How do kindergarten teachers write children's comments?

1. Who is the comment addressed to? Most people think this comment is directed at parents. In our opinion, comments should be directed at both parents and children. Comment on children. We should let parents know all aspects of the child through comments, and let the child know the teacher's affirmation and expectation as a listener with the help of parents. Many times, parents attach great importance to kindergarten teachers' comments on their children and will read them to their children, so that they can realize their own advantages and disadvantages and inspire them to do better. Since comments are for parents and children, our comments should be considered from two aspects. 1) Make parents willing to accept that parents are the main readers of children's comments. We must consider whether the words used in our comments can be understood and accepted by parents and whether they can attract their attention. Common evaluative language, such as obeying rules and loving learning, is simple, but it is well used and tasteless. For most children, it has no personality, and parents can't clearly understand what kind of state their children are performing. Comments should show some typical examples of children, so that parents can see the specific performance of children, and at the same time, combined with the situation of children, skillfully put forward the problems that need attention and specific operational suggestions. Only such comments can attract the attention of parents, help parents understand their children, reach an understanding with teachers, and actively cooperate with teachers to educate their children on the basis of * * *. 2) Let children know that their understanding of language and writing is limited, so the language used in comments should be as simple and easy to understand as possible and full of emotion. Look at you dancing like a beautiful little peacock. Your smiling face lights up the hearts of teachers and children like the sun. You are our Xiao Zhi star. No matter what problems you have, your similar language can make children feel the teacher's affirmation and love for them. We often say that children's hearts are made of glass. Therefore, if you want to put forward expectations and requirements for children in comments, the language must be euphemistic and measured, which can not only let children know what they need to improve, but also hurt their immature self-esteem. For example, when the teacher asks questions, how happy the teacher should be if he can see your little hand held high! If you can let the small chair listen to you quietly, then your skill is great! In short, there are the following requirements for the language of comments: first, the examples mentioned are specific and typical; Second, the text is concise and full of emotion; Third, the evaluation has the pertinence of trust and encouragement; Fourth, the suggestions are targeted and operable, and the implementation varies from person to person. 1) The little darling in free development always wants to interrupt in class without raising his hand, and it is useless for the teacher to remind him many times; Dongdong saw a lovely animal doll in the performance area next to him. He immediately threw away the chef's hat and ran to grab the doll from the children, saying that his story was the best. He should teach other children to perform children who are smart, lively, responsive, very active and lack of self-control ability. He has strong language skills, is willing to actively communicate with others and likes to express himself, but he always forgets the rules to meet his own needs, so he often brings trouble to others. Such children are the darling of the family, and their parents, especially grandparents, give them too much love, and their ideas and demands always come first. Therefore, they tend to be self-centered, have poor awareness of rules, and cannot be well integrated into the collective. We hope that children can maintain a positive performance, but we also hope that children can develop a certain sense of rules through family cooperation and learn to have others in their hearts. Therefore, our evaluation of Dongdong is: in your study, your response is always very fast and often surprises us; You have a wide range of interests in the game. You can make your game more interesting if you listen carefully to other children's ideas. 2) Mimosa cultivated indoors loves art activities. Whenever he chooses painting, paper-cutting and kneading mud, he sits in a small chair and devotes himself to painting and paper-cutting. However, his works are really good and often attract some children's onlookers. Everyone asked him enviously how to draw and how to do it, but at this time, Meng Meng always looked up at the children and his works alternately blankly, rubbing his hands nervously. The teacher encouraged Meng Meng to tell everyone what he had done boldly, but Meng Meng mumbled softly, so that no one among his companions could hear what he said clearly. Most of these children appear in middle and small classes, have certain specialties and obvious interests, and have been recognized by their peers in this respect. However, they tend to be single-minded. Except for their favorite activities, they are not very active in other activities and are not good at communicating with others, so they are not generous and confident enough. As teachers, we are happy that our children are good at something; At the same time, I am also worried about my own shortcomings. Modern fast-paced social life leads many young parents to be busy with work and seldom take their children out. In addition, some grandparents overprotect their children and imprison them, which makes them lose the opportunity to communicate with their peers while being bullied by others. In the past, these children would spend more time immersed in their own world with personal interests as a shield, which was extremely unfavorable to their social development. Therefore, it is necessary for us to remind parents to pay attention to this problem and improve their communication skills through family cooperation. 3) Young people who appreciate education often appear in large classes, such smart and capable children who are proud and can't afford to lose. They think they are great, but they don't care about others' feelings when they need sympathy and help; When others surpass them in some ways, they will be jealous and lose their temper. Nowadays, many parents attach great importance to appreciation education, creating many learning opportunities for their children and making them better than their peers in many aspects. What they hear most is the praise from their parents: you are great! Our baby is the smartest! In the long run, such children have become accustomed to success, full of longing for future success, and are not allowed to fail or even accept the success of others. Such children lack correct communication methods and often appear among their peers in a condescending manner. He became a leader in a group with weak ability, but when he got along with his peers with similar ability, his peers often stayed away from him because they only cared about their own ideas and could not achieve cooperation. In short, although such children are very capable, their psychological development is not perfect enough. For children who are in a critical period of character formation, this is worthy of the attention of Laojiu Money and their parents. So our evaluation of Cheng Cheng is: Wei Wei, you are really a smart and capable little man. No matter what you do, you can make up your own mind and always win the game. The teacher is very proud of you. The teacher recommended that you read the story "The Race between the Tortoise and the Rabbit" with your mother. Then you can use your intelligence to make up stories and imagine yourself as a rabbit. What will happen if you find yourself at a fork in the road? You know, actually everyone around us has his unique advantages. Do you know what great skills mom and dad have? You can find out what is the greatest skill of everyone in our class. Do a small survey and tell the teacher. The teacher is also very curious. The comments are full of teachers' deep love and understanding for children. It can describe children's personality characteristics in just a few hundred words, and it can also bring confidence and encouragement to children. It can also let parents know the advantages and disadvantages of their children in the eyes of teachers, and make clear the direction and operable methods that need attention in future family education. Successful and effective comments will be an indispensable bridge in family education, which will have a multiplier effect.