In 1993, Feng Xiaogang and Xu Fan fell in love. Why did his wife Zhang Di choose to divorce six years later?

In 1983, Feng Xiaogang retired from the army and worked as a trade union officer at Beijing Urban Construction and Development Corporation. His daily job was propaganda, pulling banners and posting slogans. His life was extremely boring and boring.

Feng Xiaogang, who was not very educated and didn't like reading very much, was in a daze all day long. What would a poor boy think about? Of course it’s money and beauty. Zheng Xiaolong once said: "At that time, Feng Xiaogang had a dream to build a big fort on the side of the road, collect tolls, and then drag all the girls in."

Feng Xiaogang is indeed Feng Xiaogang, even his ideas are different from others It's different. Da Dao's hobbies are indeed unique. 1984 can be called the year when smoke erupted from Feng Xiaogang’s ancestral grave. Met two noble people in my life in succession.

Zhang Di had a cousin-in-law who was a colleague of Feng Xiaogang. One day, Zhang Di went to visit relatives and happened to run into Feng Xiaogang. Feng Xiaogang stared directly at Zhang Di. It is no exaggeration to say that he fell in love at first sight. In today's words, "When I met her, I even thought about where my children would go to school."

There are many things in this world. Things are very coincidental. Zhang Di's cousin-in-law and Feng Xiaogang are good buddies, so they naturally add fuel to the fire. As the saying goes, it is better to demolish ten temples than destroy one marriage. Through the help of colleagues, Feng Xiaogang and Zhang Di got acquainted smoothly and got together.

The man is affectionate and the concubine is interested. Do you have a partner? No, do you have it? Neither did I. Why don't we give it a try? Feng Xiaogang directly captured Zhang Di's heart with three strokes, five divisions and two divisions.

Zhang Di is a nurse in the hospital. She is not rich or noble, but at least stable. Sometimes, when you look at Feng Xiaogang's appearance, you may joke that, in Feng Gong's words, "the two front teeth are like small shovels." He is indeed very capable of finding a wife.

In that era, there was no concept or word of flash marriage. For Feng Xiaogang, acquaintance meant falling in love. He directly received the marriage certificate and held a wedding. Only then did Feng Xiaogang feel that life was a little more interesting, and the fun had just begun.

In the same year, Feng Xiaogang also met his brother Zheng Xiaolong, who was also the deputy director of the Beijing TV Drama Art Center. Feng Xiaogang was directly transferred to the Beijing Television Art Center by Zheng Xiaolong, completing a magnificent change in his identity.

Zheng Xiaolong is Feng Xiaogang’s leader and benefactor. In a simple word, without Zheng Xiaolong in the past, there would be no Director Feng in the future. There was also an episode in the acquaintance between Zheng Xiaolong and Feng Xiaogang. Feng Xiaogang almost fell in love with Zheng Xiaolong's woman. Could it be that "I treat you as a brother, but you think about my woman"? The plot was really caught off guard.

Imagine that Feng Xiaogang could defeat Zheng Xiaolong, any reputable character, and it would be really easy to conquer Zhang Di. But within a year, after meeting two important people in his life, the ancestral graves of Feng Xiaogang's family may have been "burnt".

Back to the main story, we can no longer tease such an interesting Director Feng. In fact, the marriage between Feng Xiaogang and Zhang Di did not go so smoothly. At least Zhang Di's parents opposed it. The reason is very simple. Feng Xiaogang's literary and artistic work is not stable at all. The key is that the family is still a small shabby house of more than 40 square meters. How to live.

Zhang Di is a stubborn person. She doesn’t like to listen to what her parents say and insists on getting married. No one can stop her. Although their life is a bit rough, the two still talk and laugh. The human world is still sweeter than living alone.

In 1990, Zhang Di gave birth to Feng Xiaogang’s daughter Feng Siyu. This should have been a cause for celebration, but Feng Siyu suffered from congenital cleft lip and palate, and Feng Xiaogang was not happy at all.

During that time, Feng Xiaogang was working hard to make money and didn’t think about anything else. After working hard for more than a year, Feng Xiaogang finally saved up the surgery fee when his daughter was more than one year old. Once the surgery was done, Feng Siyu just waited for recovery.

After the family matters were settled, Feng Xiaogang’s career began to shine. Through Zheng Xiaolong's introduction, Feng Xiaogang also met Wang Shuo. The "Editor's Story" they participated in produced became very popular, and Feng Xiaogang became somewhat famous.

After becoming famous, Feng Xiaogang began to feel a little restless, and his little thoughts began to become unbearable. In 1992, Zheng Xiaolong and Feng Xiaogang once again collaborated on "The Big Sake", with Xu Fan as the heroine.

Strictly speaking, the first meeting between Xu Fan and Feng Xiaogang was not that pleasant. After the filming of "Big Sword" was completed, director Xia Gang asked Feng Xiaogang to see how the filming went. After watching it, Feng Xiaogang said: "Everything was good, except for the heroine.

Ge You next to him whispered to Feng Xiaogang: "There's someone sitting in the back!" ”

Feng Xiaogang suddenly realized that he had messed up something. When he looked back, Xu Fan had already left the scene. But when "The Big Thing" was officially finished, Feng Xiaogang officially met Xu Fan and said: “More than a bit prettier than in the movie. "Is this another reversal of polarity?

Feng Xiaogang was indeed attracted to Xu Fan, completely ignoring the fact that he still had a married wife at home. Feng Xiaogang appeared at the right time. At that time, Xu Fan was kicked out of the house by Wang Zhiwen , I can’t disclose the reason, but the emotional pain is definitely there.

Feng Xiaogang is still a little self-aware and feels that he may not be sure of pursuing Xu Fan alone, so he asks his good brother Wang Shuo for advice in this regard. He has quite a lot of experience, and Feng Xiaogang watched the heated fight with Xu Jinglei.

After Wang Shuo’s guidance, Feng Xiaogang suddenly became enlightened and said with emotion: “It turns out these are the two of them.” The two were happy. It was like learning some important secret.

Feng Xiaogang called the sad Xu Fan and invited her to dinner and watch a drama. On the surface, it was to help Xu Fan relieve his mood, but in fact, he wanted Xu Fan to focus on him. In the 1990s, eating and chatting may really become good friends or partners. The biggest reason may be that the best way to forget a relationship is to start over.

Lonely men and widows often come to you. I only wanted to have good feelings for each other, not to become close friends. After "Big Saba" was nominated for five Golden Rooster Awards and returned home with great success, Feng Xiaogang and Xu Fan officially fell in love. That year was 1993, and Feng Xiaogang and Zhang Di were only 9 years old. Years ago, her daughter Feng Siyu was only three years old.

Xu Fan knew that Feng Xiaogang had a family and knew that what she did was a bit immoral, but she loved Feng Xiaogang wholeheartedly. Later, Xu Fan said: "Feng Xiaogang treats me. He is more than just a partner. To be more precise, he is my lifelong benefactor. He adopted my heart when I was most sad. "It seems that Director Feng's charm is quite big.

The entertainment industry is so big, no one knows about any troubles, and Zhang Di is not stupid. She has no idea what Feng Xiaogang has done. Why, I still heard about it, but Zhang Di did not make a big fuss with Feng Xiaogang, but remained as calm as ever, as if nothing happened.

Seeing Zhang Di so calm, Feng Xiaogang couldn't help it. , she took the initiative to propose a divorce, but Zhang Di refused. Some people thought that Zhang Di’s behavior was incredible? What’s the point of staying with Feng Xiaogang? In fact, Zhang Di had her own ideas.

Feng Siyu. She was still young, so Zhang Di didn't want her children to live in a broken family, and she always felt that Feng Xiaogang was just trying to be fresh and would definitely change his mind. But to Zhang Di's disappointment, Feng Xiaogang had one foot out of the house and had no intention of looking back. . In the end, Zhang Di chose to bow her head. In 1999, she and Feng Xiaogang went through the divorce procedures hastily.

Zhang Di's behavior was quite similar to Zhang Yimou's ex-wife Xiao Hua, who was a newly divorced woman. Feng Xiaogang married Xu Fan. After waiting for Feng Xiaogang for 6 years, Xu Fan was also an extraordinary woman. However, after Zhang Di left Feng Xiaogang, she did not marry anyone else.

As for the rights and wrongs of Feng Xiaogang's marriage, Zhang Di has no idea. The comments are not slanderous, she is still living quietly, just like before the divorce. And Feng Xiaogang and Xu Fan have been in true love for 21 years, and each of them is running towards a different life, and the past has disappeared into a wisp of smoke. trace.