a chance to recover.

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Two: Grasp the key point of the problem between you and find a solution.

You must know the reason why you broke up with your boyfriend. He must be disappointed because he gave up on you. You might as well find the key point of the problem between you, find a targeted solution to this problem, and let the other party know that you are not that bad, and many problems can be solved. If the other person finds the courage to live with you again, then you have a chance to renew your friendship. Watching the TV series "The Legend of the New White Snake", the white snake put Xu Xian in prison several times, but the white snake saw that "the bridge was broken and the line continued". Everyone has feelings. Pay sincerity and true feelings, and you will often get true feelings.

Three: break the mindset and cultivate the confidence of the other person to be with you.

Sometimes a person's thinking is easily influenced by his family conditions and environment. For example, if he is a graduate student and you are a junior college student, his family may think that you are not a good match. That's because his family never met a doctoral student and married a junior college student, but they lived happily. Therefore, no matter what causes the other party to give up, you should be as flexible as possible, break the mindset, look at the problem from another positive angle, cultivate the belief that the other party is with you, and try to convince the other party that you may be together. Once the other person has the confidence to be with you, it is natural to save the other person. Many times, people are always easily influenced. If you want to save him, you must know him, understand him and be able to convince him.