Don’t become parents and forget that you were once a child too.

Every week when my son goes to school, I get up at six o'clock in the morning, wash my face, brush my teeth, and prepare meals for my son. After cooking, I finish eating first and then wake my son up to get dressed. In order to let him sleep a little longer.

Because I have never dared to drive, and I get nervous when I see crowds of people, so even after several years of studying for a driver’s license, it can only become a decoration.

I can’t drive, but fortunately I have become very skilled in riding electric bikes. From the very beginning when I passed the traffic light intersection, my little heart was pounding non-stop. Now when I pass the traffic light intersection, my expression does not change and my heart does not beat. I have finally bid farewell to the ranks of novice electric bike drivers.

In fact, you will find that it is not that you cannot do many things, but that you lack certain exercises and skills. The so-called skill is deep, even an iron pestle can be ground into a needle. In addition, without dependence, you can also become brave.

Every time I go out on an electric bike, I always put a thin down jacket on my son, even if it is only late autumn. Because riding an electric car is no better than driving a car. The open-air convertible does not have the comfort and protection from wind and rain of a car, so it can only be beaten mercilessly by the wind. Therefore, the issue of keeping warm must be taken care of as soon as possible.

Every time my son gets on an electric car, he always hugs me from behind with his two little hands. I also didn’t forget to zip up the jacket I was wearing inside out.

My son said that he was afraid that his mother would be cold, so he always hugged me tightly so that her mother would not be cold.

I saw my son’s two little hands holding me tightly against the wind on my lower abdomen, and I said to the baby distressedly: “Son, hide your little hands in your sleeves, don’t Expose it, otherwise Granny Feng will freeze your little hands. It’s okay if mom is cold, but she can’t freeze you.

The son said: “Mom, you can’t freeze either, or I will feel bad. of. "Listening to my son's words, I don't know why, although the backs of my hands are cold from holding the handlebars, my heart feels warm. What a good child! How sensible, so sensible that it makes people feel bad! I think about how I always yell at him. , reprimanded him, and felt even more guilty.

Also on the way to send his son to school on an electric bicycle, his son suddenly said: Don't forget that you were also a child when you became a parent. ! I was quite shocked when I heard this, and I asked my baby, "Why did you say such a thing suddenly?" Who taught you this? "My son said that he was sitting in the back seat and saw a placard on the roadside with this sentence written on it.

My son's words made me start to reflect on myself. Reflection How I usually have no patience to accompany my children, reflect on how I often teach my children, reflect on how I often suppress my children... At that moment, the regret in my heart suddenly came up.

I said it every time. Before a child is born, he will choose his mother in heaven.

I told this story to my son. My son took it very seriously. He stared at me with a pair of innocent little eyes and asked: "Mom, is this really the case?" Of? Is every child’s mother chosen in heaven? How do they know which mother is good and which mother is bad? ”

Yes, how can a child have the right to make his own choices the moment he is born? It is entirely based on the parents’ wishful thinking that they are brought into the world. As for how to raise children, then There are huge differences. Some people’s childhood is carefree and happy, while some people’s childhood is simply a nightmare.

I once read a passage by Fan Deng on Douyin, which touched me deeply. .

Each of us needs many years of study to get that diploma. Even if we want to work in society, an engineer needs an engineering qualification certificate to engage in this industry.

Parents have brought their children into this world, but no parent has taken the exam for a parent qualification certificate, so they just started with no experience at all.

This is our education in China!

The reason why there are so many child abuse incidents in society is because many parents cannot even control themselves, so who are they qualified to control a child? Some parents are simply not worthy of being parents. It's just a little more advanced than the original animals.

Don’t forget that you were once a child when you become a parent! You and I *mian!