What are the manifestations of suggestion?

Dark means hidden, implicit and undisclosed; Instruction means enlightenment, informing and influencing. Taken together, it means secretly enlightening people in private. From the perspective of human psychology, suggestion affects people's psychology and behavior in a non-confrontational, implicit and indirect way. This influence is manifested in making people act in a certain way and accept a hypothesis affirmed by subjective will. This assumption may not be well-founded, but it has been subjectively affirmed, making people strongly inclined to this content. In daily life, suggestion, as a multifunctional language skill, is widely used and has many meanings.

Hints can be found almost everywhere. For example, in the factory, you will hear the factory leaders remind employees: "There are only three days in this quarter!" At the corner of the road, you can see such a sign: "The car accident here has caused 7 deaths! ! "

At school, the teacher hinted at the poor students: "That classmate failed in the exam last time, and then he listened carefully in class and his grades went up." Of course, in order to make the implied language use freely and fully reflect the hidden characteristics, we should also pay attention to grasp some essentials. First of all, we should follow the original intention of the topic, and the implied content should be close to the topic, not too far away, otherwise there will be a "dark" but not "obvious" result, which is puzzling. Secondly, the language of hints should be accurate and concise, and "hints" should be grasped. Don't be mysterious, pretend to be deep, and don't stubbornly hint at what you could have said clearly, making people feel that you are not close. In a word, hinting is just a means to make others fully understand what you mean. If others misunderstand your implication, explain it in time to avoid misunderstanding or adverse consequences.

Avoid embarrassment by hinting

Li Siguang and Xu Shubin have been dating for two years, and their feelings are very good, but no one mentioned personal marriage. One day, Xu Shubin received a letter from Li Siguang. She was shocked when she opened it. It turns out that this letter was written by Li Siguang's father to Li Siguang. The letter said, "Since you have known each other for two years, you know each other well. You are over 30 years old. If her family agrees, she will be engaged! " After reading the letter, Xu Shubin had a fever on his face and drummed in his heart. She knows that when someone is mentioned in the letter, she means herself. So she excitedly asked her mother and brother for advice. After careful consideration, they finally agreed to the marriage. Li Siguang expressed his inner thoughts in a devious way with hints, which avoided the embarrassment of telling the truth and kept their love relationship mysterious.