How to face the excessive care and control of parents and how to get rid of "abnormal love"?

In the face of parents' excessive care and control, we should get rid of "abnormal love": because we care too much about our parents, we should be generous and adopt the strategy of understanding them emotionally. After all, the two generations have different thoughts, and sometimes their thoughts can't be consistent with his, but what I want to say can't be denied without a vote. Parents and they are all for your own good. On the surface, everyone listens to them. Many parents take too much care of us because they don't believe that we can take care of ourselves. Therefore, it is necessary to show parents that they have this ability.

For example, when people work in other places, they often cook their own meals, show their clean and tidy living environment, cultivate themselves at work and have a stable lover. And give parents more money to spend on ........................................................................................................................, but where can there be no twists and turns in daily life? This is why many friends who work in other places choose to avoid the importance of their parents. Parents love their children very much, but some parents pay too much attention to their children and ignore their inner rejection, and even some parents always want to take their children into their own hands. Isn't that good? In that case, how can parents not pay much attention to themselves? Keep in touch with your parents.

Some young people feel relaxed when they are working outside or studying and training. They can freely indulge their daily life and rarely contact their relatives. This is also very bad, and relatives are very easy to worry about their own affairs. Therefore, it is necessary to understand that contacting parents immediately is the only way to make parents feel more at ease in their lives. Try to learn to be filial to parents, especially when parents are getting older, learn to pay attention to what may happen in their daily lives, and then be filial in spirit and material, which will make parents feel more at ease. Therefore, we should pay more attention to our parents' daily life and get to know them better.