People who really work hard don’t have time to show off their hard work.

There was a popular saying on the Internet for a while: "What you post shows that you are lacking something."

The truth is so cruel.

In fact, there are many people around us who are obsessed with showing their efforts, posting in the community to check in, and actively being soy sauce men in various evening training camps, because you just look like you are working hard, so That's why you care so much about it.

With this truth in mind, take a look at your circle of friends.

If a friend who loves shopping says, "I worked all night to catch up on copywriting, I'm so tired." But the truth may be that she went shopping with her boyfriend after work and ate After dinner, I watched a movie again. It was already late at night when I got home, and I didn’t remember to write copy.

If a person suffering from procrastination says in her status: "I failed this workplace exam again, I studied so hard, why are you treating me so harshly?" But the truth may be that she is doing it day after day. I checked Douban and Weibo every day, and it wasn’t until a week before the exam that I hurriedly picked up the book and read it in full.

If someone with academic attributes posted a status saying: "I spent a whole semester in the library studying hard, but it was of no use and I still couldn't get the scholarship." But the truth of the matter is that he It was true that I was reading in the library, but I just read every novel by Higashino Keiya, and it had nothing to do with professional courses.

Since you work so hard, why are you trying so hard to show off your efforts?

Since you just look like you are working hard, why should you deceive yourself by showing off your efforts?

Today, when every woman is clamoring to "slim down or die", Miss Slow is definitely the most beautiful person on the road to losing weight. She is 164 centimeters tall and spent three months losing weight. My weight dropped from 65 kilograms to 48 kilograms, and I have maintained this result for three years now.

Many friends may be dismissive of this. After all, some people are born with a good fortune and are easy to lose weight, while some people will gain 20 pounds if they lift their chin and take a breath.

But I will tell you that she has never made any ambitions in the circle of friends, nor has she posted chicken blood check-in notes on the forum. She just strictly follows the fitness plan every day, eats less, day after day, countless When you are feasting, she is sweating on the treadmill. When you are shopping in style, she is riding a bicycle. When you can't help but drink and gossip, she is studying diet and health. It's your own warm water. Do you envy someone's thin waist, slender hips, and slender arms, but don't you know that she doesn't dare to stop exercising even if she works overtime until late?

There are also self-media influencers that I used to particularly like. At the beginning, I thought that every piece of content they updated was a piece of cake. It was nothing more than finding some popular articles on the Internet, contacting them for authorization, and then finding some It’s all done once the appropriate pictures are formatted, but the original article is a little more tiring, because one article needs to be updated every day, but the updated content is small! Therefore, I have always had the impression that self-media is like an agency on the Internet, chatting and drinking tea, and waiting for advertising revenue for the rest of the time.

After I really came into contact with self-media, I joined various groups and got to know a lot of people, and then I discovered that the truth is that many people suffer from dry eyes and neck pain every day, wake up earlier than chicken, go to bed later than chicken, and get off work tired. The night after, he was eating and drinking while thinking about topic selection. While you were washing up and lying on the bed happily reading content, he stayed up late to catch up on the next day's update. All the original articles you saw every day were This is how it came about.

There are also those peers around you who have been promoted early, who often make people look envious and jealous. The truth is not as dark and unfair as you think. The ease and satisfaction all come from the secret efforts behind the scenes.

To take a step back, your efforts are your business, and what you strive to achieve is yourself. 100% of your efforts have nothing to do with 1% of people.

The company I used to work in once hired two girls at the same time. A was very serious and took care of the troublesome trivial matters day after day. She was always the first one to arrive at the company every day, and of course she also left very late.

Not only is she simple and hard-working, she is also a kind-hearted girl. She is full of kindness in her dealings with others and is particularly willing to help others, so much so that her colleagues always like to push tasks to her. But I never heard any complaints from her, and I never heard her say anything wrong about others behind their backs.

Her desk is covered with inspirational slogans such as "Give yourself a smile every day" and "You can only see the rainbow after going through wind and rain". Although these sound vulgar and rustic, she believes in them very much. words, and resolutely prove with their own actions that these chicken soups for the soul are worthy of belief in their absolute charm.

B is cute and can act like a spoiled brat, and browses Taobao when she has nothing to do. If the leader does not clearly instruct her on what to do, the job in her eyes will be useless.

A later went to the business department with the best welfare in the company. B, who stayed in the storage and transportation department, refreshed Weibo four or five times an hour, complaining that his efforts were not proportional to his efforts and that he could not resist good luck. .

In fact, even if you have a "hard-working" personality and a "working hard when others are wasting their time" mentality, but unfortunately your physique does not match your mental type, don't blame it on a lot of people. The fact that people who are really working hard are covered up every minute.

Since it is for yourself, please block out any guilty behavior of "showing off" your hard work. You must know that hard work is a very profound thing. Showing off your hard work without bowing your head is the worst attitude. .

Because people who really work hard to prove themselves don’t have time to show off their efforts!