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When we were young, we always liked to play with our parents. Because I can feel a lot of happiness. Nowadays, many post-90s are married and have children. Compared with their former parents, this year's parents may have more fun with their children. What we often see on the Internet is not that Xiong Haizi cheated his parents, but that many children were cheated by their parents.

Just like the other day, my friend was worried about her younger brother. He is almost thirty years old, but his girlfriend has not settled yet. Suddenly I saw my son's kindergarten teacher is very good and single. I was embarrassed to say this, so I posted a message on the doll's backpack: "Teacher, my uncle is single." Such a slogan caught the attention of many people on the road. At the same time, it was widely circulated in the circle of friends, which was also considered as a good publicity for her brother.

Now the relationship between parents and children has changed a lot. This is not the awe I used to feel. Nowadays, parents and children are more harmonious and warm. And this relationship is often very positive for children's growth. At the same time, many dads nowadays are rated as "unreliable". What kind of influence does it have on children?

Many people on the internet said, don't let dad take care of the children. Originally, only one person destroyed the home, but later it will become two people to destroy it. Some dads go to supervise the children to clean up toys and so on, and finally they become two people playing there together. But in fact, it is not as unreliable as many people think, and it has many positive meanings. At the same time, it can also let the mother who is usually tossed by the child relax and have a rest.

1, different education methods

Many mothers may think that their husbands are often careless in doing things. There is a feeling of being rude. However, when most men need to be strict, there are often no mistakes. There are often mistakes, all in small things in life, so mom doesn't have to worry, and dad is careless with his children.

In fact, dad's personality will make children do things without picking a little bit of gains and losses. But look at the big picture. At the same time, it will also make children face many things with a more inclusive and positive attitude. At the same time, the sense of responsibility and overall awareness will also be improved and promoted.

2. Clear logic and thinking.

Women may have more emotional judgments about things. Men may be more rational when judging one thing. Often, when you encounter an event with strong emotional impact, you will not be bound by this kind of thinking, which will affect your correct judgment.

Therefore, when children are in dispute, this rationality of dad's thoughts can often provide a clear idea and solution. When you encounter a problem, you can calm down and make an objective and rational judgment. At the same time, dad's logical thinking can also make children more clear in terms of organization. It is an educational way relative to mothers, and it is a very beneficial supplementary way for children's education.

3. Improve children's independence

Mothers often take good care of their children. Therefore, when children are younger, they are usually closer to their mothers. Because of the gender problem, dad thinks that many things can be done by children independently.

For example, children will be allowed to buy what they need closer to home. Or what toys children need to assemble, they will let them assemble as much as possible. Children's delay in independence is often due to their weak hands-on ability, and many things have not been done, so they are all in an idea that I can't, I don't understand and I can't do. After the main children really did it, they found that many things were not so difficult. Therefore, dad's free-range education is more meaningful.

4. Exercise children's abilities in all aspects.

Because dad is a boy himself, he always has a playful and adventurous nature. Then this is often in line with children's preferences. Boys love sports, which can be used to cultivate children's love for sports, improve children's physical immunity and help children grow taller.

At the same time, letting dad take care of children can make children feel happier when exploring some new things. In addition, children are born with adventurous spirit and courage, so it is a great gain for children to learn and try many things they have never tried under the influence of their father.