No dowry, no shame, no bride price, 65,438+10,000 dowry, 30,000, no more or less.

Bride price and dowry are an indispensable part of modern marriage. Generally, the man gives the bride price, and the woman will return it in the dowry. However, some women will regard the bride price as their home.

Is it shameful to have a bride price and no dowry?

Isn't it shameful for women not to get married? Let's take a look at your views on bride price and dowry:

Statement 1:

If we want a bride price instead of a dowry, then we will be embarrassed, which is equivalent to telling others that this family is Mai Mai's daughter.

Statement 2:

No, it's a shame, as long as two of a kind, both families are willing to fight one and suffer the other. If both families are willing, that's nothing. Of course, if you meet your in-laws, they will be ashamed of you.

Statement 3:

Especially shameful, no face; When quarreling, some men may say something like this to you: "Look, your family is poor. It's a pity that you don't even have a dowry when you get married. " "I bought the car myself and the house myself. What right do you have to quarrel with me? " At this time, many women have to submit to humiliation. After all, they have no confidence to fight with others.

Statement 4:

It mainly depends on the mentality of the man's family and what the man you married said. If a man's strength thinks that you didn't bring anything and everything is his fault, maybe you will feel ashamed. If your man and his in-laws don't care, you won't be ashamed because no one will tell you about it.

The bride price is 65438+100000, and the dowry is 30000.

For ordinary families, a dowry of 6,543,800 yuan and a dowry of 30,000 yuan are not small. If the woman's condition is not so good, the second half of the 30 thousand dowry may be spent on banquets or miscellaneous things for her daughter, but it is nothing, and the rest is appropriate. After all, it is understandable that the raised daughter is married like this. But if it is a rich family, it will be less. The bride's dowry depends on family conditions and local customs. Most people may pay twice as much as the bride price. Because parents love their children dearly, and they are afraid that their daughters will suffer indignities in the past and have no self-confidence, they should hold down the man's head in everything to make their daughters more confident and not afraid of being bullied. If the woman's economic conditions are good, the dowry will generally not be bad. If she has good financial conditions, she will also give her daughter a corresponding dowry, but most of the bride price will be taken away by her daughter as her own private money. After all, bride price and dowry are a little token of parents' affection for their children. If two people really love each other, don't be too entangled. Many families, because of the bride price and dowry, the two originally married people finally parted ways. In marriage, there is always one who is willing to struggle to get married, and there is always one who is weak to live a good life. When it comes to equality, we need two rational people together. Even if two rational people are together, there is not much love. Love can make people confused, because everything makes you willing, even if you are bitter, you will do it just because you like him/her.

How much is the wedding bride price appropriate?

Let's take a look at the reference values of bride price in various places last year:

1. Shanghai 1.2 million, plus a house with a total value of one million.

2. Tianjin 80,000, plus a house with a total value of one million.

3. There are 88,000 boxes in Dongshan Province, with a total value of about 500,000, plus the change fee, three gold, and the house down payment.

4. 50,000 in Qinghai, plus a house with a total value of about 500,000.

5. There are 6,543,800 people in rural areas and 6,543,800 people in urban areas in Zhejiang.

6. Hubei120,000 cases

7. Fujian 65438+ 10,000, plus three gold, the total value is about 1 10000.

8. Shanxi 90,000

9. 80,000 cases in Gansu

10. 60,000 cases in Jiangsu.

Tibet 1 1.5 million cases

12. 40,000 cases in Henan.

13. 30,000 cases in Shaanxi

Of course, if you don't mean the region, you can also refer to auspicious numbers. The meaningful figures are as follows:

1. One in a million: 1000 1

2. One in a million: 10007

3. Two companies send it together: 2 1800

4. Send it to three families together: 3 1800 yuan.

5. Stability: 48,000.

6. Shunfa: 68,000 yuan.

7. Development: 88,000 yuan

8. Perfect:100000.

9. Three Jin and three Liang: due to the difference between the old and new RMB, it is about RMB 13 yuan. 6- 14。 Thirty thousand

10. Colorful Green: Colorful (10000 5 yuan); Hong Qian (1000 pieces 100 yuan); A piece of green (60050 yuan) and a piece of * * * 1.8 million.

What's the difference between bride price and dowry?

1. Bride gift

In China's traditional wedding customs, there is a classic saying of "six rites", which refers to the six links in the wedding customs, namely "receiving gifts, asking names, receiving gifts, dating and meeting". The bride price we often talk about now is actually accepting the bride price levied by the six major wedding customs. The traditional signing ceremony is that both men and women have a good impression on each other, and after calculating the information such as birthdays, the two sides reach a relatively certain engagement. At this time, the man can take the bride price items to the woman's house for a ceremony. Simply put, when you are both ready to get married, before the formal wedding ceremony, the gift from the man to the woman is the bride price. There used to be many kinds of bride price, such as gold coins, clothes, jewelry, furniture or wedding cakes. Now the form of bride price is relatively fixed, generally from gold coins, houses, cars to choose from. Conditional families will also buy some small items such as furniture.

2. Dowry

Dowry, dowry, makeup, dowry, etc. Dowry refers to what a woman's parents prepare for her daughter when her children get married, which may be a house, a car or furniture. The choice of dowry will vary according to local customs. There are two main considerations in the formation of dowry. The first reason is the woman's parents' subsidy for her daughter's new life. When children form a new family, at the beginning, there will definitely be times of financial stress. The dowry given by parents can be used as a daughter's home to help the new family get on the right track as soon as possible. Another reason is that the woman's parents consider her daughter's position in her husband's family. In the past, under the patriarchal ideology, the bride's dowry would affect the husband's family's attention to this new wife to a certain extent. If a woman has a small dowry, she is likely to be despised in her new home. On the contrary, a heavy dowry will give great confidence to the new daughter-in-law who marries the man's family. In the past and now, dowry is often the woman's private property. In the past, if a woman's dowry was invaded, it was a very immoral thing. At present, dowry is the property purchased by women before marriage, not the property of husband and wife. If it is time for divorce, there will be many conditions for the return of the bride price, but the dowry belonging to the woman will generally be supported by the court.